Is it okay to use the N word while getting fucked?

[Blkallover]

I have had mixed experiences with this. I've had guy say to me, "Mmm baby suck that N dick". But then if I say it back they will look at me like I said something wrong... but also some guys love it.

For me its like being called a cunt, whore, cumster, bitch during sex is hot for me but say that after and I might not be as open to it.

Any advice on using it?

Nope its much worse and unnecessary. To what end is it needed in the bedroom

 

[Jdingo619]

He is a actor it's part of the script and for you not to know this makes you sus.

That's where your wrong homeboy I've seen a lot of their private swinger stuff and they all do it in their private swinger videos as well. So like I said nobody is, has, or is going to say anything to Shane Diesel, Richard Mann, Boz, or Mr Nuttz, guys who have been doing race play for years both in and outside of the industry!

See whenever I run into you sensitive dudes who thinks just because you are not ok with something everyone else shouldn't be ok with it, all I have is one question, why are you here? When I see guys complaining about race, being called a BBC, or feeling like a piece of meat, all I can think of is why are you here? This lifestyle and the many fetishizes and kinks are not for sensitive at heart! People are not going to conform to your sensibilities bruh so if you don't like something either change the channel or go somewhere else I heard eHarmony and Match.com are running a special.

I don't like food play or water sports but you will never hear me say "you shouldn't waste food like that" or "you should keep your bodily fluids to yourself"! Are you the fetish police? Who are you to judge someone else's fetish? Who are you to say what's an acceptable fetish or what's not?

Bottom line among consenting adults as long as it's not illegal and it isn't hurting anyone involved then their fetishes and kinks is their business and it's sus to actually to be an adult and think otherwise!

 

[BBC4pussy]

That's where your wrong homeboy I've seen a lot of their private swinger stuff and they all do it in their private swinger videos as well. So like I said nobody is, has, or is going to say anything to Shane Diesel, Richard Mann, Boz, or Mr Nuttz, guys who have been doing race play for years both in and outside of the industry!

See whenever I run into you sensitive dudes who thinks just because you are not ok with something everyone else shouldn't be ok with it, all I have is one question, why are you here? When I see guys complaining about race, being called a BBC, or feeling like a piece of meat, all I can think of is why are you here? This lifestyle and the many fetishizes and kinks are not for sensitive at heart! People are not going to conform to your sensibilities bruh so if you don't like something either change the channel or go somewhere else I heard eHarmony and Match.com are running a special.

I don't like food play or water sports but you will never hear me say "you shouldn't waste food like that" or "you should keep your bodily fluids to yourself"! Are you the fetish police? Who are you to judge someone else's fetish? Who are you to say what's an acceptable fetish or what's not?

Bottom line among consenting adults as long as it's not illegal and it isn't hurting anyone involved then their fetishes and kinks is their business and it's sus to actually to be an adult and think otherwise!

Oh please it's all scripted, like come the fuck on man you can't be this stupid. No it's not each to his own, because more than likely those of us sane black, will have to deal with the BS ignorant folks like you create, all to get pussy or to please some race play fetish.

 

[Jdingo619]

Oh please it's all scripted, like come the fuck on man you can't be this stupid. No it's not each to his own, because more than likely those of us sane black, will have to deal with the BS ignorant folks like you create, all to get pussy or to please some race play fetish.

I would literally go through the trouble of loading some of these guys actually private hotwife home videos that I have found here and there and these videos are clearly not porn because it's being shot by the husbands, but I don't think that would even make much of a difference to a guy like you who thinks you should be the able to control what's a proper fetish and what is not!

As far as you having to deal with BS from any ignorant folks If I thought the same way as you I wouldn't even go outside! I definitely wouldn't have run with a hood, served in the military, and travel around the world now as a Passport Bro. As far as getting pussy your talking to guy who can hit just about any baddie in my gym that I want but I choose not to date outside of the lifestyle.

But anyway man there is nobody who frequents this site or that is involved in the lifestyle that is morally qualified to tell anyone else what is or what is not a proper fetish as long as it's legal and doesn't hurt any of the consenting grown folks involved.

 

[Dixonyalips]

I would literally go through the trouble of loading some of these guys actually private hotwife home videos that I have found here and there and these videos are clearly not porn because it's being shot by the husbands, but I don't think that would even make much of a difference to a guy like you who thinks you should be the able to control what's a proper fetish and what is not!

As far as you having to deal with BS from any ignorant folks If I thought the same way as you I wouldn't even go outside! I definitely wouldn't have run with a hood, served in the military, and travel around the world now as a Passport Bro. As far as getting pussy your talking to guy who can hit just about any baddie in my gym that I want but I choose not to date outside of the lifestyle.

But anyway man there is nobody who frequents this site or that is involved in the lifestyle that is morally qualified to tell anyone else what is or what is not a proper fetish as long as it's legal and doesn't hurt any of the consenting grown folks involved.

you are completely missing the point. There are some of us who aren't so impressed with pussy, especially white pussy, that will allow someone to call us something during sex you wouldn't call us outside of sex.

