One night stands or long term?

[Fantasywife85]

Depends. They both have there purpose

Agreed

 

[Holla909]

I'll say it like this...
If you hit it RIGHT, they keep cumming back

Facts!!

 

[RubenesqueLuve]

I prefer longterm for the benefit of going bareback and creampie sex. However one night stands are susceptible due to lack of chemistry.

 

[zzmartin]

Contrary to many here, after more than a few awkward situations, we moved to pretty much one night stands only. We might be an exception, but we don’t do humiliation or cuck per se. We are very much in love but have sexual preferences and desires that we enjoy together. Given my small penis we started to get into the lifestyle. Our problem early in the search for a “regular“ was guys getting either emotionally attached, trying to get with her without me, or starting to cross that line where it’s not just a fun night. Hard to explain. We just decided to give up looking for that one guy and maybe see a guy 2-3 times but no commitments or expectations for more. We are selective, we don’t just meet and have sex, but for us it keeps things fun and no complications. It works for us. At the end of the day do what you feel comfortable with and what works for you both. Stay safe!

great couple
wish you all the best

 

[Molly1980]

interracial events with same members

 

[Loveislove]

interracial events with same members

Yes that always makes it hot! We love our LA playtime and Vegas playtime.

 

[Softici]

I prefer long term, because I get to know the bull. Also I do not escape for one night stand if he sweeps me of my feet on first look

 

[ErikaPeter]

I like a combination of both. I have a few long-term partners. The sex is wonderful because we have a connection, they are skilled and considerate, and we know each other’s likes. On the other hand, a few one-night stands adds variety. The sex can be hit or miss. However, sometimes I meet a wonderful man who might become a long-term partner if he lives in our region.

 

[Ana-DMV]

Hotwives, Bulls, cucks what is your opinion? In this dynamic, do you enjoy more quality or quantity? Do you like to have several one-time encounters or establish long term relationships?

Long-term is the best if you can find someone. I am way more relaxed and comfortable with my lover the more I'm with him.

 

[Jdingo619]

The more mature that a bull becomes the more that he should expect his sexual encounters in the lifestyle to become more intimate and frequent and many times what will determine that is appearance, chemistry, and performance!

Personally I prefer to be able to visit a hotwife and use her holes at will because we are in a relationship. I love being given the privilege and honor from hubby's of being able to fuck their wives regularly as their bull and leaving them stretched and filled for their hubby's as a show of my gratitude and appreciation for allowing me to be an intimate part of their relationship. ❤

 

[DiscreetCplFun]

Long term is the ideal we seek always. It is, however, extremely difficult to achieve because, as hard as a relationship between just TWO people is to maintain, it's even harder to do when three people are involved. The logistics involved from a time, distance and frequency aspect are very hard to get to align to the satisfaction for all concerned. We've had the ideal only twice over 30+ years in the LS! Is it worth the time and trouble? Yes, it is when all things align. It's proof of the old adage that anything worth having is worth the trouble is true. As with all things, it requires great communication across all participants and mutual respect.

 

[sinthome]

I like a combination of both. I have a few long-term partners. The sex is wonderful because we have a connection, they are skilled and considerate, and we know each other’s likes. On the other hand, a few one-night stands adds variety. The sex can be hit or miss. However, sometimes I meet a wonderful man who might become a long-term partner if he lives in our region.

Agreed

 

[miafblack]

Depends. They both have there purpose

Agree

 

[SlavGirlVoyeur]

Agreed

A bit of both is always the best option

 

[SlavGirlVoyeur]

I like a combination of both. I have a few long-term partners. The sex is wonderful because we have a connection, they are skilled and considerate, and we know each other’s likes. On the other hand, a few one-night stands adds variety. The sex can be hit or miss. However, sometimes I meet a wonderful man who might become a long-term partner if he lives in our region.

A bit of both is always the best option

 

[Jane and karl]

I like both, but if I find a good bull you bet I am meeting him again and again and again, as it just gets kinkier

 

[M-Style]

Depends.

At designated events (like a Bliss Cruise or hotel takeover), a sexy hookup based on chemistry is fantastic.

Back home (we typically travel 500+ miles for events), establishing something ongoing with an awesome gentleman Bull is the gold standard

 

[demalejpo]

Hotwives, Bulls, cucks what is your opinion? In this dynamic, do you enjoy more quality or quantity? Do you like to have several one-time encounters or establish long term relationships?

My wife does one guy at a time but craves variety.

 

[BethBB]

one night stands for me......i am already married and find if i try to start a long term relationship......they always want to fall in love......i need cock....not love....

I've been married and in love, I don't need to be in love, I just want the sex and a LTR

 

[BethBB]

I love both. It’s good having a local long term relationship because it gives you someone to always fall back on. But the excitement of meeting a strange man in a seedy bar and fucking him for the first time is addicting.

def long term - so we all know what's expected

Yes, know what to expect and what is expected.