Ladies, what did he do to convince you?
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My husband is man who has been in the LS for a long time he cannot be in a conventional relationship. He was extremely upfront and honest when he brought it up. He took the time to help me understand and sent me lots of references for me to educate myself about the LS. We talked about it a lot. I read articles, blogs, anything I could find on the web, listen to podcast which I still do. And I asked lots of questions, we discussed things.
Given my history of being promiscuous this was a good fit for our relationship. Honestly all it took was understanding what it meant for him, and what that meant for us in a relationship. This, what we do deepens the connection we have with each other, it enhances our relationship. Our relationship is solid this is for fun.
Given my history of being promiscuous this was a good fit for our relationship. Honestly all it took was understanding what it meant for him, and what that meant for us in a relationship. This, what we do deepens the connection we have with each other, it enhances our relationship. Our relationship is solid this is for fun.
Very interesting, seems like you both are lucky to have found each other.
Hasn’t always been smooth, but we worked through things. He’s an amazing husband and this LS is something we both thrive on.
For us it more or less just happened. We had been playing with the idea of inviting another man into our sex life but not specifically black, or long term. Just exploring something new in our sex life. It honestly boiled down to the fact we were all in the right place at the right time. The fact that we had been friends with him for several years trusted him made it flow easier. That was 2 years ago, still seeing him.
How did the topic get brought up tho? And what did he say to convince you to take the plunge?
Well thats why I asked the question....from the thread so far, seems like it was a mutual thing...hopefully it reveals more..
Agreed. I don’t think it’s that women need convincing it’s more of understanding the nature of the dynamic. What this does for the husband/BF. I can only speak for myself at first I thought this was so that my husband could sleep with other women. Then he went on to explain why this is not the case. In his words I’m his favorite porn star. To see me being pleasured by other men is a turn on for him. That’s it nothing more than that. I hope more women recognize that this lifestyle is geared towards them and they take advantage of it.
Would you say that there's always been an underlying curiosity about other clocks & all you needed was the encouragement?
Not so much encouragement but awareness that this LS existed. Up until my husband I knew of some aspects of kinks such as BDSM. But he showed me the entire scope of the LS. There is a lack of knowledge about this LS that isn’t really out there unless you dig for it.
I get you now. Very insightful indeed. Very interesting viewpoint.
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I had been trying to convince my wife to meet and experience a black guy for a number of years to no avail . We would watch IR films , bought life like black dildos which she really enjoyed, during fore play and love making I would ask her if she wanted to try a real black guy .She would always say yes getter hornier and wetter than normal, then i would ask her during normal day to day chat , it would always be its only a fantasy and that’s all.
summer before last we were invited to a work friend of my wife’s to a party at her house, She‘s originally from Barbados . We arrived at the party there was jugs of Rum Punch for everyone, I was driving so only fruit juice .
We mixed with relations and friends that were there most were from the Caribbean . The music was mostly reggae with a few slower ones mixed in . The uncle (who we found out was 71) of my wife’s friend asked my wife if she would Like a dance with him she said yes.
They got up and started dancing then a slower song came on and he pulled my wife tight to him running his hands on her butt the music stopped they came back to the table he thanked us then went to talk to his niece.
My wife seemed quite flustered she said when he pulled her tight she could feel his cock against her and that it felt big he also whispered how sexy she was .
At around 10pm most people had started to leave his niece came over and asked if we could give her uncle a lift as he lived on our route home
we said ok he sat in the front to show me where he lived. On the way we talked it turned to sex he said he hadn’t had sex since his wife passed away , I said I bet you’ve had your share though he said he’d had a few black ladies but never a white one or seen a white pussy. We arrived he asked us in for a ******* we accepted, he made my wife a rum cocktail I had a coffee. He put some music on and got my wife to dance with him , it was clear he was getting an erection rubbing him self against my wife’s crutch,. They stopped dancing and sat down on a settee, the atmosphere had turned sexual. He again said he had never seen a white women‘s pussy and that he’d love to see my wife’s . she looked at me I just nodded at her . I then said if you show her yours she’ll show you hers . He undone his trousers dropped them and his under ware his cock stood out hard and nearly twice the length and a lot thicker than mine . My wife was in a trance looking at it, he then said it’s your turn now , she lifted her skirt above her thighs with her pussy now covered by her thong she then lifted her bum of the settee and slipped her thong down but not off , he bent in front of her opened her legs to view her trimmed pussy looking at her open wet sex . He then put a finger in her she was in a total sexual haze. She reached out and started to play with his cock. Next he’s moved forward she was still holding his cock but guided it to her wet sex . I was now rubbing myself watching as he slowly entered her , she was now begging him to go harder and deeper and to fill her with his black seed .she was in a state of sexual extasy cumin non stop then he pushed harder and I watched as his ball sack tightened and he released his seed deep in her .
