Unlocking my wife's BBC desires through porn.....

[Averagepeck]

So I've been a member here for a few years lurking and figured it was about time to post.

I believe my wife of nearly 10 years has a secret desire for BBC but she is conservative so she would never consent to bringing one into the bedroom. But I've been trying to open her up( literally and figuratively) both through BBC dildos and having mandingo vids in the background sometimes when we fuck. I can tell it fascinates her because she gets extra wet in those situations but if I ask her about it after the fact she plays it off like its no big deal.

I don't know if it's shes playing it off as to spare my feelings or if it's all in my head. I can put sometimes 6-7 fingers in her and most times we have sex she will ask me to squeeze her ass in order to create a tighter fit so it's very obvious to me that a bigger cock would serve her needs better( I'm about 6 1/2 on a good day and about 5" thick).

I'm not sure what I'm asking. I guess I'm interested in knowing how many here have used this method and if they were successful. And in the absence of a live body, is a BBC dildo in the bedroom still some form of cuckolding, if only in terms of underlying intent? I admitted to her about a month ago that I enjoy the feeling of following her dildo and how loose she feels, so she already is aware on some level of this fetish. And she didnt recoil so I at least have that going for me lol. Thanks for any replies in advance.

 

[Smudger]

So I've been a member here for a few years lurking and figured it was about time to post.

I believe my wife of nearly 10 years has a secret desire for BBC but she is conservative so she would never consent to bringing one into the bedroom. But I've been trying to open her up( literally and figuratively) both through BBC dildos and having mandingo vids in the background sometimes when we fuck. I can tell it fascinates her because she gets extra wet in those situations but if I ask her about it after the fact she plays it off like its no big deal.

I don't know if it's shes playing it off as to spare my feelings or if it's all in my head. I can put sometimes 6-7 fingers in her and most times we have sex she will ask me to squeeze her ass in order to create a tighter fit so it's very obvious to me that a bigger cock would serve her needs better( I'm about 6 1/2 on a good day and about 5" thick).

I'm not sure what I'm asking. I guess I'm interested in knowing how many here have used this method and if they were successful. And in the absence of a live body, is a BBC dildo in the bedroom still some form of cuckolding, if only in terms of underlying intent? I admitted to her about a month ago that I enjoy the feeling of following her dildo and how loose she feels, so she already is aware on some level of this fetish. And she didnt recoil so I at least have that going for me lol. Thanks for any replies in advance.

How did you introduce the dildo- and a black one at that?

 

[J&L456]

My wife has been curious about a BBC experience but, has been reluctant to do it for real as well. We have role played it with me using a large extender and then after she has a few orgasms, I do her with my own equipment, sliding around in her expanded pussy.

 

[Averagepeck]

How did you introduce the dildo- and a black one at that?

Some years back I put my feelers out by joking about her taking the BAM dildo and she was fine with the idea and said she'd never feel me again lol. But anyways one day I brought her home a 9" BBC dildo and introduced it that night with her blindfolded so she didnt know what was coming. I used it on her and she came in about 2 mins( she hardly ever orgasms vaginally and always needs clit stimulation when shes grinding me on top to cum). Once the lights were on her eyes lit up when she saw what I had fucked her with. Having her fuck something like that or maybe bigger isnt a hurdle.

 

[Smudger]

Some years back I put my feelers out by joking about her taking the BAM dildo and she was fine with the idea and said she'd never feel me again lol. But anyways one day I brought her home a 9" BBC dildo and introduced it that night with her blindfolded so she didnt know what was coming. I used it on her and she came in about 2 mins( she hardly ever orgasms vaginally and always needs clit stimulation when shes grinding me on top to cum). Once the lights were on her eyes lit up when she saw what I had fucked her with. Having her fuck something like that or maybe bigger isnt a hurdle.

Sounds fantastic. And the fact she open to dildo and enjoyed shows she's keen for bigger

 

[Smudger]

My wife has been curious about a BBC experience but, has been reluctant to do it for real as well. We have role played it with me using a large extender and then after she has a few orgasms, I do her with my own equipment, sliding around in her expanded pussy.

What extender you use, did you suggest extender?

 

[J&L456]

Lovehoney...Their Mega Mighty 3 extender with the ball loop...very comfortable material......you can get them in clear or in black.

 

[J&L456]

What extender you use, did you suggest extender?

Lovehoney...Their Mega Mighty 3 extender with the ball loop...very comfortable material......you can get them in clear or in black.

