I wouldn't recommend making up a story or lying about how the baby was conceived. People will most likely or eventually find out about it anyway, especially when the ******* is a friend of y'all or somewhat close to you. And not too far down the line, the boy will want to know who his ******* is and he has a right to know. Like Nymedic81 mentioned, honesty is the best way to go. He gave a lot of good advice.. Yes, you will have some friends and family that will most likely disapprove of your lifestyle but this is the new generation and it's not like you're the first married white woman who got knocked-up by her black lover. And for those friends and family who can't accept it, so be it. You don't need those racist around you anyway as it will have a huge affect on the baby you are bringing into this world. He doesn't need to be faced with racism at an early age so you need to keep him away from those bigots anyway.. Although I've never had a bi-racial baby, or any baby, I was faced with my racist parents and some other friends who couldn't handle it when I started seriously dating a black man and yes, it had an effect on me for awhile but eventually, I finally realized it was toxic even being around them, especially with them calling me all sorts of racist names.. I was starting a new life and I didn't need them and in fact, for every friend I lost, it seemed as if I gained 3 more who accepted me as a strong woman who makes her own choices in men, no matter what's the color of his skin..
I sincerely wish you all the luck in the world and hope what ever happens in the future, you will be happy with the choices you make. My only other recommendation is to stay close to the baby's *******.. Your ******* will need him in both your lives..
I sincerely wish you all the luck in the world and hope what ever happens in the future, you will be happy with the choices you make. My only other recommendation is to stay close to the baby's *******.. Your ******* will need him in both your lives..