Who said they were from up north visiting our area for a week. We usually don't meet travelers unless they are already here, at their hotel or rental home etc. Talked for awhile, like months about nothing in particular, he sent a few pics which is all we ever ask for. He did ask for more of ours and I told him how many more than the 100's we have posted do you need? lol Anyway, He gives us a number and we gave our swing cell number. I run a check to see if it's based out of where he claimed to be from.( Yes, you should do some basic background checks) and it came up to a womans name. My wife called the number and apparently it was his wife and right away she was not happy to have a woman calling the other number listed. So, This "single BBC' in actuality was married and cheating on the road. We still decided to ruin his night like he did ours since we had made plans. We went to the bar, sat down and had a *******. HIs picture was about 10 years old but hey you expect that. We wanted to make sure we hadn't made a mistake so Nik got hit to claim he was single, just moving here and looking for a long term thing. Then she said she gets these gut feelings and like visions( he looked like she was crazy but since her skirt was short as hell, he was more concentrated on the thighs and she says " I am getting the name Sandy" His face went about 3 shades lighter and being quick says " Hmm I work with a Sandy" After another few drinks, Nikki getting bored asks him again about being single and reminding him how we never meet people in a relationship playing alone. Just too many things that can go wrong with a jealous spouse etc. He assured us he's very single so she literally dialed the number and handed him the phone, he said "whats up" and she says Sandy wants to talk to you. He got up, walked out and my guess, he wont be lying to another couple on here for quite along time lol Guys, if youre married cheating , don't make mistakes. If you're single, you have nothing to worry about but if you have a wife or gf, ask yourself why you are cheating. Some people do have morals and ethics. We're looking for play partners, sex...not love or some relationship. If you are on here, you know who you are. I wish you the best of luck and maybe use this as a learning point about relationships.