I the past I could never imagine that I would like if hubby's penis will shrink and his erections will become weaker and weaker but now I love it, the larger the difference between him and my black lover is the better, it's convinced me again and again that I have chosen the right lifestyle. But this is nothing which will happen short term and therefore it is nothing for short term relationships. In our marriage it was really a long term process with up and downs and managing hubby's sexuality is really an effort for the wife and sometimes hard work. To be consequent and strict is not always easy and my experience is that there always has to be a process, longer stays in chastity until it is 24/7 permanent, to chose smaller cages step by step, less number of releases, training hubby to enjoy my orgasms like (and instead of) his own ones - meaning to become perfect in oral, no bj's anymore, no hand jobs anymore, reducing PIV sex until the pussyfree status, masturbation only with c ondom and so on and so on, this requires a stabil longterm relationship/marriage, not only to manage the number of his releases but also the strengthen of his erection (the weaker the better) is the crown of a female led relationship with male chastity and cuckolding with a fantastic black lover and sensational sexual experiences for the wife is the heaven on earth