. Truly an unfortunate and very sad story. Fortunate that you were able to fufill your needs with other men as is not always or often the case yet is more common today. Some women find themselves denied the sexual pleasures that were prevalent in the early days of their marraige.
Impotent
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I'm the same way all my relationships have involved humiliating IR cuckold sex it's the only thing I want. I have the same problems with soft small erections and mostly dry orgasms. My ejaculations are way too small and my semen is watery like dishwater. At first I thought my impotency was caused by prolonged chastity because of my penis and testicle shrinkage but I'm starting to think it could be medical issues.
In my case yes it shrunk down from a hard 5'' inches when erect to a soft 3'' inches. Now it's so small when I'm flaccid I actually piss my balls when I pee.
Well written and well thought out...
In our case we discovered I was impotent before I could get her into cuckolding
I appreciate the interest in this topic. A white boy who is impotent, in my opinion, is sort of blessed. He cannot have sex as a man and therefore there is no chance he will try to compete with a black man. This allows the white boy to focus on being a support person to help get white women and black men together. This is not the only combination of people for romance and sex but it is the best and most natural. The bigger challenge is for white boys who do get erections or who are bigger than the normal white boy size. Frequent masturbation, medications, feminization or a chastity device can help these boys. White boys who do get erections but are small have an advantage again. I no longer think this is fantasy but it is about the optimal pairing and everyone assuming their proper role.
I believe that you have presented several faulty assumptions about the cuckold lifestyle... the most obvious, "the need to step aside for black men because it is the "right" thing to do." Cucks are pushed v. asked to step aside. And its not the right thing to do. It is simply what happens when a horny white wife discovers the pleasure that sexy black men offer. Hubby either steps aside, or is quickly on the extreme outside looking in. Stepping aside is a matter of survival.
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I agree with you.
DeniedCuck-UK
Couple
I'm impotent now too, I noticed my erection becoming weaker when I was released from chastity to clean, shave and quick wank.
On the 1 November when I was unlocked after locktober Karen just looked at my cock and said, You should be rock hard and that's a semi at best. She stripped in front of me and said "get hard" but it didn't, Then she "frigged" herself off right there in front of me while looking at my limp cock, She said "I fucking love that" (That im impotent) and she came in front of me but I stayed limp.
On the 1 November when I was unlocked after locktober Karen just looked at my cock and said, You should be rock hard and that's a semi at best. She stripped in front of me and said "get hard" but it didn't, Then she "frigged" herself off right there in front of me while looking at my limp cock, She said "I fucking love that" (That im impotent) and she came in front of me but I stayed limp.
I the past I could never imagine that I would like if hubby's penis will shrink and his erections will become weaker and weaker but now I love it, the larger the difference between him and my black lover is the better, it's convinced me again and again that I have chosen the right lifestyle. But this is nothing which will happen short term and therefore it is nothing for short term relationships. In our marriage it was really a long term process with up and downs and managing hubby's sexuality is really an effort for the wife and sometimes hard work. To be consequent and strict is not always easy and my experience is that there always has to be a process, longer stays in chastity until it is 24/7 permanent, to chose smaller cages step by step, less number of releases, training hubby to enjoy my orgasms like (and instead of) his own ones - meaning to become perfect in oral, no bj's anymore, no hand jobs anymore, reducing PIV sex until the pussyfree status, masturbation only with c ondom and so on and so on, this requires a stabil longterm relationship/marriage, not only to manage the number of his releases but also the strengthen of his erection (the weaker the better) is the crown of a female led relationship with male chastity and cuckolding with a fantastic black lover and sensational sexual experiences for the wife is the heaven on earth
DeniedCuck-UK
Couple
So true, We are married 17 years and in this lifestyle 7 years now with my impotence only really becoming obvious in the last year despite being pussy free for years.
