My wife refused for about 2 years….she wanted to but was having a hard time wrapping her mind around me asking and thinking I might be doing so, so I could fuck other women or was worried there was something in our relationship wasn’t right with me, that I was unhappy with her.
after many long l, very open discussions detailing exactly my intentions and reassuring her I wanted this because I loved her so much, was extremely happy and trusted her 100% even with her being open and sexually active with other men while I remained monogamous to her.
when she finally did get her head wrapped around it and understood my intentions, she agreed to try it once for me and she admitted later on, just so I’d stop asking although I was t being overly pushy. She was also worried men wouldn’t find her sexy like I thought she was but once she got that first taste of this lifestyle, she said ten minutes in, she was the one really hooked and she knew she’d never be able to go back to vanilla sex.
patience, maybe it’ll happen but make sure you reaffirm your trust, love and faithfulness to her and this want you have is because of the love and trust you do have for her and absolutely in no way a weakness in the relationship….it’s the total opposite of that.