 

[Jen Dvorak]

It's better if you just call him black daddy

I like that and use this title often with a number men who flatter me with their interest in a slutty white mom.

 

[canddexploring]

Only if a bull asks me to

 

[sparkingsiren]

I have never had this experience until recently, where my Dom bull was referring to himself with N word, and I did not know how to react to that, I was like what if I say it and it gets weird. So I just stuck to black hammer.

 

[YCoupleRo]

Being born in ex-USSR we are a bit alien to all these racial issues, although we love the skin contrast and the tabu of interracial sex.
However, I guess this depends on the bull and the couple - setting some boundaries. Some bulls during play also can slap the woman on her cheeks and butt and call her bbc slut, dirty slut etc but that happens during play. For us this is very arousing, maybe for others is not.

 

[wowwy76]

No

 

[fitbbcbull]

fuck no.

 

[SheLikesItHard]

I can't think of a good reason to say it. Speaking as a white guy (Italian) that has been with several black girls, one of them wanted me to call her slut etc (no problem) and we had some BDSM fun too. She asked me to call her racial slurs and that she was my slave etc. I am no do gooder but I just couldn't bring myself to do it.

That said, I don't judge what other people do in their bedroom and I suppose as long as you keep it in your bedroom, it's noone else's business. It's a red line for me personally though.

If you have "the talk" about boundaries etc this is probably something that should be addressed.

 

[YCoupleRo]

Lol @ 'alll these racial issues'. Take a an example of one of these real life "racial issues" below. A bit long I know, but read on:

A black woman (American) and her (white) french partner were going to stay in a newly-opened boutique hotel in NYC. She had contacted them earlier and made a reservation and everything was good to go. A few days later, they arrived in NYC and her partner went to a nearby store to get a couple of items they would need during their stay, agreeing that she would go ahead and get the check-in started and he would join her very soon. She gets there and the manager informs her regrettably that there was a mix-up and that he could not honor her reservation because of a double booking and also that they were sold out. He apologized sincerely and offered to give suggestions for nearby hotels which may have rooms available. She said her BS sensor immediately went off and she suspected there was something off here. She was well-educated, polished and sounded like it and she said people often had a disconnect when they spoke with her on the phone and later saw her in person. Anyway, she left and met her boyfriend down the road and they agreed he would go in on his own and see if he could just walk in and get a room without a reservation. Sure enough, the manager (same guy) said rooms were available as they were very new and even got an employee to show him a couple of room options and configurations and after he explained the pricing for those rooms. Long story short, they sued and the hotel settled out of court.

This is the mindset that many of the whites including those on site have. America treats other minorities and foreigners as american-like and treat american blacks as foreignlike. That is why the taboo of this "lifestyle" is so hot to them. So the racial issues you talk about are an integral part of this lifestyle. You don't see whites who think getting together with other races/nationalities is taboo and you sure don't see whites being part of "a lifestyle" to hook up with them or be with them, for whatever reason. That is the point. What's I find hilarious is blacks who say with pride that they are a part of "this lifestyle". Since when does being treated like a foreigner in your own country - actually, worse than a foreigner per the e.g. above - represent a lifestyle??????

As I said before, these are your own internal issues in the US. We were born in a country which hasn't had anything to do with it and our ancestors were not slave owners.

 

[BBC4pussy]

I can't think of a good reason to say it. Speaking as a white guy (Italian) that has been with several black girls, one of them wanted me to call her slut etc (no problem) and we had some BDSM fun too. She asked me to call her racial slurs and that she was my slave etc. I am no do gooder but I just couldn't bring myself to do it.

That said, I don't judge what other people do in their bedroom and I suppose as long as you keep it in your bedroom, it's noone else's business. It's a red line for me personally though.

If you have "the talk" about boundaries etc this is probably something that should be addressed.

Yeah sure you had a black woman who wanted you to call her slut, yeah that happened and one day last week I met Santa and he wanted me to refer to him as fat, not jolly.

 

[BBC4pussy]

As I said before, these are your own internal issues in the US. We were born in a country which hasn't had anything to do with it and our ancestors were not slave owners.

And what country is that?

 

[DAlex]

Disrespect has never been accepted from your girl to her owner, with the exception of simulated rapee

 

[ldrendall]

No

 

[SheLikesItHard]

Yeah sure you had a black woman who wanted you to call her slut, yeah that happened and one day last week I met Santa and he wanted me to refer to him as far, not jolly.

Well, girl to be honest. I was 20 and she was 18 at the time.

 

[macroBull]

I had a husband once ask his wife is she was enjoying my “niggger dick”. I stopped right then and there, and told him to shut the F up and leave the room. He was speechless, but I was balls deep in his wife and she didn’t want me to stop so we both gave him the fuck you eye and he left.

I got back at him by sneaking his wife over to my house behind his back a bunch and fucking her bareback when he didn’t want us to. She loved it and I was like fuck you cuck after that, ended up just enjoying the wife privately from then on.

Don’t say that shiit unless the bbc bull asked you to say it.

 

[satin90250]

As far as i'm concerned, anything goes when you're fucking. (not at other times though)