Male's Attitudes

NewCoupleCJ said:
Was talking to my Boyfriend tonight about what might possibly be our biggest turn off;

"Potential" men that subscribe to belief that any and all white women are "black cock loving whores" and should be treated like such.

Unfortunately this attitude is so promoted it makes finding real connections very difficult.

Would love to hear some input

C & J
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There are black men who believe that just because a woman have a racial preference she will have sex with any black guy that ask for it. I have a female friend that finds 'British accent' sexy and has the same problem with white English whenever she mentions it. Regarding black men, many believe that white women are very promiscuous and all have a secret craving for black cocks. I talked with a guy from Ghana convinced about this, even not having sex with an European woman since he reached to my country 5 years ago. I would say that interracial porn is feeding these sterotypes, but also the classical macho-man attitude of many black guys lying about the number of their sexual conquests.

Another issue is the classic madonna/whore dichotomy present in the traditional male mindset. I enjoy dirty talk and rough sex, but this is a consensual 'role play' for specific moments with the man I choose. There are many guys who don't understand the difference.
 
NewCoupleCJ said:
Was talking to my Boyfriend tonight about what might possibly be our biggest turn off;

"Potential" men that subscribe to belief that any and all white women are "black cock loving whores" and should be treated like such.

Unfortunately this attitude is so promoted it makes finding real connections very difficult.

Would love to hear some input

C & J
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Hey NewCoupleCJ:

There is so much nonsense on this site you will not believe. That what you said there above, and then some. You need the patience of a thousand ages to weed through the fakes and bullshitters. I speak from experience.

I only got back on here today to see if anything has changed, or if there are any new couples who are for real in the NY, Jersey, Philly region or nearby.

If ever you care for some no nonsense chat with the potential to actually go somewhere, feel free to hit me up with a PM.
 
This isn't anything new. If one reads some of the comments on here you will find that a lot of guys who say they should be respected are the ones giving no respect to start with. You will find comments on here from guys who say that all white women are for is to be black bred or are only a toy for them to be used. And if you don't agree then you're a 'know it all chick or guy- couple' and should just STFU. Meaning that only their opinion counts.

In my time here I have had hundreds of guys message or comment. Yet the actual amount that have made it through to meeting me is 0.00000. 01%. I am sure many of those commenting here have had the same experience of guys being total brain dead idiots thinking that a female or couple looking for a short or long term relationship with a guy is going to swoon by being called a whore, slut or something along those lines within the first paragragh .

I don't know about anyone else, but if a guy opens with the line calling me a any one of a torrent of names in the opening sentence, then the only answer they get is the ignore button. Guys must think through their colon if they think that something like that will work. But once they see you're not interested the usual attitude is 'you're either fake or I didn't want to meet you any way' kind of thing. Its nothing new. Not here, not on any social meeting site.

It is unfortunate that the dis-respect attitude is creeping in more and more, yet the same people dis-respecting others are the first to demand it. Life is too short for their bullshit. So best action is to use the ignore button and keep looking. It takes time for sure. But believe it or not, there are some great guys on here who are respectful, fun, and know when name calling can be involved. They communicate, facilitate, and anticipate the needs and wants, and adjust to make it fun for everyone. And that includes everyone involved!
 
EarthC137 said:
Pretty much anyone who uses the word slut when messaging me gets ignored.
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Noooo. You don't swoon from happiness? You don't throw yourself on your back from gratefulness at being name called? Surely you drool from their skill at being able to converse in an intelligent manner? No? And here's me thinking I was alone in using the ignore button :eek:
 
DaphneD said:
This isn't anything new. If one reads some of the comments on here you will find that a lot of guys who say they should be respected are the ones giving no respect to start with. You will find comments on here from guys who say that all white women are for is to be black bred or are only a toy for them to be used. And if you don't agree then you're a 'know it all chick or guy- couple' and should just STFU. Meaning that only their opinion counts.

