The only way my husband can cum is to the thought of me being blacked

Omg my hubby too. My hubby is an awesome man. Handsome Hispanic successful and came with a big cock. He cums only to the thought or site of me being blacked. He introduced this lifestyle. My first hubby of 20yrs tall white Italian could not please. This man married 4yrs now WOW most amazing sex at 51. He introduced this lifestyle. Didn't know this much big cocks and naughty lifestyle was so fun. I lovey sex life at 51. Cheers all
 
My bf is the same way. Its kinda pathetic lol but I've excepted it. I just fuck him and talk dirty till he cums. Which btw is also pathetic, I ask him all the time if he faked it bc he barley cums at all
That’s hardcore teasing right there. I’ll tell you my wife added to the, after I have cum portion of teasing. She pulled me to her boobs and had me licking and sucking on her nipples really hard, she likes it on the rough side. She brought her hand up and rubbed on them herself for a second then pulled me back to her boobs to have me do some more sucking and that’s when I realized her fingers were in her pussy and she had smeared our mixed cum on her nipples for me to clean. When I didn’t resist that just flung that door wide open.
 
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My bf is the same way. Its kinda pathetic lol but I've excepted it. I just fuck him and talk dirty till he cums. Which btw is also pathetic, I ask him all the time if he faked it bc he barley cums at all
I have felt same way. But we make love we never fuck. Lol crazy. But he will cum but takes a long time. The moment I mentions fucking another man black cock. Omg withing mins. Then after he cums I get horny because I'm allowed and it's fun. Sex life is amazing at 51
 
Okay so that’s all it in a nutshell so my question and concerns are these:



Is this even possible at this point or do I have to fulfill his fantasy first to get him to think this way ?
maybe. sometimes if you make the threat/risk factor high enough (bareback, fertile, ovulating, maybe even fall in love and leave you) it might shock/scare him back. then again, some don't respond until the act has happened and they're now sweating bullets waiting to see if you are indeed pregnant, or if you're falling in love and might leave him.


1.) If I don’t fulfill his fantasy will he always need those thoughts in order to be turned on ?
maybe not to be turned on, as you were focusing on hum actually cumming. that said, to actually cumm...it very well might.



2.) why can’t he be turned on by just me without the fantasy of me with a black men ?
there are many possible reasons... but something about being less then a beta male plays into this. also, it could be that he needs to imagine you being pleasured beyond his normal, perceived ability. it could also be a case of the "sperm competition" theory too.


3.) what if I do fulfill his interracial fantasy ? What will happen ?
if you do, it is likely to change YOU. i suspect it will forever be a part of your sexual psyche. you may find that you enjoy the experience so much, you're perfectly happy with him spilling his seed uselessly while watching...or just telling him about it.
then again, your instincts also will fully engage and override/overpower your mind.
remember too, that the shortest distance to a womans's heart is between her legs! hubby takes the long road, the BBC takes the sorter, more direct route!
this is always a risk. but to some sub-betas, itactually will set them off even harder.


Will things always be this way ? Will he still need to vision me with black men in order to cum ?
very likely. once he's wired himself sexually this way...its not usually undone.


I lovely hubby and that’s never gonna change and I obviously accept him for him so I’m just trying to understand all this and get an idea how far I need to go or how things need to progress and what’s normal and what’s not?
i'd NOT worry about what's normal. also, it really comes down to YOU!
what you should ask yourself is, how do YOU feel about the idea of having sex with a black man?
...with hubby watching and wanking off? ...or completely without him?
does the interracial porn (with a woman similar to you) actually turn YOU on?
...do you see yourself in it?
...does some part want to be her?
these are the sort of questions you should be asking...of YOURSELF!
what matters most here in regard to whether or not to make the fantasy real, is what YOU want.
so, what do YOU really want, if you cannot change him???
 
I had a previous boyfriend who introduced me to new sexual experiences. For me they were fun within the context of a sound and loving (and sexual) relationship. The problem was that he was obsessed by situations which had to end up with me being shared. That eventually ruined the fun of simply flirting or teasing as I knew he would always push it to end with sex, even if I didn't want to, and this really affected our relationship and ruined any enjoyment I might have had before that from various sexy and very enjoyable situations. I don't want to humiliate my man, or a man who wants to be humiliated- I need a strong man, confident in himself and his own manhood to know I'm his, no matter who I am with, his (their) size or their masculinity. I need him to be present and enjoying it in the best way. I need to look into his eyes and know we are OK and I can relax and enjoy it to the full.
That's why it has been very rare for me and a number of years since I felt able to be in that situation. Maybe one day again. Being here has been a wonderful source of enjoyment and fantasy, it has given me a voice and reading threads like these has been very informative for me.
I guess we all have different motivators and mine are more reserved given previous bad experiences. I need to have love in a relationship and respect from my man - and me for him, not someone who can only get off by watching me being fucked. I hope that makes sense and isn't too "lame".
 
