Impotent

But seriously, you should really have your ED checked out by a physician. My husband (63) has been suffering from ED since 2013. Until then he was a walking hard-on. I honestly thought it was due to some emotional and phycological problem due to some rough times we were going through and shame on me, I just thought that it was something that he could work through. 2 months ago he under went a bypass. The doctor said that ED is a possible symptom of CAD. I regret not encouraging him to see a doctor about it earlier. Good news is that he is recovering well.
 
FW wife Benefit said:
You may be very well able to reach orgasm many times even when unable to manage a successful "penetration-grade" erection (done it myself manually and with a vibrator). That would give you the thrill of having a combination of increased libido with diminished manhood!
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I think men who are inclined this way quite often do discover things about the body/mind sexual connection that are remarkable, and can find incredible and varied pleasure, quite possibly exceeding anything they've previously experienced with more penis-centered gratification. There are other things that can get you off....and blow your mind in the process. For certain what you say about the disconnect between the traditional notion of male sexual performance/capacity and libido is on point. I know my below average dick is even less than it once was, both size and performance-wise; now some of that is surely just age-related decline, but I'm completely convinced that cuckold desires figure as well. My libido and interest in sex, however, have never been higher. it was awesome to discover I can climax while soft, and that more full body type release without erection is maybe even more rewarding. I've had my first such orgasms like that with my wife this year, and expect more of that.

It's not like we haven't been moving this way already, and I absolutely envision and look forward to a phase of our intimate life where -- as concerns my wife -- less will depend on my dick, and particularly my dick fucking. Doesn't mean there might not be room for someone else's penis though! I'm excited for it! I think some of it is just evolving and adapting as we all must, the body following the lead of the mind.
 
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I went through a rough time a year ago and i lost my ability to sustain an erection. This only got worse over time and now i am lucky if i ever get hard at all. I couldnt please my long term gf anymore, when i did manage to put my little dicklet in her id come so fast. and i started to accept a truth that has been in my mind all along that i am a beta male through and through. My gf discovered me crossdressing and my interracial porn addiction. She left in the end and now has a better boyfriend. Since then i have been pussy free and although i often feel pathetic, i have no desire to change this. I love being this way. I never even waste girls times on a night out. I know IR porn is there for when i get home. :).
 
jeff & christy said:
"I am unable to last more than a couple of minutes. My wife doesn’t mind. I am not denied orgasms or caged, and am allowed to masturbate whenever I wish. In fact my wife never denies me handjobs."

And, yet . . .

Does your wife have lovers. Are hand jobs just her way of managing your emotions?
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Yes, thankfully my wife does have others that take care of her needs.
Her handjobs of her way of giving me relief as I get aroused from her activities and giving her oral sex.
 
Diagnoses:


  • 257.2 - Testicular hypofunc NEC

Synonyms
  • Acquired male infertility
  • Acquired testicular failure
  • Atypical ichthyosis vulgaris with hypogonadism
  • Bird-headed dwarfism with progressive ataxia, insulin-resistant diabetes, goiter, and primary gonadal insufficiency
  • Congenital absence of muscle AND/OR tendon
  • Congenital absence of skeletal muscle
  • Cutaneous syndrome with ichthyosis
  • Deficiency of testosterone biosynthesis
  • Disorder of androgen receptor
  • Eunuchism
  • Hypogonadal facial wrinkling
  • Hypogonadal facies
  • Hypogonadal facies
  • Hypogonadism
  • Hypogonadism with prune belly syndrome
  • Hypogonadism, diabetes mellitus, alopecia, mental retardation and electrocardiographic abnormalities
  • Induced male hypogonadism syndrome
  • Infantilism
  • Leydig cell failure in adult
  • Male hypogonadism
  • Primary hypogonadism
  • Primary hypogonadism
  • Primary testicular failure
  • Primordial dwarfism
  • Progressive cerebellar ataxia with hypogonadism
  • Prune belly syndrome
  • Seminiferous tubule failure in adult
  • Testicular hypofunction
  • Testicular hypofunction due to defect in adrenocortical hormone synthesis
  • Undervirilization
  • Undervirilization of male due to steroidogenic acute regulatory protein deficiency
 
rocuck said:
In fact you can take pride in being small and soft and respectful and all of that. I know. Feminization helps.
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If the Black man's massive throbbing erection is the ultimate symbol of Black Power, then the whiteboi's tiny limp clitty is like the photographic negative of Black Power, equally as potent (haha) in it's message of Black dominance.

