One of my reservations about going down the road being with a black man is the saying "once you have gone black......" How much truth is it in? I love sex - and only been with white men. Living in Norway, as well as being married to a white man, there are not many opportunities to meet with the right black men. So if I did go with a black man, I fear that I will not enjoy ex with white men as much anymore. Is there anything in it?