In my time here I have had hundreds of guys message or comment. Yet the actual amount that have made it through to meeting me is 0.00000. 01%. I am sure many of those commenting here have had the same experience of guys being total brain dead idiots thinking that a female or couple looking for a short or long term relationship with a guy is going to swoon by being called a whore, slut or something along those lines within the first paragragh .

I don't know about anyone else, but if a guy opens with the line calling me a any one of a torrent of names in the opening sentence, then the only answer they get is the ignore button. Guys must think through their colon if they think that something like that will work. But once they see you're not interested the usual attitude is 'you're either fake or I didn't want to meet you any way' kind of thing. Its nothing new. Not here, not on any social meeting site.

It is unfortunate that the dis-respect attitude is creeping in more and more, yet the same people dis-respecting others are the first to demand it. Life is too short for their bullshit. So best action is to use the ignore button and keep looking. It takes time for sure. But believe it or not, there are some great guys on here who are respectful, fun, and know when name calling can be involved. They communicate, facilitate, and anticipate the needs and wants, and adjust to make it fun for everyone. And that includes everyone involved!
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I would love to have a cocktail with you! Exactly what I wish I said.
 
extrafun said:
Its due to all the fakes on here and their BS stories.
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One of the biggest problems is sorting out the four main groups of members.


  1. Genuine who want to meet, but want to take it easy and be sure of who they are getting and who they are going to meet.
  2. Members who want to use BtoW as a play ground ie sex chat, photo swap and or cam to cam with others.
  3. The hostile' breed the white females out of existence', 'we surrender to anything of colour', and can I suck a black cock cuck's and their supporters who take over threads and spoil it for others.
  4. The fakes, flakes, scam artists, liars, collectors and bullshit merchants.

There are a lot of good genuine people on B2W who genuinely find it a continuous battle just to get a mature and well mannered conversation with a like minded adult on B2W. Whether just for a chat, or to arrange a meet. Its unfair to blame all the cuck's, fakes for everything on here concerning attitudes. There are quite a few guys who say they want to meet couples, females, yet seem to have a lack of respect for others in the life style.

The greatest problem on B2W right now are the fakes and flakes, the fantasy postings, stories, 'web picture' posting when claiming its their wife. Don't get me wrong. There are fake guys as there are fake couples and females Its a fact they are all over the web, and not just here is the most depressing thought. And one that isn't going away any time soon.

It shouldn't be that those members who actually meet, want to meet, or are looking to meet are suddenly inundated with a swamp of ill intent. Its a difficult task just finding a site you can relate to without the assault of collectors, liars and flakes from the get go. There's no simple solution. And that's the biggest problem. How does one police a site where freedom of speech( within reason) is encouraged ? Do members allow B2W to monitor, or take away the very essence of the site by policing all comments PM's and posts? Policing v Freedom.

Hard choice when one suffers from the BS and fakes no?

The part solution to this problem could be having a set of protocols to use when contacting or being contacted by other members and sticking to it. It shouldn't be like this. But is seems to be the way it is. We can help ourselves by having protocols to use and go by. A quick example is, I never meet without at least seeing the guy on Whats, KiK, of telegram media chats. after a period of PM's or messages on the afore mentioned media. It takes a fair amount of time before we even get to that stage. And no, it doesn't always work weeding out the fakes. But it works 95% of the time. Nothing is one hundred percent . But its a start .
 
And Daphne, you could spend all that time trying to make sure the match is right, only to after weeks or months have your contact flake out on you, be a no show, or suddenly claim to be tentative or unsure about whether they want to proceed. Their uncertainty lasts forever. So yeah, couples dish out the BS too. Meanwhile fakes I see haven't stopped spamming one's inbox.
 
DaphneD said:
One of the biggest problems is sorting out the four main groups of members.


  1. Genuine who want to meet, but want to take it easy and be sure of who they are getting and who they are going to meet.
  2. Members who want to use BtoW as a play ground ie sex chat, photo swap and or cam to cam with others.
  3. The hostile' breed the white females out of existence', 'we surrender to anything of colour', and can I suck a black cock cuck's and their supporters who take over threads and spoil it for others.
  4. The fakes, flakes, scam artists, liars, collectors and bullshit merchants.

