THE TERM “BBC”,

[tomtomjim]

I agree completely.

I don't appreciate being fetishized or treated like a sex prop and I don't treat other people that way.

I have dated and loved many black men, I've never been in a relationship with a penis.. I don't refer to people by their genitals and, in my experience, the ones who push the "bbc" thing the hardest do so because that's all they think they have to offer and oftentimes their cock really isn't that big.

Sex is great, but it's boring and mechanical if there isn't something more there than just body parts.

what do your pictures say about how you feel and think

 

[avaadore]

what do your pictures say about how you feel and think

I can share my body and still expect to be treated like a human being.

 

[DiscreetBBC1]

I do agree that term is used to fetishized black men and the create this false image that every black man is hung.
i could’ve came up with a different username for myself but I didn’t so that’s on me. But I’m not blind to the connotation attached to it.

 

[tomtomjim]

I can share my body and still expect to be treated like a human being.

of course but we cannot control how others interpret our words or pictures, i assume nothing about you and i enjoy your pictures without judgement , i try to be open and discover how others feel

 

[avaadore]

of course but we cannot control how others interpret our words or pictures, i assume nothing about you and i enjoy your pictures without judgement , i try to be open and discover how others feel

You don't have to assume - my feelings, thoughts and situation are clearly represented in my bio and throughout my post history. I don't mince words and there's pretty much zero way my stance could be misinterpreted.

 

[sever311]

what do your pictures say about how you feel and think

tomtom let me interject for a second..I'm not sure that I'm reading your response to avaadore correctly,so if I'm off base,please forgive me..that said:
You couldn't possibly have the audacity to question someone's morals on a fetish/lifestyle(hate that term)website,could you?
Maybe she should post a thesis on black/white relations,or her degree..that'll get the attention.
The fact of the matter is,as far as I'm concerned,this is not REAL life..this is a dark corner of the internet for like minded people to be Ike minded. To question whether or not a term (BBC) is offensive while for all case and purpose in Fantasyland quite frankly is absurd.
If you don't like the words used..leave the site..it's responses,questions and attitudes like this that are ruining society..everything doesn't have to be PC. Avaadore,the pictures are fantastic..you have a place to stay if you make it to the East Coast.
regards

 

[Jdingo619]

i am past my best before date but i still find it interesting, when i was involved there was little chance to actually chat with others about the why and where and how.. I had a friend in denver who was a bit like you. From my experience there is the fantasy and then the expression of desires. Ever ask yourself why you want to do what you do, feelings are a strange thing

To me sex is not just for procreation but recreation and you do well to get as much recreation as possible. Ever heard of "sport fucking"? Sex is one of life's most pleasant forms of exercise and as much of it as the doctor prescribed for me I will never need another prescription! LOL! Also I am a giver bro. I love bringing love, joy, and peace to other people's lives. Alot of relationships are missing a little bit of all of the above and if I can give someone's relationship a jump start or an injection of the joy that I have that I was put here to give by all means I hope that it pleases them as much as it pleases me to share with them!

Hey man I wish you all the love, joy, and peace in the universe brother! Jay✌

 

[tomtomjim]

To me sex is not just for procreation but recreation and you do well to get as much recreation as possible. Ever heard of "sport fucking"? Sex is one of life's most pleasant forms of exercise and as much of it as the doctor prescribed for me I will never need another prescription! LOL! Also I am a giver bro. I love bringing love, joy, and peace to other people's lives. Alot of relationships are missing a little bit of all of the above and if I can give someone's relationship a jump start or an injection of the joy that I have that I was put here to give by all means I hope that it pleases them as much as it pleases me to share with them!

Hey man I wish you all the love, joy, and peace in the universe brother! Jay✌

i understand you very well and did my share

 

[S6kinkyman]

Speaking from experience, when I was exchanging messages once with a black male I wrote about how I'm a white male who never had a thought of being with another male ever until I found cuckold porn and so forth which led me to be more intrigued by it unfortunately we are all given this term largely by porn films and stories so when I addressed him saying about how I'm becoming more aroused by bbc dominating white boys it was a surprise when he replied many black men dislike the term bbc to which I apologise so some people just may need educating on the situation

 

[tomtomjim]

You don't have to assume - my feelings, thoughts and situation are clearly represented in my bio and throughout my post history. I don't mince words and there's pretty much zero way my stance could be misinterpreted.

if you are interested i can respond to your response but you may not like what i say

 

[tomtomjim]

tomtom let me interject for a second..I'm not sure that I'm reading your response to avaadore correctly,so if I'm off base,please forgive me..that said:
You couldn't possibly have the audacity to question someone's morals on a fetish/lifestyle(hate that term)website,could you?
Maybe she should post a thesis on black/white relations,or her degree..that'll get the attention.
The fact of the matter is,as far as I'm concerned,this is not REAL life..this is a dark corner of the internet for like minded people to be Ike minded. To question whether or not a term (BBC) is offensive while for all case and purpose in Fantasyland quite frankly is absurd.
If you don't like the words used..leave the site..it's responses,questions and attitudes like this that are ruining society..everything doesn't have to be PC. Avaadore,the pictures are fantastic..you have a place to stay if you make it to the East Coast.
regards

you probably did not read it correctly, i have the audacity to respond to anyone however i feel and you do not need my forgiveness and can say whatever you want. This site is part of real life just like watching television is. I can comment or question as much as i like just as anyone else can and should and the others should not get upset if they do not like it. Please tell me why you are responding to my comment since it was not made to you.

 

[tomtomjim]

I first heard this term from a black male and was confused, most men of color always call their penis a dick, but as one who rolls with the flow I’ve begun to use that acronym.

