Need Help with Cuckold Fantasy Ideas

[TKDTyler]

To start off I should explain that me and my fiance have tried cuckold multiple times and she just decided it wasn't for her. We just agreed for me to fantasize about it myself. I have a tumblr sharing pics and videos of her and I look at other cuckold pictures and videos. The issue is, and im sure some have felt this too but when you fantasize about it, it starts getting less and less satisfying.

That's why I'm here today, to find ideas for cuckold fantasies that I can do on my own of course to keep it just as sexy. Thanks for your replies!

 

[Khrises4u]

Before my wife re-entered the hotwife fantasy world, she indulged me with big black dildo play, and I even role played a lover with her by putting the dildo in my pants, and taking video over me fucking her with this huge black dildo as she came all over it. Turned us both on a lot with lots of dirty talk...

That's said, she was still turned on by the fantasy of bbc cuckolding, but she had wanted to take a break from actually playing with others while we raised *******.

She is now back enjoying bbc, but on her terms and we have established that she makes the rules and I just comply.

 

[TKDTyler]

Before my wife re-entered the hotwife fantasy world, she indulged me with big black dildo play, and I even role played a lover with her by putting the dildo in my pants, and taking video over me fucking her with this huge black dildo as she came all over it. Turned us both on a lot with lots of dirty talk...

That's said, she was still turned on by the fantasy of bbc cuckolding, but she had wanted to take a break from actually playing with others while we raised *******.

She is now back enjoying bbc, but on her terms and we have established that she makes the rules and I just comply.

Thanks for your reply. Only issue is she isnt included at all in the fantasy anymore like we dont role play it anymore. Im basically on my own with it and just the pictures and videos alone get kinda old after a while. Looking for a way to keep things sexy with the fantasy. Another problem is we have a big dildo but she doesnt like it.

 

[MacNfries]

....I guess before suggestions can really be given, it would be good to know what your perception of cuckolding is. In its purest form, it simply is a spouse who has sexual relations with others while the other spouse remains monogamous in the relationship. Then you toss in the interracial part of it, and it becomes specific to black & white, in this case black males & white females. So, does your fiancé have issues with having sexual relations with other men, in general, or does she have specific issues with the males being black?
....There are a lot of fantasy role playing that she might buy into, but her hang up might simply be having sex with other men, period ... after all, she's engaged to you, hoping to marry you, have your children, and grow old together. There is a big risk associated with this kind of activity that she sees as possibly damaging to your engagement & relationship ... her desires/plans are a lot more 'long term' ... your cockolding fantasy not so much so.
....Just tossing out some role playing ... if she's into that, one in particular is her being your dominatrix, and you her sub fun ... there are even outfits for this kind of activity. Also, the humiliation of cock locks, sissifying, domestic servitude. Do you even know what her sexual fantasies are? These are her "hot buttons" (if she'll reveal them) to get her hormones pumping and making her more receptive to what you wish to do. I'd start with HER sexual fantasies, first.

 

[Khrises4u]

Agree with needing to explore her fantasies a whole lot more.

 

[TKDTyler]

....I guess before suggestions can really be given, it would be good to know what your perception of cuckolding is. In its purest form, it simply is a spouse who has sexual relations with others while the other spouse remains monogamous in the relationship. Then you toss in the interracial part of it, and it becomes specific to black & white, in this case black males & white females. So, does your fiancé have issues with having sexual relations with other men, in general, or does she have specific issues with the males being black?
....There are a lot of fantasy role playing that she might buy into, but her hang up might simply be having sex with other men, period ... after all, she's engaged to you, hoping to marry you, have your children, and grow old together. There is a big risk associated with this kind of activity that she sees as possibly damaging to your engagement & relationship ... her desires/plans are a lot more 'long term' ... your cockolding fantasy not so much so.
....Just tossing out some role playing ... if she's into that, one in particular is her being your dominatrix, and you her sub fun ... there are even outfits for this kind of activity. Also, the humiliation of cock locks, sissifying, domestic servitude. Do you even know what her sexual fantasies are? These are her "hot buttons" (if she'll reveal them) to get her hormones pumping and making her more receptive to what you wish to do. I'd start with HER sexual fantasies, first.
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It's really just like you said, she's engaged to me and she doesnt feel right doing it. I'm not even looking for ways to include her cause we've tried a lot so im just looking for ways to keep it sexy for me. Her humiliating me and watching her really take big cocks is a lot different than watching cuckold porn etc if you know what im saying. It's just not near as satisfying.

Thanks for all your replies!