Can anyone else relate to this?
I don't like "talking" about sex. I mean direct talk. It's too analytical and doesn't arouse me or cause any kind of heat. I have always been turned on by more indirect, abstract "suggestive" sexual communication. Gestures, looks, talking about sex INDIRECTLY (i.e. inuendo, intelligent, intuitive suggestiveness, etc.) Not everyone has to be a poet, but I get super turned off when someone discusses sex they would discuss a hamburger or a sports game. We just have so much "Direct" communication in life that I think sexuality should be this very subtle, erotic, mythical space where we can dream and fantasize creatively without the dullness and corporatism of ordinary language.
What are your ways of indirectly communicating about sex?
I don't like "talking" about sex. I mean direct talk. It's too analytical and doesn't arouse me or cause any kind of heat. I have always been turned on by more indirect, abstract "suggestive" sexual communication. Gestures, looks, talking about sex INDIRECTLY (i.e. inuendo, intelligent, intuitive suggestiveness, etc.) Not everyone has to be a poet, but I get super turned off when someone discusses sex they would discuss a hamburger or a sports game. We just have so much "Direct" communication in life that I think sexuality should be this very subtle, erotic, mythical space where we can dream and fantasize creatively without the dullness and corporatism of ordinary language.
What are your ways of indirectly communicating about sex?