Operation Stealth Swingers: So I live in condo where Im notice a lot of different couples of all types. What I would like to do is somehow know or give a signal off to the couples who are swingers and would love to get fucked by their BBC cock neighbor . This is a catch-22 situation, where there is no way to really know and if I somehow offend a couple itll be awkward that I have to see all of the time. "Look honey thats the guy who tried to hit on me." Now, I know that there are plenty couples who would having this BBC in their bed. Most people here are to themselves and you dont see many people walking around too often. Because of our schedules, I can easily go a few months without seeing a neighbor that lives a few doors down. My challenge is how do I sniff them out. So, this is how this will work: Post your advice on how I should get swinger couples in my building. Ex: leaving a message somewhere public with a message only swingers would know; putting up a bulletin, knocking on doors, etc lol Then, if the advice is reasonable and good enough, I will try your advice and post the progress and outcome here for everyone. How does that sound?? Commencing: Operation Stealth Swingers Update: I should clarify that the issue isn't that I cant find a couple. The challenge is that I want a couple in my building and want to be mindful of how to do it. There's another level of eroticism and thrill with the idea of having a neighbor that will share more than just a cup of sugar Update 1: So, apparently there is a thing about the "Queen of Spades" symbol that should be a know meaning within the community as an invitation for black men for white women. This is a good start. I can work with this...Maybe a professional looking bulletin in the building lobby. Unsuspecting people would think nothing of it, but those in "the-know" would get the message..