Normal White/Black Men into this?
7 3/4 inches, reasonably thick . have great sex life with my wife . and love it when she finds a bull/lover .. something amazing watching her make love to another man ... being pleasured, as well as giving pleasure..
What did you enjoy about that? The power they ceded to you? The emotional cruelty in humiliation? Giving them what they desired?
Argo1115
Couple
Most people don’t really understand that cuckolding is essentially just erotic role play. A bull is really only fucking my wife because it turns me on. If not it wouldn’t happen. Period. If I felt a bull was being truly disrespectful his ass would be kicked faster than he knew what was happening. There was a scene on the tv show Shameless that actually truly summed it up. The guy told Lip “you realize that you’re only having sex with my wife because I allow it, right?”. Far to many cuckolds on sites like this love to pretend that they are powerless when in reality the cuck hold the same power as the wife, if not more so.
This is a truthful answer, and it speaks volumes for what this lifestyle REALLY is all about !! Well said !!
It really is mind boggling. I come here because as is fairly typical, once menopause hit, my wife’s desire for sex took a nosedive. So I stumbled on this site and enjoy it because I like to see women in the throes of sexual desire. The IR aspect is interesting but not something that specifically turns me on. The racist aspect of it all is fascinating actuallly. But my question to you is, as a black “bull” who enjoys that power and that role in a sexual relationship....how does this affect your relationship with the person you love or will love? Will you need that power in order to feel love for your life partner? Do you seek white women to only fuck and never for a relationship? Are white women not suitable for a relationship? And conversely, are black women inadequate sexually like this lifestyle purports about white men?
what did you make him do
I've been in the swing lifestyle and even been the bull in a couple of situations, not knowing fully about the whole cuckold dynamic back in the day...My current girlfriend is not interested in the slightest about being with another man or in an cuckold scenario role play...Though we have different taste and aspects in our sexual adventure, we both respect each others wishes and boundaries...No one can ******* another person to do something they do not want...It must be mutual with respect to the other...You must have an strong bond and relationship I.M.H.O. to get into different fetishes and kinks...Wherever your sexual journey takes you...Enjoy it!
The problem with this site is that most of the people on here have no idea what this relationship truly means. They get this bullshit idea from cheap porn and twitter that the cuck is pathetic.
A lot of the women on here are so fucking thirsty that they hide behind the hotwife label to make themselves feel good about being a whore. I've seen this first hand in my local community. Being in an open marriage or cheating doesn't qualify you as a hotwife.
That brings me to my next point, the bulls or so called "bulls.” These thirsty ass women in this lifestyle have propped them up and made them feel like gods. It's so hard to find a guy that's willing to put any effort into a real cuckold dynamic because they have been conditioned to getting whatever they want with little to no effort. I have guys that message me on the daily wanting me to drive hours away, without my hubby, to fuck them raw, and get upset if I simply ask for a face picture. They don't even want to meet my husband, ask about our dynamic, or try to please me what so ever. Don't respond back to text. And then turn to name calling when you reject them. Then the best part is, they want everyone to think they are all hard and love calling cucks pathetic, sissy and faggots. But I've had more closet "bulls" begging me to make my cuck suck thier cock.
And lastly I blame the wanna-be cuck. They have the deepest and nastiest fantasies about being a slave to black cock. If that's your fantasy, go get on Grindr. If you're serious about this lifestyle, have a conversation with your wife. And if she's not into it, go fuck off on reddit. Stop diluting this site down with nonsense and your wanna be pathetic fuckery.
For the rest of us that understand what a beautiful cuckold relationship is. This is a beautiful dynamic between 2 people that love each other dearly. That understand and embrace each other's deepest and darkest fantasies. That understand that something that makes you horny and is not traditional doesn't make you less than, or pathetic. A cuck really holds all the power. This isn't what we do, this is who we are.
There's room for all to grow and do better, my cuck and I truly try to be the light for this community. To show people this isn't just a nasty degrading porn scene of a life we live. It's a beautiful love story that brings us closer daily.
A lot of the women on here are so fucking thirsty that they hide behind the hotwife label to make themselves feel good about being a whore. I've seen this first hand in my local community. Being in an open marriage or cheating doesn't qualify you as a hotwife.
That brings me to my next point, the bulls or so called "bulls.” These thirsty ass women in this lifestyle have propped them up and made them feel like gods. It's so hard to find a guy that's willing to put any effort into a real cuckold dynamic because they have been conditioned to getting whatever they want with little to no effort. I have guys that message me on the daily wanting me to drive hours away, without my hubby, to fuck them raw, and get upset if I simply ask for a face picture. They don't even want to meet my husband, ask about our dynamic, or try to please me what so ever. Don't respond back to text. And then turn to name calling when you reject them. Then the best part is, they want everyone to think they are all hard and love calling cucks pathetic, sissy and faggots. But I've had more closet "bulls" begging me to make my cuck suck thier cock.
