The hardest part is finding the right Bull. Discretion is important, looks, the physique is also important too. I am a bodybuilder type (30 waist 190 lbs and 5/9". Looking for the same type, and have met some men on this board, and were not what the pics that were sent. We went to a location, tht he chose, and when we arrived, he did not match up. some others never bothered to show!
Normal White/Black Men into this?
Corderro
Male
Great message and so so true!! I work in a factory and I am considered to be alpha. But i am happy to watch my gorgeous wife being pleasured by other guys. She is happy and so am I.
Yet to have a Black play-friend but open to it and for it.
Corderro
Male
Oopps...also great body and ass. Thank you for posting x
Well couldn't agree more on comments on this thread. One of the reasons my wife is not registered here is the pervs and freaks around here. But here are also normal persons, couples and singles which is great and why my wife allowed and wanted me to upload one ass photo of her here.
The journey for us is new and we both learn and are interested of this lifestyle. But we don't see any part of humiliation to be involved or licking sperm from pussy etc. Tallks of superior black men and talks about white sissy boys feels like total crap. Almost like racism towards white men. Don't know, maybe someone gets something out of that but not us.
We see ourselves as normal people who don't openly talk about this to other people. This is more like play to us and maybe something will yet happen, maybe not. The part where man is black is just plus. Contrast between white and black is arousing. From both of us. Feelings even before anything has actually happened are the best.
To sum-up: nothing against if someone gets kicks of humiliation but that kind of thoughts and threads seems to be the majority which kind of does not feel normal. Well, maybe threesomes and hotwifing is not that ordinary either
Wish threads and discussion of more of not that kink stuff to be out there. Maybe on some other forum..? Haven't found so far hotwife/stag forums which is closer to our thoughts.
The journey for us is new and we both learn and are interested of this lifestyle. But we don't see any part of humiliation to be involved or licking sperm from pussy etc. Tallks of superior black men and talks about white sissy boys feels like total crap. Almost like racism towards white men. Don't know, maybe someone gets something out of that but not us.
We see ourselves as normal people who don't openly talk about this to other people. This is more like play to us and maybe something will yet happen, maybe not. The part where man is black is just plus. Contrast between white and black is arousing. From both of us. Feelings even before anything has actually happened are the best.
To sum-up: nothing against if someone gets kicks of humiliation but that kind of thoughts and threads seems to be the majority which kind of does not feel normal. Well, maybe threesomes and hotwifing is not that ordinary either
Wish threads and discussion of more of not that kink stuff to be out there. Maybe on some other forum..? Haven't found so far hotwife/stag forums which is closer to our thoughts.
This is all about exploring a married couples sexual fantasies and kinky-side. The Bull/BBC is just there to enhance the sexuality in the marrige and if, it becomes more for the better of the couple then, that's excellent. The reality in today's marriage/relationship for many women ONE man isn't enough; hence, the lifestyle can work as a conduit to facilitate greater intimacy/sexual freedom in a marriage/relationship if, both parties are on the same page. Some men love watching their wives being pleasured by a "bigger" man which, creates crazy "foreplay between the couple after the BULL has left....seems like a win-win for all. Now, this sisy, humiliation stuff is role-playing and frankly bloody-corny after you're in the lifestyle for a period of time. In truth the white guys are in CONTROL because many like watching their wives/girlfriends metamoph from VANILLA KAREN to "FREAK-ON-A-leash" which is cerebral fore-play for them.
You sound like the perfect bull
That's an interesting topic. Most white men I've talked to about IR / cuckolding just have a thing for interracial sex and love watching white woman taking BBC. They aren't into any sissy / humiliation stuff at all.
I'm a normal white guy, 6ft2 tall and muscular, not "beta" in any way. I can't really explain exactly what it is about interracial that turns me on the most. Guess the contrast is pretty arousing. It just happened to become my most favorite porn category at some point. Luckily my current gf was already curious about interracial cuckolding as we met. That made things a lot easier for us. Now she enjoys being pleasured by a BBC and I enjoy watching her. That's it. No humiliation or sissy stuff of any kind involved.
Dal White Couple
Couple
It’s all about perspective and desire. My husband and ai are both Senior Execs and our draw to the lifestyle was the loss of control. It is a powerful intoxicant and one that keeps evolving.
No doubt when she's pleasured then, the kink between you as couple goes to another level....
Jonandjess
Couple
In this lifestyle, like all others, there is a wide spectrum, some no doubt are into lots of extreme humiliation some not, some like no condom others like us insist on it. It depends on the couple and their " friend(s)". Live and let live. We're pretty normal I'd say, both professionals and actually both doctors, yes even doctors can be kinky! That said we are very careful about our "friends".
