I prefer long term.
Long term vs short term
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I prefer long term.
Houmilf4bbc
Couple
Long term
I understand that having someone vouch for you does help a lot
Constance
Couple
Long term xx
We're arranging a meet with her former lover again and hoping it will happen this time and go from short term to longer. They're messaging each other now which I think will help. I look forward to keeping you all updated!
NYSoccerMomCpl
Female
Have had some wonderful success with long term. You get a comfort level, trust. Learn each other's desires and fantasies. Though sometimes I must confess I enjoy a impromptu one night stand on occasion
long term of course
i might be giving you a slightly view. I am The Arranger again not the way you think or with who you think. As many of the couples have stated it take time to find a special friend. And not many guys are willing to take the time. They want micro wave sex ready in 30 seconds. Sorry that only happens in the movies and in the erotic story tellers. This worked both ways. The ladies i help have one thing in common with each group. Group one are the divorced ladies that have been treated badly by their ex’s the second smaller group are the trophy wives at have needs too but are not being met at home.
Group one are up set with their situation and their lack of time to spend finding that special boy friend what with *******, a job they have little time to be a lady again. To do so means a baby sitter that can stay late on a Friday or saturday night. It means going out to meet a guy only to have him not show up about 60 percent of the time. Or show up *******, or show up on ******* or worse yet looking nothing like the photo this is not counting the guys that get angry.
The second group have their husbands permission to play however he is concerned about two things. His reputation and her safety.
Not that there are any “Black” clubs in the area so that is our. There are a few meat market clubs however one has to think of their reputation.
If you do travel to the nearest swing clubs the single makes of every colour think to be cool you have to drive a drift car and wear your pants like you are a convict, a gang member or a plumber. For them it’s about image. For them its a bad one.
Why is that you might ask because the hotels don’t want the trouble with thugs.
What they / we are looking for is the following.
- Educated and capable of caring on a conversation.
- Polished as in a sports coat, nice shirt, at least good jeans (no holes, at your waiste height with a belt) no white tube socks, and a pair of casual shoes not sneakers. Loose the hand full of rings and all the gold neck chains. One ring and one chain no more. Mr T is not a good roll model for dress. Remember these ladies are trying to fly under the radar.
- Fit with a preference for and eight inch difference between chest and waist. So 44 inch chest means a 36 inch waist. Not the other way around.
- Good hygiene so brush those pearly whites.
- Smile no need to to look up set.
- Be polite to the guy that brought her to this point. He is on your side. Very few of us are gay or even bi. If it her husband nothing kills your chances faster than being rude to him. He has a lot more invested in this. Reputation, time finding you, driving her there to meet. Paying for dinner drinks and the hotel. He looking for this to be a special time for her
- Costs you don’t see are the visit to the spa to take a soccer mom to a hot wife, the time spent buying her new under wear, the time spent buying her a new out fit just for the meeting.
- The Husband is on your side he is your greatest fan. Think New York Bleacher Creature the guy that goes to all the game by public transit never once making it onto tv. These are guys you don’t fuck with if you want to play all season long.
If you are dealing with a divorced lady she to is looking for all of the above.
- She wants you to be better than she had in the past.
So the guy that has been her partner in driving to meet up with you is her company when you don’t show.
He is there when the guy does not show and holds her hand assuring her that the guy was a creep that she can do better.
He is also a witness for her doing better in every way.
You are better looking,
You are more fit.
You are taller.
You have better hair,
You smell better,
You are a better lover
A better kisser
Better stamina
Long equipment
Thicker equipment
More skilled
More lusty four or five time before resting and at least twice more in the morning.
Considerate ie brought your own condums / they may not get used but your remembered them.
Remember that a used condum maybe a trophy for some ladies. As in look how hot i am i got this guy to cum this hard / this much and this often.
Expect to wear condums the first meeting and suggest going for testing.
So yes that first time is important. She may have gone out ten times/ nine times she came up empty.
With either group at some point they will want to be watched with you. Husbands are more open to just listening or peaking in while on a bathroom walk. She may want to leave for a bit to reassure her husband that all is going well and to tuck him for the night. Divorced ladies will want to be watched earlier in the relationship to have a witness to confirm there stories to their lady friends.
One of my lady friends checked with me if i can get the fall reading week off from work. You see that week her ex husband has the ******* with his new family. This is a week where we travel to a warm location, she breakers out the micro bikini you know the one that not in your life will she wear it at home. There are the mesh dresses. We meet up with her boy friend / lover for a week of all out sex for them. In the room at the hotel. At the pool, in the hot tub, on both the low and high diving board, on the cabanas and of course on the beach. All be documented and sent to her lady friends.
Oh my god did i really write this much? Everyone else writes just two lines.
Group one are up set with their situation and their lack of time to spend finding that special boy friend what with *******, a job they have little time to be a lady again. To do so means a baby sitter that can stay late on a Friday or saturday night. It means going out to meet a guy only to have him not show up about 60 percent of the time. Or show up *******, or show up on ******* or worse yet looking nothing like the photo this is not counting the guys that get angry.
The second group have their husbands permission to play however he is concerned about two things. His reputation and her safety.
