why should we care if people like or dislike what we say and people who post thumbs down should consider why they do it after all our society would be thumbs down on everything on this site. a lot of people think they are different because they have a certain outlook but in reality they are just like the people they claim not to want to be like. If one has any backbone they will be open and not depend on their pictures
THE TERM “BBC”,
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This made me laugh, genuinely not in a patronising way.
However, no way am I trying to or hoping to police porn titles. All of the major porn companies are owned by white men and created for the white gaze so I’m hardly expecting to see such titles. It is what it is. I can choose to watch watch or not watch. Context is everything. Even in the swinging world, I personally don’t want to be in conversation with someone who flippantly says, “I’m meeting a BBC tomorrow night?” Each to their own but that aint for me.
Correct! Most don't understand what it means anyway, but by calling someone a BBC, it means they are a dick, not a human. They may have a BBC, but most are ABC anyway
I've thought before that some of the comments I've made on this forum could contribute to racism (and *******), and it really upsets me as that isn't what I believe in.
It's very complex and it shouldn't be. I really wonder if I am part of the problem
It's very complex and it shouldn't be. I really wonder if I am part of the problem
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Tbh its the most accurate description of what turns me on. Big black cocks. This is about sex, not your personality. You could be a an absolute asshole, but I will still enjoy the sight of a large black cock, (not saying i would then also have sex with you). Sorry if I come off rude..
Sexual preference is complex but most importantly: Involuntary.
I understand it can feel objectifying. But its what turns me on. Black men with large cocks. That happened to be a popular thing, so we gave it a name. It doesn’t mean that every black man has a large penis. It just means that we have fetishized the ones who do. Just like guys fetishize curvy girls hahaha, doesn't mean all girls have curves, or have to have them.
But I do have to say that a suspicious amouny of people agree that large black cocks are a lot easier to find to large white ones
Sexual preference is complex but most importantly: Involuntary.
I understand it can feel objectifying. But its what turns me on. Black men with large cocks. That happened to be a popular thing, so we gave it a name. It doesn’t mean that every black man has a large penis. It just means that we have fetishized the ones who do. Just like guys fetishize curvy girls hahaha, doesn't mean all girls have curves, or have to have them.
But I do have to say that a suspicious amouny of people agree that large black cocks are a lot easier to find to large white ones
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By all means! You can clearly see that some may have never considered it to be an issue.
This is exactly it. If there are no specific terms to find the type of porn you're looking for, you're going to have to search through pages upon pages of stuff just to find interracial if it's what you are looking for. This will end up hurting the sales of PoC because it will take away the only avenue to easily look up not only your favorite performers content, but especially new up and coming talent. I doubt anyone has ever typed in a porn search "educated black man fucks sweet white wife."
Honestly though with all the people I've met in the lifestyle, I've never heard someone refer to a black man in real life as a BBC, a mandingo or anything like that UNLESS the specific guy was super into it. Some are. With few exceptions every guy I've met I had a good time with both inside and out of the bedroom. A good number of them I consider friends.
I agree 100% The vast majority(about 98% of the whites) view us like that and they only see you as their twisted fantasy & nothing more. I put them in their places if they try to do as such.
I think this thread displays just that.. There are many people who only view black men as a fetish and see no issue with it. The ones seeking black men as sex toys, constantly using terms like bbc, black bred, bull, etc.
There are black men who lean into that, which no shade, if you want to turn it to your advantage.
On the other hand, there are women out there who have had actual full relationships with black men, have black boyfriends or husbands, they're usually the ones avoiding race play terminology since it objectifies people they love.
Something else I've found is the term bbc can be alienating to black men who aren't hung and feel like they're less than because they don't have a porn cock and people just expect that from them. Like their main value as a black man is the size of their dick, which could not be further from the truth.
Dude people also use BWC= BIG WHITE COCK so it is not derogatory in any since people take ******* and blow it way out of context my opinion I see that you would be offended by that BBC is if you actually don't have one period.
BWC and BBC are incomparable, for multiple reasons. I’m not sure of the point you’re trying to make. You’re saying you would only be offended if you DON’T have one?
I no longer will use that abbreviation and I apologize for ever using it. It was wrong and I'm sorry.
I find the term confusing simply because the majority of black men I have met use it and then there is a small amount that take offence to it. I do think it has allot to do with how it's phrased, personally I'd never say I have a BBC coming over to a party because it is almost dehumanising but I don't personally think it is bad to describe the actual cock as a BBC such as wow he has a BBC because it's just factual when a guy does. I do however find it weird that men who do not have length and girth that they still carry on using the term bbc. Personally I stopped using the term just incase it causes offence until the term comes out of the man's mouth.
I have tried to never use that term both in my private life and on here. I also don’t like the term bull for the same reason. I prefer the term boyfriend. I find it a lot more positive a term with out all the sexual side terms.
What about "white boiz" or "snowbunnies" etc ... you NOT ok with those as well?
Can a black woman say BBC though?
How can a cunt be big??? If anyone called me big black cunt they’d receive a slap.Besides BBC = British Broadcasting Corporation
I'm surprised that BBC = Big Black Cunt never took off too?
I guess there are not enough lesbians on here?
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