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Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Curious Wife, Jul 15, 2014.

  1. Curious Wife

    Curious Wife Active Member

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    I am hopping this is the right forum, if it's not, please let me know how to change it.

    Next week my husband is leaving town with all the younger kids, leaving me home for the entire week alone. I would like some suggestions of things I might try to work myself a little closer to actually making the move to someone new after all these years.

    Now, I am not looking for "come over to my house" kind of suggestions, I would like real practical suggestions for things to try in my area. Also, my older daughter has offered to help me break out of the box as well, and I trust her, but seems kind of weird going looking for someone to cheat on her dad with.

    Look forward to your input and please keep it practical and actually something that might happen. Thanks.
     
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  2. hotjen

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    hoot
     
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  3. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Try going to a nightclub with the intention of meeting people and engaging in some conversation without the expectation of sex.
     
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  4. jimbobin

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    I think it is make over time!
    Maybe go out shopping with your daughter and get some nice new clothes and then go out to a bar or nightclub with some friends and get back on the scene.
     
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  5. DirkDee44

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    come to texas and I will do you and daughter
     
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  6. gr8hubby

    gr8hubby Active Member Real Person

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    I like a couple of the other suggestions of going out without expectations. Especially going for and in new sexy cloths. I note that in this context I am not talking about slut sexy, I am talking about an outfit you think you look and most importantly feel sexy in. My wife always goes cloths shopping when she starts something new, makes her feel and look so sexy which increases her confidence.

    The other thing I might suggest is maybe having your daughter and several of her friends over to the house, once again, no expectations. Just get used to being around new people and around people with similar likes and interests. It will help you with your comfort zone and begin taking you out of that box you talked about.
     
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  7. dunacouple

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    Yeah you most likely do not want to drag your daughter in to this. (also bullshit meter goes up with these bits of 'side info' being dropped).
     
  8. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Well, I can't agree on either cheating on your spouse or involving your daughter ... so, sorry.

    But I will say, since you're wanting some rather "fast" results, try purchasing yourself a nice "hot" outfit ... maybe a nice dress that's low cut but hits you 5-6 inches above the knees. Then get some BBC jewelry (ie earrings, ankle bracelet, or necklace, etc) and maybe even a temporary "spade" tattoo ... you want the guys to recognize your interests and intentions rather fast, right? Wouldn't hurt to do this with a friend, and/or keep in close cellphone contact as to your where-abouts.
    Mac
    Here are some examples on the jewelry ... I have a lot of this stuff if it interests you.
    cuck_jewelry-QspadeEarrings.jpg cuck_jewelry-necklaceBBC-inGOLD.jpg cuck_jewelry-earrings.jpg
     
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  9. Orion Pax

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    Your daughter should have never been involved in this the first place.
     
  10. Orion Pax

    Orion Pax Moderator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Mac your a special kind of asshole! And I mean that in good way.
     
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  11. Curious Wife

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    Ok, I think I need to clarify. I am not "getting involved" with my daughter, at least not in the usual sense on this site. What happened in a nutshell is sometime ago my adult daughter and I were having a conversation on our feeling of our relationships which included my desire to try something new. In that conversation my daughter mentioned that she had dated a fine young man that she really enjoyed. She also mentioned that he was black. That sparked my curiosity about BBC and I began asking questions. And finally, in that conversation she mentioned that if I was interested she could introduce me to some of her friends.

    That would be as far as the involvement of my daughter would go. Just to clarify.
     
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  12. Curious Wife

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    Not really helpful.
     
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  13. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    I would ask you to elaborate, but not sure that I want to know ... but gif_Yellowball-ThankYou.gif Mac
     
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  14. Curious Wife

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    Like the idea.
     
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  15. Curious Wife

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    I hope my clarification helps.
     
  16. Curious Wife

    Curious Wife Active Member

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    I am not really looking for instant results, just looking for something new to try. I do have some temp tattoos, but find that that stuff is more fiction than fact.
     
  17. cumgetsum

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    DINNER WILL BE YOU
     
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  18. Orion Pax

    Orion Pax Moderator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Your a funny guy! As I said, in a good way.
     
  19. dunacouple

    dunacouple Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Oh ok... seems legit.
     
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  20. Chip

    Chip Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Is this your husbands daughter too? Seems to me that both of you going behind his back while he has the younger kids could seem mean and hurtful. The other thing if your daughter helps hook you up she would have the upper hand be careful.
     
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