Nicole_Chris
Couple
I prefer long term, the sex is better.
Long term vs short term
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I prefer long term, the sex is better.
I was hoping for something long term with my first lover when it started. It was a fabulous seduction and the first sex was exciting and pretty good. Later sex was even better as he really worked at getting to know what I liked. It was fun while it lasted, but eventually his inability to be discrete led to me breaking it off. Too bad, I still occasionally wonder how things might have been.
The second lover was a one night stand while at a business conference. It was intense, exciting and totally fun, but not as deeply satisfying as the first guy. so having done both I'm definitely a more long term girl.
The second lover was a one night stand while at a business conference. It was intense, exciting and totally fun, but not as deeply satisfying as the first guy. so having done both I'm definitely a more long term girl.
EXACTLY
I've been with my current lover about a year now and I love it. I have a steady BBC source and another up side is that from time to time he shares me with his friends 
So do we.
Do you only meet at home or travel together?I've been with my current lover about a year now and I love it. I have a steady BBC source and another up side is that from time to time he shares me with his friends
You hit the nail on the head Bro!
MarriedWhite
Couple
For some reason the term Bull does not appeal to me, so we don’t normally use it. I’ll admit that our experience is limited, only five different black men in three years, but none of them were thought of as a Bull, either by my husband and I or themselves. That might be contrary to popular opinion here, but it’s what we are comfortable with.
Our dates have a very important social aspect and are not merely sexual events. They therefore are more pleasurable and satisfying experiences for all three of us, which is our ultimate goal.
Now to answer your question: I much prefer long-term relationships. Before a first date, I am always nervous and a bit apprehensive and only start to feel more comfortable after we have met with him several times. I have never been able to achieve orgasm on a first date, which proves to me that this apprehension is more than just a surface reaction. His feelings are also important so I always pretend that I’ve been over the moon. Once I’m comfortable with him I really do go over the moon, usually several times. As you can see, only long-term relationships will work for me.
Having said all that, I should explain that what I wrote applies ONLY TO PLANNED sexual first times. Spontaneous sex is entirely different since there is hardly time for apprehension to develop in those situations.
This is all very clear in my mind, but I’m not certain that I’ve explained it very well. I guess I should have insisted that my husband respond for me, instead of just giving me a smile and a pat on the butt.
Would prefer long-term with one bull, or a group who get along well together.
Ahy do you think its unfair to the bulll
Good point....A lot of time energy and trust is put forward
. Susan has many long term friends but she enjoys new friends too and she has no trouble meeting them usually and mostly because she is introduced to them by a current friend. This screening by current friends is very important to us
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