There are a lot of good genuine people on B2W who genuinely find it a continuous battle just to get a mature and well mannered conversation with a like minded adult on B2W. Whether just for a chat, or to arrange a meet. Its unfair to blame all the cuck's, fakes for everything on here concerning attitudes. There are quite a few guys who say they want to meet couples, females, yet seem to have a lack of respect for others in the life style.

The greatest problem on B2W right now are the fakes and flakes, the fantasy postings, stories, 'web picture' posting when claiming its their wife. Don't get me wrong. There are fake guys as there are fake couples and females Its a fact they are all over the web, and not just here is the most depressing thought. And one that isn't going away any time soon.

It shouldn't be that those members who actually meet, want to meet, or are looking to meet are suddenly inundated with a swamp of ill intent. Its a difficult task just finding a site you can relate to without the assault of collectors, liars and flakes from the get go. There's no simple solution. And that's the biggest problem. How does one police a site where freedom of speech( within reason) is encouraged ? Do members allow B2W to monitor, or take away the very essence of the site by policing all comments PM's and posts? Policing v Freedom.

Hard choice when one suffers from the BS and fakes no?

The part solution to this problem could be having a set of protocols to use when contacting or being contacted by other members and sticking to it. It shouldn't be like this. But is seems to be the way it is. We can help ourselves by having protocols to use and go by. A quick example is, I never meet without at least seeing the guy on Whats, KiK, of telegram media chats. after a period of PM's or messages on the afore mentioned media. It takes a fair amount of time before we even get to that stage. And no, it doesn't always work weeding out the fakes. But it works 95% of the time. Nothing is one hundred percent . But its a start .
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There is no free speech on this site. A white male can not stick up for his race against black racist and anti white male members who post anti white content. Admin actually blocked us for repeating same exact content back with white being replaced with black. I was not allowed to argue that black males are the so called superior race, if that's not racism then what is? This site is slanted from the administration down and love that anti white sediment is pushed to no end. Try posting how superior white dick is over the weak black man and you will immediately get censored. Only wimp white men and their white whore wives who bow down to bbc and treat husbands like trash is truly acceptable on BtoW. So thats where all the fake BS stories come from. Because thats what the admin of site want. Im sure i will hear it again for sticking up for white men (a felony on this site) BTW i have had more so called bbc beg to suck my cock and eat my ass than one could imagine and we are Stag/Vixen.
 
extrafun said:
There is no free speech on this site. A white male can not stick up for his race against black racist and anti white male members who post anti white content. Admin actually blocked us for repeating same exact content back with white being replaced with black. I was not allowed to argue that black males are the so called superior race, if that's not racism then what is? This site is slanted from the administration down and love that anti white sediment is pushed to no end. Try posting how superior white dick is over the weak black man and you will immediately get censored. Only wimp white men and their white whore wives who bow down to bbc and treat husbands like trash is truly acceptable on BtoW. So thats where all the fake BS stories come from. Because thats what the admin of site want. Im sure i will hear it again for sticking up for white men (a felony on this site) BTW i have had more so called bbc beg to suck my cock and eat my ass than one could imagine and we are Stag/Vixen.
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Amen!
 
B Brown said:
And Daphne, you could spend all that time trying to make sure the match is right, only to after weeks or months have your contact flake out on you, be a no show, or suddenly claim to be tentative or unsure about whether they want to proceed. Their uncertainty lasts forever. So yeah, couples dish out the BS too. Meanwhile fakes I see haven't stopped spamming one's inbox.
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Yes. Also happens from couples I agree. Its not a one sided coin that's for sure.
 
