She want's to...but she wont

Zataro90

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For the past 1 and a half year I have confessed to my wife about my fantasy of her with black guys and she has told me that ,her top fantasy, was the same(* in my country unfortunately 99% of the men are white).I continuously try to spice things up, talking dirty to her while in bed, and I can she her getting wetter and wetter but after a few recent talks she rejects that dream, cause she believes that if that happens once she is afraid that she might lose control and won't stop cucking me. If we were living in a country with a large number of black guys I think we could make it happen.But her cucking me with other white guys is the opposite of what I would like. Tough spot here...any thoughts or help?
 
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For the past 1 and a half year I have confessed to my wife about my fantasy of her with black guys and she has told me that ,her top fantasy, was the same(* in my country unfortunately 99% of the men are white).I continuously try to spice things up, talking dirty to her while in bed, and I can she her getting wetter and wetter but after a few recent talks she rejects that dream, cause she believes that if that happens once she is afraid that she might lose control and won't stop cucking me. If we were living in a country with a large number of black guys I think we could make it happen.But her cucking me with other white guys is the opposite of what I would like. Tough spot here...any thoughts or help?
Start small and that means white.
 
For the past 1 and a half year I have confessed to my wife about my fantasy of her with black guys and she has told me that ,her top fantasy, was the same(* in my country unfortunately 99% of the men are white).I continuously try to spice things up, talking dirty to her while in bed, and I can she her getting wetter and wetter but after a few recent talks she rejects that dream, cause she believes that if that happens once she is afraid that she might lose control and won't stop cucking me. If we were living in a country with a large number of black guys I think we could make it happen.But her cucking me with other white guys is the opposite of what I would like. Tough spot here...any thoughts or help?
Cum visit Dallas,Texas and her fantasy will be fulfilled
 
That's what I believe too. Since we have same thoughts the only thing that remains is the opportunities. Just wish Greece had more native black guys...
What I would suggest is, if possible, take a vacation to a place where there are black men everywhere. Greece isn’t very far from Africa, and if you find a place that’s safe, maybe you can find her a big black cock.

The hard thing is that you have to be willing to set it up, and even introduce her to a random man, and that’s hard.

and you do have to be willing to have this be part of her life if it makes her happy. And you have to trust that she’ll still be a part of your life if she falls for someone.

It’s difficult to navigate, but it is amazing when it happens
 
For the past 1 and a half year I have confessed to my wife about my fantasy of her with black guys and she has told me that ,her top fantasy, was the same(* in my country unfortunately 99% of the men are white).I continuously try to spice things up, talking dirty to her while in bed, and I can she her getting wetter and wetter but after a few recent talks she rejects that dream, cause she believes that if that happens once she is afraid that she might lose control and won't stop cucking me. If we were living in a country with a large number of black guys I think we could make it happen.But her cucking me with other white guys is the opposite of what I would like. Tough spot here...any thoughts or help?
Go on vacation to Tunisia. Lots of African guys there for your wife to fuck.
 
My wife refused for about 2 years….she wanted to but was having a hard time wrapping her mind around me asking and thinking I might be doing so, so I could fuck other women or was worried there was something in our relationship wasn’t right with me, that I was unhappy with her.

after many long l, very open discussions detailing exactly my intentions and reassuring her I wanted this because I loved her so much, was extremely happy and trusted her 100% even with her being open and sexually active with other men while I remained monogamous to her.

when she finally did get her head wrapped around it and understood my intentions, she agreed to try it once for me and she admitted later on, just so I’d stop asking although I was t being overly pushy. She was also worried men wouldn’t find her sexy like I thought she was but once she got that first taste of this lifestyle, she said ten minutes in, she was the one really hooked and she knew she’d never be able to go back to vanilla sex.

patience, maybe it’ll happen but make sure you reaffirm your trust, love and faithfulness to her and this want you have is because of the love and trust you do have for her and absolutely in no way a weakness in the relationship….it’s the total opposite of that.
 
My wife refused for about 2 years….she wanted to but was having a hard time wrapping her mind around me asking and thinking I might be doing so, so I could fuck other women or was worried there was something in our relationship wasn’t right with me, that I was unhappy with her.

after many long l, very open discussions detailing exactly my intentions and reassuring her I wanted this because I loved her so much, was extremely happy and trusted her 100% even with her being open and sexually active with other men while I remained monogamous to her.

when she finally did get her head wrapped around it and understood my intentions, she agreed to try it once for me and she admitted later on, just so I’d stop asking although I was t being overly pushy. She was also worried men wouldn’t find her sexy like I thought she was but once she got that first taste of this lifestyle, she said ten minutes in, she was the one really hooked and she knew she’d never be able to go back to vanilla sex.

patience, maybe it’ll happen but make sure you reaffirm your trust, love and faithfulness to her and this want you have is because of the love and trust you do have for her and absolutely in no way a weakness in the relationship….it’s the total opposite of that.
Trust and honesty critical here. My wife had lied about not having previous relationships with other guys in our marriage. It all came out after she played with black cock and my marriage is now tittering on the edge of failure due to her previous unknown to me cheating.
 