I appreciate the thoughts and support. I might also add that the idea of being impotent can apply to other aspects of life. In my opinion, it is natural for a white boy to be less masculine than a black man. They are less athletic with smaller muscles. They have a great deal less swagger. The penises tend to be smaller. All of this going on makes me think it is evolution or something else explaining the black male superiority. The big change in society is mental. White boys are starting to accept their role. White boys are starting to slowly become friends and not lovers. Servants and not bosses. Sissies and not alpha men. Women are noticing this and black men are stepping up. It all starts with fantasy pornography with a rare white woman. This becomes common and then mainstream TV and movies feature BMWF relationships and sex. I think we are just now starting to see the rise of black men in the real world as a result of all of this.
The people reading about all of this and trying to figure it all out are mainly white boys. That tells you they are attempting to fit in and to become relevant. In this sense being small and soft is not only good- it is preferable. Feminization on either a small level or all the way makes some sense. Masturbation, play with other white boys, or serving as a bottom all can give relief. I cannot imagine a scenario where a black man masturbates looking at a white penis. Enough said.
Everyone is happiest if they are fitting in the roles they were meant for. White boys will be happiest if they quit trying to compete with black men. If you are small and impotent or undergoing feminization or a MTF change it is easy. If not you have to work at it. The rewards for a white boy are that you do not have to compete. You can relax and follow and appreciate how important you can be as a support person. Encourage women to be with black men. To flirt with them. To develop relationships with black men that go beyond sex. Most importantly a white boy has to always step aside for black men and if you cannot perform sexually as a man consider that a gift.
The people reading about all of this and trying to figure it all out are mainly white boys. That tells you they are attempting to fit in and to become relevant. In this sense being small and soft is not only good- it is preferable. Feminization on either a small level or all the way makes some sense. Masturbation, play with other white boys, or serving as a bottom all can give relief. I cannot imagine a scenario where a black man masturbates looking at a white penis. Enough said.
Everyone is happiest if they are fitting in the roles they were meant for. White boys will be happiest if they quit trying to compete with black men. If you are small and impotent or undergoing feminization or a MTF change it is easy. If not you have to work at it. The rewards for a white boy are that you do not have to compete. You can relax and follow and appreciate how important you can be as a support person. Encourage women to be with black men. To flirt with them. To develop relationships with black men that go beyond sex. Most importantly a white boy has to always step aside for black men and if you cannot perform sexually as a man consider that a gift.
Betaboy187
Male
Not cuckold yet but can't reach erection around women. Last only few seconds
I just thought I would add to this thread. More than ever, in these times, it is important for white boys to do the right thing. Support ALL white women in becoming exclusive with black men. Do what you can to make yourself small and limp. If you are naturally that way or on supplements then that is great. If you are still trying to act like a man please stop! You have a hand. You have other white boys to be with. Most treat this as a fantasy but it can and should be real. It is going to happen anyways. The times just prompted me to comment again on this area. To all the white boys. You are a beta male. Please start acting like it. Your wife or girlfriend or whatever will notice followed by appreciation followed by action.
I think a lot of people have a misconception of what impotency is.
Just because a man cannot get hard or stay hard enough to have vaginal sex doesn't mean he can't masturbate & orgasm or orgasm by other means.
Just because a man cannot get hard or stay hard enough to have vaginal sex doesn't mean he can't masturbate & orgasm or orgasm by other means.
I am not imptotent by any means. How all this started was that i had medical issue and going through stress in my life. As for medical issue i lacked testerone and was experiencing temporary withdrawal from sex in general. While i was taking care of the medical issue..i didnt want to be selfish as she has been really horny all the time. So both talked about cuckolding. And agreed to the guideline.
Long behold i am all cured and fully capable to have sex and have desire to do so. We often have sex too. We are happy with our arrangement.
Long behold i am all cured and fully capable to have sex and have desire to do so. We often have sex too. We are happy with our arrangement.
Yes true. When I masturbate, I cum without getting hard
Absolutely wonderful. I could not agree anymore than I do or have said it better myself..
I agree and am definitely a beta sissy. My wife is feminizing me and making me into the girl of my dreams!
