onceandawhl4fn
Couple
She would like a short term bull to help her get started. Maybe something will change if we meet the right person(s) She will definitely like to try several different bulls.
Long term vs short term
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I’m a serial monogamist lol. I’ve always preferred one known, trusted guy and look for quality over quantity. Its hard to find....
My wife started that way but the first one she was with, she felt an immediate connection and made it long term
My wife and I both prefer longer-term relationships although the right guy could take her most anytime given the right circumstances. Wife told me early in our relationship that she would get the most enjoyment from having her lovers in our home, where everyone could relax without worrying about preliminary meetings, checking in and out of hotels, wearing clothes and so on. Emotional connections did occur, and such relationships can be kind of awkward when they end or have to be ended. For her, the sex was always better when she had feelings for her lover, and frankly I liked it too.
Short term for sure... until that one on a million black stud shows. And then long term serving him any time he wants it. Booty calls 24/7, 365.
Prefer a long term who is close to us
My wife has had short term BBC and long term collared to BBC, both are fun but she much rather be collared to a black bull anytime she says.
Love the steadies. Sex gets better and better and I get willing to do more and more.
Long term which will allow trust and comfort to develop is the preference but the rare encounters that turn out to be one night events have been very enjoyable
I certainly lean toward polyamory, so it doesn't bother me at all to fall in love. Most people either don't have it in them or feel threatened by being in love with more than one person. No love could ever supplant the love I have with my hubby, and we've had (almost) 25 years of great love now. But when my black bull starts falling for me or vice versa, they inevitably freak out. I get it, because for most people, love means exclusivity--which is something I can't give or they don't want.
Still trying to find a good fit long-term. I would VERY much prefer to have a steady part-time BF (maybe two) who is open minded enough to not demand exclusivity, but doesn't feel threatened by being close. If he shared me from time to time, I sure wouldn't mind that either.
Then again, I also want to win the lottery and have mice drive my pumpkin-carriage to the ball, but I don't suppose that's going to happen either.
Its been almost 4 years now for my mrs and her boyfriend
That was true for my wife, she said he hits a spot she never knew she hadLong term, for me. It’s how I’m wired. I’m a one man woman...errrr...two man woman.Also, I think long term makes the sex better...again, for me. I like to learn what makes a lover love better...it helps me love better. Getting to know each other’s bodies and turn ons just makes the sex better over time. And who knows, a long term lover might help you find turn ons you didn’t know about!
Just my two cents...hope it makes sense too!
Definitely long term...There comes a time in your life when you want to settle down with one man who you trust and have great chemistry with. Meet up after meet up with different guys is too risky and very time consuming.
mrandmrsbusty
Couple
long term is always best, current lover is 12 months now, but some short term arrangements can be fu
Long term
calidreaming15
Couple
Wifey likes long term....but also enjoys a sampling of dick every once in a while.
Recently found a gem of a bbc. Nice cock and nice guy that doesn't flake and hosts
Recently found a gem of a bbc. Nice cock and nice guy that doesn't flake and hosts
Long-term with one quality BM is what we seek always. To varying degrees, we've found it; however, never for as long or as deeply explored as we desire. Bluntly stated, it has always been my husband's desire to share me completely with a BM physically. For some reason, it is rather easy for me to keep my heart out of any relationship with a BM. I enjoy sex with them, but the man who has ALWAYS brought me to orgasm has been my husband. The success rate is no where near that good with BMs...probably because they almost always prevaricate when they profess they are, too, looking for a "long-term" relationship. So, we give them a try, they fuck like a rabbit for five minutes or can't keep an erection for longer than that and then "come and go." Oh well, one must kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince.
Fortunately, we've found enough of those princes to keep us pursuing the Hot Wife version of a unicorn...a BM who really wants a long-term relationship with a couple and actually has the ability to stay in the saddle, bring the HW to orgasm and want to come back again and again as privileges accrue to him both for the quality of the sex and the commitment to the long-term relationship. Until then, we keep searching and hope for lightning to strike again.
Fortunately, we've found enough of those princes to keep us pursuing the Hot Wife version of a unicorn...a BM who really wants a long-term relationship with a couple and actually has the ability to stay in the saddle, bring the HW to orgasm and want to come back again and again as privileges accrue to him both for the quality of the sex and the commitment to the long-term relationship. Until then, we keep searching and hope for lightning to strike again.
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