Many or One

[bwhite463913]

We are really new with the whole BBC life but I’ve had a couple and loved it. My question, is different lovers better or should I have one bbc full time lover? This is the wife btw lol

 

[bdowned]

When my wife was younger and there was no formal Bull, she dated on a one at time basis but was not exclusive. STD was always a concern, When one of her lovers was a serious Bull, the dynamic changed. We have had three Bulls, but the one we now have is a keeper. If we could, we would have his baby.

 

[cuck4Beth]

My wife prefers a regular black lover because they can go bareback. We have been seeing him for 2.5 years. Occasionally he brings others but they wear condoms.

 

[bwhite463913]

I think one solid black lover is

Finding the regular guy is half the fun, the other half is when you do and everyone is comfortable, more fun is found in the one on ones with a regular and telling hubby about it latter

yeah he is last to know lol haha

 

[bwhite463913]

When my wife was younger and there was no formal Bull, she dated on a one at time basis but was not exclusive. STD was always a concern, When one of her lovers was a serious Bull, the dynamic changed. We have had three Bulls, but the one we now have is a keeper. If we could, we would have his baby.

WOW that is hot!

 

[bwhite463913]

I think one true black lover is the way to go, but it’s going to be fun to find him!

 

[bdowned]

WOW that is hot!

It is amazingly hot. I have been 24/7 caged for quite a while. This makes it even hotter for a sub like me.

 

[bwhite463913]

It is amazingly hot. I have been 24/7 caged for quite a while. This makes it even hotter for a sub like me.

Like you should, My hubby hasn’t been in me in 2 yrs

 

[bdowned]

Is he caged!?

 

[bwhite463913]

No just not used

 

[bdowned]

No just not used

That would be very difficult for me. Though there is only 2 and 1//2 inches to play with, I did it a lot which would lower my interest. With the cage, I have no choice but to focus on my Wife and her Bull.

I admire your husband's moxie!

 

[mrandmrsbusty]

we started by her having one offs, but found it better to have a regular, more fun and you build up a relationship, and then sometimes throw in a on off meet with new guy, just for a bit extra

 

[Looking4hung1]

I have "my guy" so we prefer not to get to close so always looking for the next one. Have had a couple regular guys over the yrs and the good thing about a regular guy is the trust you build with him. You can trust that if he says he going to show up, you can trust that he's not going to out you if you are trying to be discreet, etc. Also get more comfortable in bed as we know what each other prefer. Flip side is getting to close that it becomes more than sex and wanting something deeper