And lastly I blame the wanna-be cuck. They have the deepest and nastiest fantasies about being a slave to black cock. If that's your fantasy, go get on Grindr. If you're serious about this lifestyle, have a conversation with your wife. And if she's not into it, go fuck off on reddit. Stop diluting this site down with nonsense and your wanna be pathetic fuckery.
For the rest of us that understand what a beautiful cuckold relationship is. This is a beautiful dynamic between 2 people that love each other dearly. That understand and embrace each other's deepest and darkest fantasies. That understand that something that makes you horny and is not traditional doesn't make you less than, or pathetic. A cuck really holds all the power. This isn't what we do, this is who we are.
There's room for all to grow and do better, my cuck and I truly try to be the light for this community. To show people this isn't just a nasty degrading porn scene of a life we live. It's a beautiful love story that brings us closer daily.
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Then that begs the question...when and if you find someone you want to commit to, not just date, and perhaps have your children, will you still continue to enjoy the double life aspect?I can see that it takes the sexual pressure off a dating relationship, but does consistently separating sexual pleasure from emotional depth and commitment then lead to preferring that separation? Compartmentalizing, if you will, your sex life from your deeper emotional life. Of course if you find women to date that are good with your external play, bravo!...but what if not?
fjlugo63
Male
Admit that I'm in the infancy stage of exploring this "HotWife" lifestyle in my own relationship of 34 years with my spouse. That said, this forum blends "HotWife" and what I see as different sexual threads (e.g. BBC, Interracial wife sharing, Cuck). Some threads point to a females Sexual Delirium that is driven by big cock (not just BBC 
). My view is that this blend is because persons have varying levels of sexual fantasies. I'm sure that what defines those fantasies are complicated conditioned behavioral things that are way above worth trying to understand.
My fantasies (until I make them real) are the visual stimulation of seeing another man penetrate my wife. I'll admit preferably larger than my 6" L 5.5" G cock. Whilst color is optional (white or dark)...variety is more important...point is...fantasy is not driven by color! I do see myself in wife share scenarios where person giving it to my wife is equally sharing his partner. I can also fantasize myself in a multi racial MFM threesome. In this MFM scenario I would not in any way be a cuck (sissy), but act as a bull in commanding my wife to perform sex with other male, while she shares her mouth and or her ass with me. I can also see the other M swapping positions with me. The net/net is...no sissy...I control her and indirectly the other male in MFM threesome. This is where my mind allows me to be comfortable with today! Thoughts from others?
). My view is that this blend is because persons have varying levels of sexual fantasies. I'm sure that what defines those fantasies are complicated conditioned behavioral things that are way above worth trying to understand.My fantasies (until I make them real) are the visual stimulation of seeing another man penetrate my wife. I'll admit preferably larger than my 6" L 5.5" G cock. Whilst color is optional (white or dark)...variety is more important...point is...fantasy is not driven by color! I do see myself in wife share scenarios where person giving it to my wife is equally sharing his partner. I can also fantasize myself in a multi racial MFM threesome. In this MFM scenario I would not in any way be a cuck (sissy), but act as a bull in commanding my wife to perform sex with other male, while she shares her mouth and or her ass with me. I can also see the other M swapping positions with me. The net/net is...no sissy...I control her and indirectly the other male in MFM threesome. This is where my mind allows me to be comfortable with today! Thoughts from others?
Yes!!!! You guys get it! We should be friends!
Thanks for your candor. I sometimes think that the best place to deal with racial and sexual issues is places just like this. But boy, I’m glad I am not burdened with connecting sexual pleasure with emotional pain or cursed with a small dick.
Successful experienced intelligent bulls understand this from the gitty up.
I wanted to make a thread like this too, you beat me to it lol
I also thought all that sissy husband black cock worship thing was hella weird, I kinda get a interracial cuckold sexual relationship isn't the most normal thing to do so there's bound to be a few crazies but for the most part I've always just wanted to interact with a normal couple and a normal guy who just enjoys seeing his wife get plowed, he doesn't have to worship me and I don't need to be disrespectful to them
it can and should be a healthy relationship even if the dynamic isn't the most normal.
I also thought all that sissy husband black cock worship thing was hella weird, I kinda get a interracial cuckold sexual relationship isn't the most normal thing to do so there's bound to be a few crazies but for the most part I've always just wanted to interact with a normal couple and a normal guy who just enjoys seeing his wife get plowed, he doesn't have to worship me and I don't need to be disrespectful to them
it can and should be a healthy relationship even if the dynamic isn't the most normal.
This is a great thread. This is the kind of ******* I want to discuss. I feel like too much of this site is waaay too crazy. I’m glad there are other people who like to talk about this kink in a normal, reasonable way
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Jellycapone
Guest
Yes just normal here . Basic hotwife style . Would like to just watch . No other extreme stuff
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