If you are not into cuckolding why do you even entertain the idea?? You know exactly what is going to happen. She is eventually going to fuck him. If you are turned on by the idea then go ahead and let her go out on a date with the guy but if you are concerned then you need to take a real look at your relationship and ask yourself why your girl wants to go out on a date when she has been with you for 14 months! Just be aware that the reality of cuckolding is very different than the fantasy. It is definitely going to change your relationship and she is most probably going to pay much less attention to you sexually.
My girlfriend has been asked on a date
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She’s going to have a great experience. She’s reaching her zenith and you’ve helped her. Be proud and now let her go get what she deserves finally after so many years
Yep, my wife works in a public office and interacts with tons of people. She gets asked out all the time. Like 95% of the time she says no, but every so often she gives a guy her number just to tease me and they text back and forth and she reads the messages to me while I jerk off. Pretty fun for both of us.
yes it is meNicely put Carolyn. Is that really you in your profile pic?
Best to communicate and figure out what you both want. Cuckolding may seem exciting when it is you fantasizing about it, but this does not sound like she is pursuing it for the same fantasy. Dating/friendship can lead to a lot stronger tie than just sex. Not that you have any say in what she does, but I’d think she is more than a bit interested if she wants to “give him a chance". And what about what he wants? Odds are he’s much more into a relationship than just hooking up - poke around this site too much and you’ll get lulled into thinking there are only bulls out there when really they are few and far between.
At least you all are upfront about the date with each other, just remember many more men are into it for sex at first - women want companionship and connection. Trust me I know, as years ago I pushed my now wife to date a co-worker who asked her out constantly. He was attractive, black, and I was all over her to cuck me after I found out she had a thing for the brothers and dated many in college. Looking back, my efforts were mostly to please me, and I just assumed she would get off the same way I did. Well, one date led to two, three and four, and soon I got what I want - a virile strong black man sleeping with my girlfriend on a regular basis. Of course I liked it. She really liked it, and so did he, but his intentions were never to be just the bull, and her most enjoyment was not in cucking of me, it was in connecting with him. It didn’t take long for her to leave me for him, and I ended up being the one on the outside. Had he not done some dumb things, and moved out of town the next year, I would have never gotten back in the picture. The fun and games part of it can happen, just don’t assume it will. I’d 100% recommend cucking if you know she’ll be with you and love you forever, though that’s impossible to guarantee. Instead, be prepared for her to leave you, for this guy or someone else.
At least you all are upfront about the date with each other, just remember many more men are into it for sex at first - women want companionship and connection. Trust me I know, as years ago I pushed my now wife to date a co-worker who asked her out constantly. He was attractive, black, and I was all over her to cuck me after I found out she had a thing for the brothers and dated many in college. Looking back, my efforts were mostly to please me, and I just assumed she would get off the same way I did. Well, one date led to two, three and four, and soon I got what I want - a virile strong black man sleeping with my girlfriend on a regular basis. Of course I liked it. She really liked it, and so did he, but his intentions were never to be just the bull, and her most enjoyment was not in cucking of me, it was in connecting with him. It didn’t take long for her to leave me for him, and I ended up being the one on the outside. Had he not done some dumb things, and moved out of town the next year, I would have never gotten back in the picture. The fun and games part of it can happen, just don’t assume it will. I’d 100% recommend cucking if you know she’ll be with you and love you forever, though that’s impossible to guarantee. Instead, be prepared for her to leave you, for this guy or someone else.
I wouldn't put up with it. One person just announcing a date without an established agreement sounds more like cheating. Now I let Lo get all the cock she wants but that's because we put our relationship first and it's secure. This sounds more like she wants to see if she can find someone better without giving up the guy she has.
SaintPaul24
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Thanks for the input everyone I definitely have things to consider
bigdickcuck
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I really do wish you all the luck.