Not that there are any “Black” clubs in the area so that is our. There are a few meat market clubs however one has to think of their reputation.
If you do travel to the nearest swing clubs the single makes of every colour think to be cool you have to drive a drift car and wear your pants like you are a convict, a gang member or a plumber. For them it’s about image. For them its a bad one.
Why is that you might ask because the hotels don’t want the trouble with thugs.
What they / we are looking for is the following.
- Educated and capable of caring on a conversation.
- Polished as in a sports coat, nice shirt, at least good jeans (no holes, at your waiste height with a belt) no white tube socks, and a pair of casual shoes not sneakers. Loose the hand full of rings and all the gold neck chains. One ring and one chain no more. Mr T is not a good roll model for dress. Remember these ladies are trying to fly under the radar.
- Fit with a preference for and eight inch difference between chest and waist. So 44 inch chest means a 36 inch waist. Not the other way around.
- Good hygiene so brush those pearly whites.
- Smile no need to to look up set.
- Be polite to the guy that brought her to this point. He is on your side. Very few of us are gay or even bi. If it her husband nothing kills your chances faster than being rude to him. He has a lot more invested in this. Reputation, time finding you, driving her there to meet. Paying for dinner drinks and the hotel. He looking for this to be a special time for her
- Costs you don’t see are the visit to the spa to take a soccer mom to a hot wife, the time spent buying her new under wear, the time spent buying her a new out fit just for the meeting.
- The Husband is on your side he is your greatest fan. Think New York Bleacher Creature the guy that goes to all the game by public transit never once making it onto tv. These are guys you don’t fuck with if you want to play all season long.
If you are dealing with a divorced lady she to is looking for all of the above.
- She wants you to be better than she had in the past.
So the guy that has been her partner in driving to meet up with you is her company when you don’t show.
He is there when the guy does not show and holds her hand assuring her that the guy was a creep that she can do better.
He is also a witness for her doing better in every way.
You are better looking,
You are more fit.
You are taller.
You have better hair,
You smell better,
You are a better lover
A better kisser
Better stamina
Long equipment
Thicker equipment
More skilled
More lusty four or five time before resting and at least twice more in the morning.
Considerate ie brought your own condums / they may not get used but your remembered them.
Remember that a used condum maybe a trophy for some ladies. As in look how hot i am i got this guy to cum this hard / this much and this often.
Expect to wear condums the first meeting and suggest going for testing.
So yes that first time is important. She may have gone out ten times/ nine times she came up empty.
With either group at some point they will want to be watched with you. Husbands are more open to just listening or peaking in while on a bathroom walk. She may want to leave for a bit to reassure her husband that all is going well and to tuck him for the night. Divorced ladies will want to be watched earlier in the relationship to have a witness to confirm there stories to their lady friends.
One of my lady friends checked with me if i can get the fall reading week off from work. You see that week her ex husband has the ******* with his new family. This is a week where we travel to a warm location, she breakers out the micro bikini you know the one that not in your life will she wear it at home. There are the mesh dresses. We meet up with her boy friend / lover for a week of all out sex for them. In the room at the hotel. At the pool, in the hot tub, on both the low and high diving board, on the cabanas and of course on the beach. All be documented and sent to her lady friends.
Oh my god did i really write this much? Everyone else writes just two lines.
Long term would be so nice
I understand
Both have there advantages
One long term at this moment
One long term at this moment
Our preference is to get to know an intimate sexual friendship with one lovely respectful black gentleman blessed with at least a 9” cut bbc witness whom we can enjoy his company in and out of the bedroom,and be an integral part of our bbc sex lifestyle with both of us together ! How does that sound ? I currently have a black lover,but that’s not to say that we’re nit looking for other bbc who may be more reliable and available. Especially if they’re here in Melbourne Australia - now that would be wonderful if he was ! My smooth tight little pussy gets quite wet just thinking about the erotic hot sensual pleasurable and satisfying possibilities ! Is anyone out there ? Please contact us ! Lol xxx
My wife definitely prefers long-term. But there is a danger of emotional attachment.
FEROSFERIO
Couple
We are looking for my wife to have 1-3 long term bulls. I want her to really be attracted to and enjoy sex with bulls such that the encounters are very fulfilling for her. I want the bulls to learn how to and enjoy pleasure the Mrs.
I would certainly prefer long term with a married couple. Its always much easier to find hit and runs or couples asking you to come over, do your thing, and leave never to be seen again. I'm not into that. I prefer trust building, long term friendship with a couple I can hang out with and whose wife I can sl-eep with overnight. I've actually found couples who would have made great long term friends like this in other states, whereas if I lived in their area, I'd already be in a long term relationship. But its been very hard finding that in my own area. 
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My wife went for it after years of fantasizing about it to really good sex but when a new younger very good looking well-built coworker expressed great interest in her at work she came to me with "can I " and "are you sure you want me too" The only thing would be he would have no idea that I would ever no...so it would be an affair.
It was her first time going outside the marriage and very first time with a black guy....I can tell she has feelings for him and she tells me he has feelings for her...so she is very content with long term with just him
It was her first time going outside the marriage and very first time with a black guy....I can tell she has feelings for him and she tells me he has feelings for her...so she is very content with long term with just him
Prefer long-term
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