Feminization is the natural, normal and ultimate expression of whiteboi surrender to Black Kings. As transgirls, we leave no doubt that masculinity is Black
 
Has anyone had impotency issues from long-term chastity? I am not caged 24/7, but i am caged a lot and have been for about 2 years. It originally started because I was jerking off all the time to IR porn, so my wife locked me up, originally just for a short time. A week turned into a month, which turned into 2 years. She would let me out to jerk off and clean it, and for certain work things like client meetings, but otherwise I was locked up. She liked the control and teasing me, and it got me very focused on her needs.

My dick has shrunk a lot since i started chastity, and I do not get nearly as hard as I used to. I can still jerk off, but can't fuck. Has this happened to anyone else?
 
Ben45mwm said:
Has anyone had impotency issues from long-term chastity? I am not caged 24/7, but i am caged a lot and have been for about 2 years. It originally started because I was jerking off all the time to IR porn, so my wife locked me up, originally just for a short time. A week turned into a month, which turned into 2 years. She would let me out to jerk off and clean it, and for certain work things like client meetings, but otherwise I was locked up. She liked the control and teasing me, and it got me very focused on her needs.

My dick has shrunk a lot since i started chastity, and I do not get nearly as hard as I used to. I can still jerk off, but can't fuck. Has this happened to anyone else?
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I wear my cage as often as I can, but not like when I first started in 2015, which was 24/7/365. My dick is smaller when flaccid now, but erect I'm only a tiny bit smaller. It's about 1/4 inch thinner and about an inch shorter while soft, but I think it's mostly due to getting older. My size is no issue anyway because I'm not allowed to fuck. It's been 2 1/2 years since my last fuck forever. Now, all my cums are from hand jobs, but never from anything else. The good part is that I no longer have spontaneous erections and I learned not to jack off all the time when I wore my cage continuously.
 
nrbill said:
I wear my cage as often as I can, but not like when I first started in 2015, which was 24/7/365. My dick is smaller when flaccid now, but erect I'm only a tiny bit smaller. It's about 1/4 inch thinner and about an inch shorter while soft, but I think it's mostly due to getting older. My size is no issue anyway because I'm not allowed to fuck. It's been 2 1/2 years since my last fuck forever. Now, all my cums are from hand jobs, but never from anything else. The good part is that I no longer have spontaneous erections and I learned not to jack off all the time when I wore my cage continuously.
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I was over 5" at one point, and I just measured it last night and it is 3.5". I haven't fucked her in 4 months, and she told me I may be going pussy-free. I used to love sloppy seconds, but I have noticed that my dick is less hard in the last year, and basically is only semi-hard for the last few months. I have only gotten sloppy seconds for 2+ years, and now I can't even do that.

I think about her fucking black guys all the time, and I jerk off to it when she lets me out of my cage, but I can't seem to fuck anymore. She said that if I can't get it up for sloppy seconds, then she isn't going to bother fucking me.
 
Ben45mwm said:
I was over 5" at one point, and I just measured it last night and it is 3.5". I haven't fucked her in 4 months, and she told me I may be going pussy-free. I used to love sloppy seconds, but I have noticed that my dick is less hard in the last year, and basically is only semi-hard for the last few months. I have only gotten sloppy seconds for 2+ years, and now I can't even do that.

I think about her fucking black guys all the time, and I jerk off to it when she lets me out of my cage, but I can't seem to fuck anymore. She said that if I can't get it up for sloppy seconds, then she isn't going to bother fucking me.
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different folks have different reasons for cages but reducing husbands ability to perform is often one while wife continues to enjoy her black bulls. In time , husbands can become fully Impotent as some wives intend.
 
My husband is impotent and has been for many years through no fault of his own. Surgery took his ability to perform and no amount of blue pills or stimulation will ever get a rise out of him. When the nerves can not we saved there is no feeling according to him and his doctors. We still kiss and cuddle but for my sexual and physical satisfaction I know where to look and it isn't at home. When he could get an erection he was a true patriot, in other words a minute man, so getting satisfied by other men wasn't anything new. I know there are times he misses his ability to perform but all the wishing in the world will never bring that ability back. I know I must sound selfish but I'm fine with it. No one can compare to superior Black Lovers.
 
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