Your post brings awareness to something I’ll now consider before using that term. Boundaries are something we all have and need to understand with our friends. I’m not a fan of having a man call me a bitch, even if we are having the most randy encounter, I’ve been told it’s just a word. Well it’s a word that if you use with me I’ll shut down on you.
☮

do not worry about the words you use just try to have an open relationship with others where they will know how you feel and they will feel comfortable responding or complaining

 

[sever311]

you probably did not read it correctly, i have the audacity to respond to anyone however i feel and you do not need my forgiveness and can say whatever you want. This site is part of real life just like watching television is. I can comment or question as much as i like just as anyone else can and should and the others should not get upset if they do not like it. Please tell me why you are responding to my comment since it was not made to you.

Lemme help you out homie..I didn't request your forgiveness,because fuck you,I don't know you. Second,I responded because I'm free black and over 21 and I can say what I want. Finally,if you're only stable argument is to request confirmation about what the lady's pictures and post confirm,then you're ignorance is only surpassed by your comment about tv being real life..Keep up with the Kardashians.
Kick rocks.

 

[avaadore]

if you are interested i can respond to your response but you may not like what i say

Honestly, I didn't care for your initial thoughts since we have no reason to interact. I'm on this site because I adore black men, I want nothing to do with the whole cuckhold aspect and have little interest in hearing much from that perspective, or hearing what white men think of my relationships or how I choose to share my body. Since you asked.

you probably did not read it correctly, i have the audacity to respond to anyone however i feel and you do not need my forgiveness and can say whatever you want. This site is part of real life just like watching television is. I can comment or question as much as i like just as anyone else can and should and the others should not get upset if they do not like it. Please tell me why you are responding to my comment since it was not made to you.

Did you just assert your right to comment as much as you like and then question someone else doing the same

 

[tomtomjim]

Honestly, I didn't care for your initial thoughts since we have no reason to interact. I'm on this site because I adore black men, I want nothing to do with the whole cuckhold aspect and have little interest in hearing much from that perspective, or hearing what white men think of my relationships or how I choose to share my body. Since you asked.


Did you just assert your right to comment as much as you like and then question someone else doing the same

no i comment and ask and welcome others to do so and if people take offense so be it but we only learn by communicating. If you are only interested in bbc why are you commenting on this post since it has little to do with black men and you, after all this is a chat site not a real life meeting site. You can do your thing without commenting but since you chose to comment you open the topic to further discussion

 

[sever311]

KICK.
ROCKS.

 

[avaadore]

If you are only interested in bbc why are you commenting on this post since it has little to do with black men and you, after all this is a chat site not a real life meeting site. You can do your thing without commenting but since you chose to comment you open the topic to further discussion

You're kidding right? You replied to my comment that said I have zero interest in "bbc" or fetishizing people I have every right to comment on this since it directly impacts the men in my life. What makes you think you have anything to add to the conversation? Are you a black man? Are you married to one? Dating one?

You better give the vast majority of black men the memo that this is a strictly a chat site, since they seem to have very little issue meeting women here. Just because it only serves as a chat site for you, since nobody is interested in meeting an elderly cuck who contributes nothing but inflammatory comments, doesn't mean that's why everyone is here. Regardless, I know it may come as a surprise but I'm fully capable of doing multiple things at once so if I feel I have something to contribute to a discussion, I'll offer it.

You asked if I wanted your opinion, I told you why it's of no consequence. Whether you still offer it or not is your prerogative since it's an open forum. But I'm just as free to put no stock in it.

 

[sever311]

You're kidding right? You replied to my comment that said I have zero interest in "bbc" or fetishizing people I have every right to comment on this since it directly impacts the men in my life. What makes you think you have anything to add to the conversation? Are you a black man? Are you married to one? Dating one?

You better give the vast majority of black men the memo that this is a strictly a chat site, since they seem to have very little issue meeting women here. Just because it only serves as a chat site for you, since nobody is interested in meeting an elderly cuck who contributes nothing but inflammatory comments, doesn't mean that's why everyone is here. Regardless, I know it may come as a surprise but I'm fully capable of doing multiple things at once so if I feel I have something to contribute to a discussion, I'll offer it.

You asked if I wanted your opinion, I told you why it's of no consequence. Whether you still offer it or not is your prerogative since it's an open forum. But I'm just as free to put no stock in it.

based off his previous posts,he's sucked a few pounds of black dicks,so there that.
I'm having a really hard time trying to figure out his angle for even commenting,or offering an opinion about whether or not to call it BBC,when he has either the perspective of sucking them,or watching his wife take them.
The fact that we're even having this conversation with him is peculiar at best.

 

[avaadore]

based off his previous posts,he's sucked a few pounds of black dicks,so there that.
I'm having a really hard time trying to figure out his angle for even commenting,or offering an opinion about whether or not to call it BBC,when he has either the perspective of sucking them,or watching his wife take them.
The fact that we're even having this conversation with him is peculiar at best.

I read his profile more like "I've always wanted this but my wife wasn't interested. I'm here without her consent or knowledge to lash out at people who are having the sex I never could". If there even is a wife.

Otherwise where's the media?

But that's just my impression

 

[sever311]

I read his profile more like "I've always wanted this but my wife wasn't interested. I'm here without her consent or knowledge to lash out at people who are having the sex I never could". If there even is a wife.

Otherwise where's the media?

But that's just my impression

Well I'm done with that guy..so let me take the opportunity to say: i LOVED your pictures,you have beautiful boobs and a fantastic body,I didn't know women looked like you in Canada..and please by all means,if you make it to Maryland,look me up,you have a reserved seat on my face...