My wife had one man instruct her to use the word. It's not something we had ever seen before during our fun, she was hesitant but he was adamant she follow his directions. In the end, it turned him on, knowing she was giving him what he enjoyed made my wife that much hotter and watching them both become a sweaty mess was fucking spectacular. Afterwards, it was drinks, a bite to eat and great conversation followed by another round of dirty talking sex. It's not something we'd go looking for but in the right situation...if requested...she'd probably go there again. My wife normally doesn't wear a leash and collar, although, sometimes it's kind of fun at the correct time and place. I certainly understand it's not for everyone but more than a few people may frown on the sex this group/site is already enjoying