extrafun said:
There is no free speech on this site. A white male can not stick up for his race against black racist and anti white male members who post anti white content. Admin actually blocked us for repeating same exact content back with white being replaced with black. I was not allowed to argue that black males are the so called superior race, if that's not racism then what is? This site is slanted from the administration down and love that anti white sediment is pushed to no end. Try posting how superior white dick is over the weak black man and you will immediately get censored. Only wimp white men and their white whore wives who bow down to bbc and treat husbands like trash is truly acceptable on BtoW. So thats where all the fake BS stories come from. Because thats what the admin of site want. Im sure i will hear it again for sticking up for white men (a felony on this site) BTW i have had more so called bbc beg to suck my cock and eat my ass than one could imagine and we are Stag/Vixen.
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You are being disingenuous to a lot of the admin. Yes some posts do get removed but so do racist comments and remarks. I cannot speak for admin but I can speak only for my experience as a mod. Everyone involved tries to make a balance between allowing people o be who they want to be v free speach. ANY racist comment whether from white or black is usually removed. No one is here 24 7 so some do slip through and some members will have comments removed if looks or is complained about being racist. Mods do their best. I think thats all we can ask of them. You have to realise that B2W is advertised as a cuckold site. That said some actions do seem disproportionately biased.

Please don't think I'm blowing off your experience, you wouldn't have mentioned it if it wasn't important or didn't happen. All I can say, is that maybe more was at play than was visible.
 
extrafun said:
There is no free speech on this site. A white male can not stick up for his race against black racist and anti white male members who post anti white content. Admin actually blocked us for repeating same exact content back with white being replaced with black. I was not allowed to argue that black males are the so called superior race, if that's not racism then what is? This site is slanted from the administration down and love that anti white sediment is pushed to no end. Try posting how superior white dick is over the weak black man and you will immediately get censored. Only wimp white men and their white whore wives who bow down to bbc and treat husbands like trash is truly acceptable on BtoW. So thats where all the fake BS stories come from. Because thats what the admin of site want. Im sure i will hear it again for sticking up for white men (a felony on this site) BTW i have had more so called bbc beg to suck my cock and eat my ass than one could imagine and we are Stag/Vixen.
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Just as BDSM is based on an unequal relationship between dominant and submissive, and the latter enjoys and finds his place by adopting an 'inferior' role and being sexually humiliated, on an interracial cuckolding site something similar happens. People involved assume some roles that would be very politically incorrect outside of a consensual scenario.

The problem is many people seems not to see the difference between sex fantasies and reality. The limits between a fetish in which others are respected as human beings and real racism is very diffuse and extremely subjective. My personal impression is IR porn is feeding many racial sterotypes -- not all white guys are betas, not all black guys are Nubian gods, and not all white women love BBCs. Some black men considers IR sex a form of racist aggression, as I read recently in this forum.

I imagine that for a moderator to establish what is serious racism and what fetished fantasy is almost impossible.
 
DaphneD said:
You are being disingenuous to a lot of the admin. Yes some posts do get removed but so do racist comments and remarks. I cannot speak for admin but I can speak only for my experience as a mod. Everyone involved tries to make a balance between allowing people o be who they want to be v free speach. ANY racist comment whether from white or black is usually removed. No one is here 24 7 so some do slip through and some members will have comments removed if looks or is complained about being racist. Mods do their best. I think thats all we can ask of them. You have to realise that B2W is advertised as a cuckold site. That said some actions do seem disproportionately biased.

Please don't think I'm blowing off your experience, you wouldn't have mentioned it if it wasn't important or didn't happen. All I can say, is that maybe more was at play than was visible.
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I understand, just speaking from personal experience where black supremacy over white race was allowed to stay posted and my comments were removed and i was suspended from site.
 
NewCoupleCJ said:
Was talking to my Boyfriend tonight about what might possibly be our biggest turn off;

"Potential" men that subscribe to belief that any and all white women are "black cock loving whores" and should be treated like such.

Unfortunately this attitude is so promoted it makes finding real connections very difficult.