That was our first time with her being blacked, we have met him several times since and he tells her she is his white slut. Unfortunately due to lock down we have not been able to meet him, but cannot wait when we are able.
summer before last we were invited to a work friend of my wife’s to a party at her house, She‘s originally from Barbados . We arrived at the party there was jugs of Rum Punch for everyone, I was driving so only fruit juice .
We mixed with relations and friends that were there most were from the Caribbean . The music was mostly reggae with a few slower ones mixed in . The uncle (who we found out was 71) of my wife’s friend asked my wife if she would Like a dance with him she said yes.
They got up and started dancing then a slower song came on and he pulled my wife tight to him running his hands on her butt the music stopped they came back to the table he thanked us then went to talk to his niece.
My wife seemed quite flustered she said when he pulled her tight she could feel his cock against her and that it felt big he also whispered how sexy she was .
At around 10pm most people had started to leave his niece came over and asked if we could give her uncle a lift as he lived on our route home
we said ok he sat in the front to show me where he lived. On the way we talked it turned to sex he said he hadn’t had sex since his wife passed away , I said I bet you’ve had your share though he said he’d had a few black ladies but never a white one or seen a white pussy. We arrived he asked us in for a ******* we accepted, he made my wife a rum cocktail I had a coffee. He put some music on and got my wife to dance with him , it was clear he was getting an erection rubbing him self against my wife’s crutch,. They stopped dancing and sat down on a settee, the atmosphere had turned sexual. He again said he had never seen a white women‘s pussy and that he’d love to see my wife’s . she looked at me I just nodded at her . I then said if you show her yours she’ll show you hers . He undone his trousers dropped them and his under ware his cock stood out hard and nearly twice the length and a lot thicker than mine . My wife was in a trance looking at it, he then said it’s your turn now , she lifted her skirt above her thighs with her pussy now covered by her thong she then lifted her bum of the settee and slipped her thong down but not off , he bent in front of her opened her legs to view her trimmed pussy looking at her open wet sex . He then put a finger in her she was in a total sexual haze. She reached out and started to play with his cock. Next he’s moved forward she was still holding his cock but guided it to her wet sex . I was now rubbing myself watching as he slowly entered her , she was now begging him to go harder and deeper and to fill her with his black seed .she was in a state of sexual extasy cumin non stop then he pushed harder and I watched as his ball sack tightened and he released his seed deep in her .
That was our first time with her being blacked, we have met him several times since and he tells her she is his white slut. Unfortunately due to lock down we have not been able to meet him, but cannot wait when we are able.
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damn, that was hot. so the planets finally lined up? what was your converdsation like with your wife on the way home & following days? was he her only black guy or have there been others?
My ex-husband brought up the concept very slowly but firm in telling me he really wanted me to be specifically with a black guy. I really thought it was just a little fantasy but as I dove deeper I saw how much he wanted to explore the reality. Obviously it didn’t end up well for him but I’ve never gone back.
Hubby had nothing to do with it. It was all my doing 
I often wondered through the years who between my wife or I wanted this LS. Yes it was me that suggested we open our marriage and bed to another man. But was it really? Or perhaps my bride found a way to make me think it was my idea.. either way our bond has only grown because of this LS. Why? Simple.. love, commitment, trust, and open, honest communication. These have all increased greatly. I think (personal opinion) many marriages end due to loosing one or more of the four relationship cornerstones. Love.. our love has only grown deeper because we see our marriage as an US thing and not a me or her thing. Commitment... we are very committed to one another and our respective needs. Trust.. my bride doesn't need to hide, conceal or lie about her desires, nor do I. Trust and commitment increases sense there is no need to hide or cheat. Communication. Very important and truly lacking in many vanilla relationships. Being able to be completely open and honest has cemented the other three.
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