Trust and honesty critical here. My wife had lied about not having previous relationships with other guys in our marriage. It all came out after she played with black cock and my marriage is now tittering on the edge of failure due to her previous unknown to me cheating.

It is strange…..although I think id forgive my wife if she had cheated as long as it was physical, just fucking….if i ever found out during our marriage at any time, she had an emotional relationship including sex with it, totally behind my back and being dishonest, I’d honestly have a really hard time with that and I’d probably never forgive and forget….it would for sure change our relationship going forward.

Sorry man
 
Don't give up,keep nudging her with black dildos and interracial cuckold porn and she will crack! One night she will get a few drinks in her and she will tell you she is ready for a real BBC!
 
Don't give up,keep nudging her with black dildos and interracial cuckold porn and she will crack! One night she will get a few drinks in her and she will tell you she is ready for a real BBC!

Exactly, keep building the trust and figure out if she’s worried you might be using this to eventually get in another woman’s panties….that was one of my wife’s few issues, she doesn’t want to share me with other women. She even told me before the first time, if that is going to ever be an issue, lets not do this. I completely and honestly told her that was NEVER my intention and I would never ask to be with another woman and I haven’t and won’t, even 15 years later and hundreds of cock in her, that’s all I want, to watch then have my fun with my wife afterwards.

We were out for a nice dinner at a fancy 5 star place, I hadn’t mentioned anything about this lifestyle to her in months. She had half a bottle of wine and when we were having dessert, she grabbed my hand and asked me, do you really want to watch? I was like, what, watch what…caught me totally off guard that night and she told me, watch me with someone else. FUCK, my little dick got rock hard right then….I just took her hand to my pants and asked, what do you think. She couldn’t believe i was so hard and we made a goofy pinky promise and the next weekend, she had another little white dick like mine in her And we had a pretty good first time experience. It would be about another year before i talked her into a black guy but when she did, that was a total game changer. She told me, the taboo of interracial sex, the way black men move and the bigger cocks she can find, blew her out of the water. After taking her first BBC, she phased out the white guys she was fucking quickly and went total slut phase for BBC. She still fucks a few of those first black guys and it’s been over 14 years since she took that very first BBC.
 
Trust and honesty critical here. My wife had lied about not having previous relationships with other guys in our marriage. It all came out after she played with black cock and my marriage is now tittering on the edge of failure due to her previous unknown to me cheating.
Trust us very easy to lose,and much harder to regain! Monogamy is tough,I have been married close to 40 years and I don't think our marriage would have survived had we been monogamous the whole time! My wife was shared with my friends before we were even married!
 
Exactly, keep building the trust and figure out if she’s worried you might be using this to eventually get in another woman’s panties….that was one of my wife’s few issues, she doesn’t want to share me with other women. She even told me before the first time, if that is going to ever be an issue, lets not do this. I completely and honestly told her that was NEVER my intention and I would never ask to be with another woman and I haven’t and won’t, even 15 years later and hundreds of cock in her, that’s all I want, to watch then have my fun with my wife afterwards.

We were out for a nice dinner at a fancy 5 star place, I hadn’t mentioned anything about this lifestyle to her in months. She had half a bottle of wine and when we were having dessert, she grabbed my hand and asked me, do you really want to watch? I was like, what, watch what…caught me totally off guard that night and she told me, watch me with someone else. FUCK, my little dick got rock hard right then….I just took her hand to my pants and asked, what do you think. She couldn’t believe i was so hard and we made a goofy pinky promise and the next weekend, she had another little white dick like mine in her And we had a pretty good first time experience. It would be about another year before i talked her into a black guy but when she did, that was a total game changer. She told me, the taboo of interracial sex, the way black men move and the bigger cocks she can find, blew her out of the water. After taking her first BBC, she phased out the white guys she was fucking quickly and went total slut phase for BBC. She still fucks a few of those first black guys and it’s been over 14 years since she took that very first BBC.
And you still love each other
 
It is strange…..although I think id forgive my wife if she had cheated as long as it was physical, just fucking….if i ever found out during our marriage at any time, she had an emotional relationship including sex with it, totally behind my back and being dishonest, I’d honestly have a really hard time with that and I’d probably never forgive and forget….it would for sure change our relationship going forward.

Sorry man
The trust is gone and I don’t know if it’s ever coming back. She betrayed me with a guy we both knew and one I had warned her about. To be honest, it has hollowed out our relationship to nothing. All that’s left is the thin veneer we present to the world. When I fuck her now it aggressive and hateful which she mistakes for passion, lol. Other times I just lie there and make her do all the work just to spite her.
 
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