Would love to hear some input

C & J
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It’s truly unfortunate that you have encountered the degenerates that you did. What we all choose to engage in is a lifestyle that consenting mutual adults choose to engage in for pleasure. It should be about RESPECT for everyone involved especially when parties are choosing to be sexually free and liberated. I would advise you not to be discouraged but rather be selective with the male partners you choose. Look for those that will provide you with respect as a perso!! look for a level of maturity, discretion and an understanding of everyone’s role; all this inturn will make for a more gratifying and pleasurable engagement after all is done. Hope this helps some..
 
DaphneD said:
You are being disingenuous to a lot of the admin. Yes some posts do get removed but so do racist comments and remarks. I cannot speak for admin but I can speak only for my experience as a mod. Everyone involved tries to make a balance between allowing people o be who they want to be v free speach. ANY racist comment whether from white or black is usually removed. No one is here 24 7 so some do slip through and some members will have comments removed if looks or is complained about being racist. Mods do their best. I think thats all we can ask of them. You have to realise that B2W is advertised as a cuckold site. That said some actions do seem disproportionately biased.

Please don't think I'm blowing off your experience, you wouldn't have mentioned it if it wasn't important or didn't happen. All I can say, is that maybe more was at play than was visible.
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This is advertised as an interracial porn forum. No where is it listed as a cuckold site. To be into IR fun one does not have to be a label. If it were cuckold IR porn forum we would have never joined. Its much more but people try to make it purely about cuckold .
 
extrafun said:
This is advertised as an interracial porn forum. No where is it listed as a cuckold site. To be into IR fun one does not have to be a label. If it were cuckold IR porn forum we would have never joined. Its much more but people try to make it purely about cuckold .
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Sorry I should have said before the last update of the site it was advertised as a cuckold site and community. For two years or more it was advertised as a cuckold forum and website. How do I know? Because I mentioned, along with others, two or three times that maybe the name change was needed. Also on the web there are still traces of the old B2W. And they mention cuckolding.

On a last note. Here's the main page sub title.

Interracial Forums Share your interracial dreams, desires and experiences. General talk, interracial cuckolding, and real people's pictures
 
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NewCoupleCJ said:
Was talking to my Boyfriend tonight about what might possibly be our biggest turn off;

"Potential" men that subscribe to belief that any and all white women are "black cock loving whores" and should be treated like such.

Unfortunately this attitude is so promoted it makes finding real connections very difficult.
Would love to hear some input

C & J
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I understand where you’re coming from and I’m not a woman but I can honestly say that as a man I wouldn’t call any woman a slut, a whore or any derogatory term that’s a deal breaker for her.







In my relationship perspective if I ever had a chance to meet beautiful couples or women in person I’ll treat them with absolute appreciation & respect for their boundaries and desires & come from a place of absolute understanding.
 
DaphneD said:
Sorry I should have said before the last update of the site it was advertised as a cuckold site and community. For two years or more it was advertised as a cuckold forum and website. How do I know? Because I mentioned, along with others, two or three times that maybe the name change was needed. Also on the web there are still traces of the old B2W. And they mention cuckolding.

On a last note. Here's the main page sub title.

Interracial Forums Share your interracial dreams, desires and experiences. General talk, interracial cuckolding, and real people's pictures
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Well it changed for the better. That way everyone into IR play can enjoy.
 
NewCoupleCJ said:
Was talking to my Boyfriend tonight about what might possibly be our biggest turn off;

"Potential" men that subscribe to belief that any and all white women are "black cock loving whores" and should be treated like such.

Unfortunately this attitude is so promoted it makes finding real connections very difficult.

Would love to hear some input

C & J
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Ironically, white people, especially white men started that whole degradation narrative.

Look closer, you'll find overwhelming more white guys talk about their women as such.

Its not like black guys go around calling women names 🙄. Our momma raised is better than that.

But if I showed you MY DMs... It's filled with wives wanting me to call them that... Kinda like roleplaying

But I promise you the REAL BULLS here don't engage in that kind of talk UNLESS the couple specifically request it.

👍🏽
 
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