....I guess before suggestions can really be given, it would be good to know what
your perception of
cuckolding is. In its purest form, it simply is a spouse who has sexual relations with others while the other spouse remains monogamous in the relationship. Then you toss in the interracial part of it, and it becomes specific to black & white, in this case black males & white females. So, does your fiancé have issues with having sexual relations with other men, in general, or does she have specific issues with the males being black?
....There are a lot of fantasy role playing that she might buy into, but her hang up might simply be having sex with other men,
period ... after all, she's engaged to you, hoping to marry you, have your children, and grow old together. There is a big risk associated with this kind of activity that she sees as possibly damaging to your engagement & relationship ... her desires/plans are a lot more 'long term' ... your cockolding fantasy not so much so.
....Just tossing out some role playing ... if she's into that, one in particular is her being your
dominatrix, and you her
sub fun ... there are even outfits for this kind of activity. Also, the humiliation of cock locks, sissifying, domestic servitude. Do you even know what
her sexual fantasies are? These are her "hot buttons" (if she'll reveal them) to get her hormones pumping and making her more receptive to what you wish to do. I'd start with
HER sexual fantasies, first.
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