I had a previous boyfriend who introduced me to new sexual experiences. For me they were fun within the context of a sound and loving (and sexual) relationship. The problem was that he was obsessed by situations which had to end up with me being shared. That eventually ruined the fun of simply flirting or teasing as I knew he would always push it to end with sex, even if I didn't want to, and this really affected our relationship and ruined any enjoyment I might have had before that from various sexy and very enjoyable situations. I don't want to humiliate my man, or a man who wants to be humiliated- I need a strong man, confident in himself and his own manhood to know I'm his, no matter who I am with, his (their) size or their masculinity. I need him to be present and enjoying it in the best way. I need to look into his eyes and know we are OK and I can relax and enjoy it to the full.
That's why it has been very rare for me and a number of years since I felt able to be in that situation. Maybe one day again. Being here has been a wonderful source of enjoyment and fantasy, it has given me a voice and reading threads like these has been very informative for me.
I guess we all have different motivators and mine are more reserved given previous bad experiences. I need to have love in a relationship and respect from my man - and me for him, not someone who can only get off by watching me being fucked. I hope that makes sense and isn't too "lame".
No, that’s not lame. Actually, putting aside where we are, it’s really sweet.
 
I had a previous boyfriend who introduced me to new sexual experiences. For me they were fun within the context of a sound and loving (and sexual) relationship. The problem was that he was obsessed by situations which had to end up with me being shared. That eventually ruined the fun of simply flirting or teasing as I knew he would always push it to end with sex, even if I didn't want to, and this really affected our relationship and ruined any enjoyment I might have had before that from various sexy and very enjoyable situations. I don't want to humiliate my man, or a man who wants to be humiliated- I need a strong man, confident in himself and his own manhood to know I'm his, no matter who I am with, his (their) size or their masculinity. I need him to be present and enjoying it in the best way. I need to look into his eyes and know we are OK and I can relax and enjoy it to the full.
That's why it has been very rare for me and a number of years since I felt able to be in that situation. Maybe one day again. Being here has been a wonderful source of enjoyment and fantasy, it has given me a voice and reading threads like these has been very informative for me.
I guess we all have different motivators and mine are more reserved given previous bad experiences. I need to have love in a relationship and respect from my man - and me for him, not someone who can only get off by watching me being fucked. I hope that makes sense and isn't too "lame".
Good for you not to humiliate your man. I agree I don't get off to woman or the men enjoy humiliating. I love my man and he is Alfa and my lovers they all get along and respect. I had several issue were the lovers on knees just waiting for hubby to go so they can feed on me. I fucking love that. Cheers be safe.
 
Good for you not to humiliate your man. I agree I don't get off to woman or the men enjoy humiliating. I love my man and he is Alfa and my lovers they all get along and respect. I had several issue were the lovers on knees just waiting for hubby to go so they can feed on me. I fucking love that. Cheers be safe.
Thank you hun :lips:
 
I had a previous boyfriend who introduced me to new sexual experiences. For me they were fun within the context of a sound and loving (and sexual) relationship. The problem was that he was obsessed by situations which had to end up with me being shared. That eventually ruined the fun of simply flirting or teasing as I knew he would always push it to end with sex, even if I didn't want to, and this really affected our relationship and ruined any enjoyment I might have had before that from various sexy and very enjoyable situations. I don't want to humiliate my man, or a man who wants to be humiliated- I need a strong man, confident in himself and his own manhood to know I'm his, no matter who I am with, his (their) size or their masculinity. I need him to be present and enjoying it in the best way. I need to look into his eyes and know we are OK and I can relax and enjoy it to the full.
That's why it has been very rare for me and a number of years since I felt able to be in that situation. Maybe one day again. Being here has been a wonderful source of enjoyment and fantasy, it has given me a voice and reading threads like these has been very informative for me.
I guess we all have different motivators and mine are more reserved given previous bad experiences. I need to have love in a relationship and respect from my man - and me for him, not someone who can only get off by watching me being fucked. I hope that makes sense and isn't too "lame".
Fair comment this each to our own really but what a body you have! Wow 😯
 
My hubby can't get his little one hard anymore unless he's watching Anthony and I together or by looking and watching our pic's and videos. He can actually cum with out being hard :ROFLMAO:
That's so hot that is exactly the way it should be whitebois don't have cocks we have limp clitty's that are there to remind us that we are inferior to Black men
 
Cuckold husband of my GF is quite funny one. He could not cum without me involved. But whenever I start to kiss & touch his wife's body here & there, he make cum in 5mins even before blowjob and penetration. And he lick & swallow his own sperm immediately. This show visual the strength of interracial sex.
 
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