 

[HITGIRLY]

We started with porn

 

[bigfly99]

I’ve been using a very comfortable, very reliable harness that we can interchange with different sized hollow dildos. I started modestly, then “upgraded” to a bigger one (about 7 1/2 inches insertable length, according to the box)
It’s a white dildo, just like the first, but my wife’s reaction to the bigger, more girthy size was immediate.
The obvious next step would seem to be an even bigger, black dildo...and then cross my fingers that she will respond accordingly.
There’s a 9-incher that hopefully will do the trick.
The first time we used the 71/2 -inch one, she moaned and made sounds like I’ve never heard from her before, and she bucked her hips on it like she was in heat. I made it a point to tell her that I saw how turned on she was by the bigger size.

 

[Simonsophia]

I’ve been using a very comfortable, very reliable harness that we can interchange with different sized hollow dildos. I started modestly, then “upgraded” to a bigger one (about 7 1/2 inches insertable length, according to the box)
It’s a white dildo, just like the first, but my wife’s reaction to the bigger, more girthy size was immediate.
The obvious next step would seem to be an even bigger, black dildo...and then cross my fingers that she will respond accordingly.
There’s a 9-incher that hopefully will do the trick.
The first time we used the 71/2 -inch one, she moaned and made sounds like I’ve never heard from her before, and she bucked her hips on it like she was in heat. I made it a point to tell her that I saw how turned on she was by the bigger size.

You want to meet Sophia and flirt with her

 

[Couple4you]

You might try reading erotic short stories to each other. Start by chatting about what scenarios might interest each of you, keep it fun and relaxed and after you’ve done a few you can introduce a some BBC content when you read one to her (if it didn’t come up in the initial conversation already).

 

[Averagepeck]

Sounds fantastic. And the fact she open to dildo and enjoyed shows she's keen for bigger

I should have said earlier, shes actually had a BBC before in a earlier relationship but she downplays it. My main goals are for her to openly embrace it, talk about how they feel without worrying about it impacting my feelings which I think is why she plays coy. Two nights ago she was riding me while watching a mandingo vid, she locked on the screen for a few minutes but didnt say much.

She actually came to me yesterday afternoon and whispered in my ear 'you like me watching big cocks, do you' in this flirty voice with a big smile. So she's not completely oblivious.

 

[Smudger]

I should have said earlier, shes actually had a BBC before in a earlier relationship but she downplays it. My main goals are for her to openly embrace it, talk about how they feel without worrying about it impacting my feelings which I think is why she plays coy. Two nights ago she was riding me while watching a mandingo vid, she locked on the screen for a few minutes but didnt say much.

She actually came to me yesterday afternoon and whispered in my ear 'you like me watching big cocks, do you' in this flirty voice with a big smile. So she's not completely oblivious.

yeah she picked up on your interest for sure

 

[Smudger]

Finally used a BBC on my wife, she cum in 5 minutes and her pussy was soaked

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[Averagepeck]

Year bump: so two nights ago I finally admitted to my wife straight up that I fantasize seeing her with a bigger cock. I've tried the trick of BBC porn and dildos but she didnt budge and I was too cowardly to just come out with it. Well I said fuck it and went for broke. Her reply was surprisingly lighthearted ' hmmm, as long as he doesnt hurt lol'. Now... my wife and I discussed 3somes a few years ago but ( on her end) it seemed a bridge too far.

So taking her comment above, I guess the next step is to follow up and see if that was just a joking reply or if there is some potential there. But, I also basically admitted to her that I enjoy following up a bigger dildo, feeling small and wanted her to know I'm fine with her expressing candid feedback ( I cant feel you, I could use a huge cock right now, etc etc). There are times when my wife is so wet and tented that I just slide in effortless and get totally lost. In such moments she will say something like ' can you feel anything' or 'close my legs so its tighter for you'. I take that as code for she doesnt feel anything but shes being the dutiful wife and protecting my ego. There was one memorable night where we were playing with the dildo and I must have gotten like 6-7 fingers in her. She came like crazy, then made me beg her to fuck her saying ' I'm satisfied already so what can you do for me now?'

 

[Averagepeck]

Update:

Hello everyone, so about 2 years ago I admitted to my wife that I had a desire to see her with a bigger man. Like many vanilla monogamous minded wives, she couldn't understand why a man would want to see someone else fuck his wife, especially a bigger one. I explained to her that I'm not possessive and feel like as long as its consensual, a woman should be able to experience as much pleasure as she can even if its beyond what her male partner can achieve on his own. Basically I said my ego isnt wrapped up in being her sole means of pleasure. She said that when we have sex ( which has been decreasing over the last few years) she was happy with it, but if we wanted to take that route it would have to be a long way down the road as she felt we needed to continue working on our relationship building it to a level where we could bring another man in.

And that was the last time it was ever discussed. Until.....

