Exactly, keep building the trust and figure out if she’s worried you might be using this to eventually get in another woman’s panties….that was one of my wife’s few issues, she doesn’t want to share me with other women. She even told me before the first time, if that is going to ever be an issue, lets not do this. I completely and honestly told her that was NEVER my intention and I would never ask to be with another woman and I haven’t and won’t, even 15 years later and hundreds of cock in her, that’s all I want, to watch then have my fun with my wife afterwards.
We were out for a nice dinner at a fancy 5 star place, I hadn’t mentioned anything about this lifestyle to her in months. She had half a bottle of wine and when we were having dessert, she grabbed my hand and asked me, do you really want to watch? I was like, what, watch what…caught me totally off guard that night and she told me, watch me with someone else. FUCK, my little dick got rock hard right then….I just took her hand to my pants and asked, what do you think. She couldn’t believe i was so hard and we made a goofy pinky promise and the next weekend, she had another little white dick like mine in her And we had a pretty good first time experience. It would be about another year before i talked her into a black guy but when she did, that was a total game changer. She told me, the taboo of interracial sex, the way black men move and the bigger cocks she can find, blew her out of the water. After taking her first BBC, she phased out the white guys she was fucking quickly and went total slut phase for BBC. She still fucks a few of those first black guys and it’s been over 14 years since she took that very first BBC.