For us it's less about humiliation, although obviously there's some if someone else has their penis in your wife's vagina! It's more about just good old fashioned uncomplicated fun.She likes to feel full with a wider cock, she likes being able to let go and she is sexually excited by black men. I like to watch her "lose it", to see her pussy stretched wide, watch someone else talk dirty and graphically tell her what to do and yes the man has to be black, don't know why no doubt there's a deep reason somewhere. Works for us and a win win we both agree.
As I've said in other posts it's made us stronger and we communicate a lot better - something that was becoming a problem due to our heavy workloads. The "events" are just a massive de-stressing activity, although less recently due to us both being very busy for obvious reasons. Outside of the actual "events" and in the immediate lead up to them we're a completely normal couple, we share stuff in the same way, we do the usual stuff, we have sex and are a loving couple etc. Has it has changed our relationship yes it's added an extra dimension, she become more confident in her sexuality ( which has benefits for me!), we've enjoyed finding words to describe it (blacked is our current favorite) and I've enjoyed stepping back and losing control from time to time.
For those couples wanting to try it out don't be put off by the porn and assumption that the man has to be a sissy and the wife a slut, you don't! Just give it a go, be brave and sit back (or lay/bend over if you're the wife) and enjoy the ride ( again literally for those wives out there)
For us it's less about humiliation, although obviously there's some if someone else has their penis in your wife's vagina! It's more about just good old fashioned uncomplicated fun.She likes to feel full with a wider cock, she likes being able to let go and she is sexually excited by black men. I like to watch her "lose it", to see her pussy stretched wide, watch someone else talk dirty and graphically tell her what to do and yes the man has to be black, don't know why no doubt there's a deep reason somewhere. Works for us and a win win we both agree.
As I've said in other posts it's made us stronger and we communicate a lot better - something that was becoming a problem due to our heavy workloads. The "events" are just a massive de-stressing activity, although less recently due to us both being very busy for obvious reasons. Outside of the actual "events" and in the immediate lead up to them we're a completely normal couple, we share stuff in the same way, we do the usual stuff, we have sex and are a loving couple etc. Has it has changed our relationship yes it's added an extra dimension, she become more confident in her sexuality ( which has benefits for me!), we've enjoyed finding words to describe it (blacked is our current favorite) and I've enjoyed stepping back and losing control from time to time.
For those couples wanting to try it out don't be put off by the porn and assumption that the man has to be a sissy and the wife a slut, you don't! Just give it a go, be brave and sit back (or lay/bend over if you're the wife) and enjoy the ride ( again literally for those wives out there)
That's why wife and I go to nude resorts, for the sex
This explains my wife Carla and myself to a TEE. This is exactly the way we enjoy the lifestyle !! I couldnt have said it better, especially the part about the wife being more confident because of the encounters she has had. Its NOT for everyone, but it sure works for us.In this lifestyle, like all others, there is a wide spectrum, some no doubt are into lots of extreme humiliation some not, some like no condom others like us insist on it. It depends on the couple and their " friend(s)". Live and let live. We're pretty normal I'd say, both professionals and actually both doctors, yes even doctors can be kinky! That said we are very careful about our "friends".
For us it's less about humiliation, although obviously there's some if someone else has their penis in your wife's vagina! It's more about just good old fashioned uncomplicated fun.She likes to feel full with a wider cock, she likes being able to let go and she is sexually excited by black men. I like to watch her "lose it", to see her pussy stretched wide, watch someone else talk dirty and graphically tell her what to do and yes the man has to be black, don't know why no doubt there's a deep reason somewhere. Works for us and a win win we both agree.
As I've said in other posts it's made us stronger and we communicate a lot better - something that was becoming a problem due to our heavy workloads. The "events" are just a massive de-stressing activity, although less recently due to us both being very busy for obvious reasons. Outside of the actual "events" and in the immediate lead up to them we're a completely normal couple, we share stuff in the same way, we do the usual stuff, we have sex and are a loving couple etc. Has it has changed our relationship yes it's added an extra dimension, she become more confident in her sexuality ( which has benefits for me!), we've enjoyed finding words to describe it (blacked is our current favorite) and I've enjoyed stepping back and losing control from time to time.
For those couples wanting to try it out don't be put off by the porn and assumption that the man has to be a sissy and the wife a slut, you don't! Just give it a go, be brave and sit back (or lay/bend over if you're the wife) and enjoy the ride ( again literally for those wives out there)
I'm a very straight acting guy. I'm a carpenter by trade. I've actually been paid to fuck other guys wives and I'm not even black. Hell my dicks 7 inches. But I've been known to get a little crazy in the bedroom amongst all of the stereotypes for this type of community