This past weekend, I wrote my wife a lengthy letter about our lives. We have become stuck in a rut where the sex has all but dried up. My wife, 47, has a sex drive multiple times that of mine and could fuck multiple times daily if I could keep up with that. Anyways, within the content of the letter, among other things that are immaterial to the relevant part for this board, I went full on how much I enjoy seeing a hung man fuck a woman, and that fantasy had preceded our marriage. I told her about how much I loved big cock porn especially with Mandingo, how an ex had told me about a 10 inch guy she had been with before me, and how much the idea of her being with a bigger man turned me on. I admitted to her that I got off on the idea that there were moments where I felt she was too wet for me and felt like she needed something bigger, but like a protective wife she didnt want to outright admit such.

So, after a slight pause, she says paraphrasing ' the times when I get really wet and slippery, I wish you would go deeper'( for the record I'm about 6.5-7 but I guess in terms of insertable length it's an inch less than those numbers). So I ask her 'so basically in that situation you basically need a longer cock then'.

'Yes.'

Thats all I wanted, the outright admission instead of the 'you're more than good enough for me babe' half truths she would say before. So I said 'well if that's the case, let's get in some big dildo play and see where it goes ( she has an 8 inch white dildo but I'd like to go for a 9 or bigger BBC one). She says 'ok but how will that work if I want to feel you as my husband and not just a piece of silicon?' My reply ' well since I have a long refraction period and we always end the session( it's usually one round, albeit a good 20 mins or so) with you wanting more, why not let me do my thing first and when you're now fully wet and wide open from either your orgasm or my cum, the dildo can be my back up for round 2 and beyond.' It was like a light bulb went off in her head 'oh yeah, that works!'

So this all led to her saying ' at this point, I'm at the fuck it stage. I just want pleasure so we can bring someone in, but let's work on it and where we gonna find someone?' I said 'I don't know? But let's get you fully in that space and then we can go on the hunt'. So our next move is going to our local adult shop and getting a BBC dildo and then let the races begin.

Now, my wife initially 2 years ago was hesitant but was like 'maybe we can work up to it'. But this time felt different. The basically dead bedroom, her sexual needs not being fulfilled in a way I think she deserves, it's all coming to a head and she is evolving past the idea of monogamy and just wanting pleasure, wherever she can find it and with my blessing. There was no sense of cating that we maintain the monogamous nature of the marriage, just a middle aged woman whose ready to put her needs above whatever ego she thought she was protecting.

The story continues, and I hope to continue updating you with new developments. But as I am learning, these things can often take years from the time the seed is planted.

 

[jessicahorton]

So I've been a member here for a few years lurking and figured it was about time to post.

I believe my wife of nearly 10 years has a secret desire for BBC but she is conservative so she would never consent to bringing one into the bedroom. But I've been trying to open her up( literally and figuratively) both through BBC dildos and having mandingo vids in the background sometimes when we fuck. I can tell it fascinates her because she gets extra wet in those situations but if I ask her about it after the fact she plays it off like its no big deal.

I don't know if it's shes playing it off as to spare my feelings or if it's all in my head. I can put sometimes 6-7 fingers in her and most times we have sex she will ask me to squeeze her ass in order to create a tighter fit so it's very obvious to me that a bigger cock would serve her needs better( I'm about 6 1/2 on a good day and about 5" thick).

I'm not sure what I'm asking. I guess I'm interested in knowing how many here have used this method and if they were successful. And in the absence of a live body, is a BBC dildo in the bedroom still some form of cuckolding, if only in terms of underlying intent? I admitted to her about a month ago that I enjoy the feeling of following her dildo and how loose she feels, so she already is aware on some level of this fetish. And she didnt recoil so I at least have that going for me lol. Thanks for any replies in advance.

This was similar to how I got turned onto the idea of bbc. It was a friend who I later dated and now back to friends with. He showed me more than bbc and some really kinky things. I was his “girl opinion” but I’d go back and look more BBC stuff up when I got home. Eventually I shared with him that it really turned me on but it took a while for me to be brave enough to share my kinks with him. Looking back, it was silly and would have been more fun at that age just to be open. I’m sure it “worked” and your girl most definitely has BBC on her mind if you showed her the pleasure to be had.

 

[Averagepeck]

This was similar to how I got turned onto the idea of bbc. It was a friend who I later dated and now back to friends with. He showed me more than bbc and some really kinky things. I was his “girl opinion” but I’d go back and look more BBC stuff up when I got home. Eventually I shared with him that it really turned me on but it took a while for me to be brave enough to share my kinks with him. Looking back, it was silly and would have been more fun at that age just to be open. I’m sure it “worked” and your girl most definitely has BBC on her mind if you showed her the pleasure to be had.

hi there, thanks for replying. What do you think of my last post? I believe its getting closer to reality...