Ladies who have cut husband off: Why did you do so and how you stay feeling connected?

Just my opinion but I don't think most men that led their wives into their fantasy of being a cuckolded expected to be cut off from having intercourse with their wives any at all. So much of all of this cuckolding, black only, master slave is so hard to take in because it goes against our traditional marriage vows. Very confusing because we all have choices in all that we do and if being pussy free is what a husband choices for himself more power to him. Not all men, in fact most husbands are not submissive Cuckolds and are not willing to be controlled or denied by their wives and certainly not another man. Don't get me wrong because to be a Cuckold you must give your wife at least some extra freedom to have sex with another man or men. In these marriages that go into the cuckold lifestyle most have limits, rules and boundaries. For those marriages that all of a sudden turn control over to the wife to do what and who she wants with few limits certainly that is fine as long as they both want it that way. In most cases if a wife gets so involved with a man besides her husband that she tries to cut back on her husbands marital rights or gives oral or anal to a lover but not her cuckold husband then that isn't going to go well. Even with me fantasies run rampant but I must control my fantasies and not let them control me. I am not debating the fact that today there are hundreds of ways to live a cuckold lifestyle and to each their own, but total submission is not for me.
 
Ive gone through periods of being cut off during heavy bull infatuation times...but some of it was also her pussy shape changed and it didnt feel as snug anymore and so the feeling for her and I changed. 9inch plus cocks ramming her pussy regularly made it larger and gaping...so it wasn't as pleasurable for either of us as she couldnt feel me, she wanted her bulls larger cocks and for me it wasn''t as snug and i became self conscious because I knew I was now even pleasing her less since she had gotten used to her lovers size and prefered it...So to stay connected we would have sex 3 times a month roughly and I gave her a lot of oral and she would give me oral while either talking dirty to her or praising her with affection. Ultimately sexually we were happy that way,,I masturbated a lot and got some sex and she got fucked a lot and got oral attention from me too,,,plus I was her rock, the husband, I wasn't going anywhere long term and she knew it..even falling in love with her lovers she knew it was never going to be like a marriage or anything more than likely..we couldnt wrap our heads around polygamy...though it was broached once or twice as an what if scenario
 
Just my opinion but I don't think most men that led their wives into their fantasy of being a cuckolded expected to be cut off from having intercourse with their wives any at all. So much of all of this cuckolding, black only, master slave is so hard to take in because it goes against our traditional marriage vows. Very confusing because we all have choices in all that we do and if being pussy free is what a husband choices for himself more power to him. Not all men, in fact most husbands are not submissive Cuckolds and are not willing to be controlled or denied by their wives and certainly not another man. Don't get me wrong because to be a Cuckold you must give your wife at least some extra freedom to have sex with another man or men. In these marriages that go into the cuckold lifestyle most have limits, rules and boundaries. For those marriages that all of a sudden turn control over to the wife to do what and who she wants with few limits certainly that is fine as long as they both want it that way. In most cases if a wife gets so involved with a man besides her husband that she tries to cut back on her husbands marital rights or gives oral or anal to a lover but not her cuckold husband then that isn't going to go well. Even with me fantasies run rampant but I must control my fantasies and not let them control me. I am not debating the fact that today there are hundreds of ways to live a cuckold lifestyle and to each their own, but total submission is not for me.
point taken,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
 
People who ask these type of questions are assuming that most all marriages/partnerships are, or started off, entirely based on sex. In our case I'd only had a couple of bf before I met hubby and our relationship was based on fun, love and sex. But sex, although enjoyable, was never the most important part.
So for me to get my sexual fulfilment from other men, and yet still love and have fun with hubby, is not that strange.
Hubby is not allowed near my ass, but I love anal with other men, he's not allowed near my mouth, but I will suck and swallow other men. We will have vaginal sex again in the future, but when I say. Hubby loves me immensely and is certainly happy with the current situation!
Ann makes a valid point. For any marriage to be a great marriage, whether it's a traditional marriage or a cuckold marriage, the foundation of said marriage, must be built with strong elements of love, mutual interests, and satisfaction found outside of the bedroom.

Spouses must communicate effectively, be empathetic towards each other's point of view, and enjoy being with each other.

My ex wife and I had a fantastic sex life; we both loved our cuckold lifestyle! She cut me off, and had me in long term chastity. It was amazing, but our foundation crumbled. Now I'm a divorced "Former Cuck."

If I am lucky enough to be in a cuckold relationship again, it will be based on a strong foundation of love, respect, and compatability.

I would be okay with never having penetrative sex with a woman, if our emotional connection is strong enough.
 
I have noticed that many couples who enter into a hotwife/cuckolding IR lifestyle ultimately see their relationship evolve to the point that the wife chooses to cut her husband off from access to her marital womb and reserve access only for her lovers. Ladies I am wondering what prompted you to make the decision to deny your husband intercourse and after having done so, how do you maintain a sense of connection with your hubby to keep your relationship strong?
For us it was a natural progression or regression. Hubby became less able to maintain erections and became super quick at ejeculating. We could either split due to lack of intimacy or make it work for us and so far we are enjoying the positives of our new dynamic.
 
I'm cut off but i can't get hard anymore, and we tried Viagra I have very low testosterone so even soft I'm tiny and submissive. I do get to eat her and I wear a strap on when she lets me.
Similar situation here but we have turned this into a positive. Denying hubby takes the pressure of him and a nice hollow strap on means I don't miss out on a good seeing to xx
 
Similar situation here but we have turned this into a positive. Denying hubby takes the pressure of him and a nice hollow strap on means I don't miss out on a good seeing to xx
Does he still cum I do but soft usually rubbing it like a clit and using my electric toothbrush as a vibrator
 
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