You still haven't explained why you believe that, though. Having been in the lifestyle for as many years as we have, my wife and I have met MANY other cuckold couples. We've gone to events specifically for cuckold couples and bulls who like them, as well as cuckold meet-and-greets at bigger functions like Splash Mocha, which is probably the biggest interracial/hotwife related event in the country. I remain in correspondence with tons of them, and run a discussion group for them.
For the most part, these folks are very much like us. The men absolutely WORSHIP their wives. Their wives are not a front that allows them to stay in the closet. Most of them are caged and teased to the edge of sanity by the women they desire. I've seen the lust in their eyes when the sexy women walk into the room. I get non-stop compliments about how sexy and beautiful my wife is. They love buying sexy lingerie to watch their wives wear and help them prepare for playdates or lifestyle events. They are proud of the beautiful women by their side. I'm not sure where you're getting your "most of the time" impression, because these are friends who've in many cases shared their deepest secrets with me, and I know to be either completely straight or bi to some degree, and virtually all of them are more drawn to women than men. They eat pussy with a hunger like you've never seen. If their wives are bi, they love watching them with other women, as much as they love watching them with other men, and it's awesome when two femdom couples with bisexual females find each other, because the women get to team up dominating their men, they get pampered by all involved, and theb men get to watch and help facilitate their wives' pleasure. They find nothing more exciting than a female orgasm, especially when it's for the women they love. I've never met another cuck who wanted any sexual contact with me, but I've known several who are open to varying levels of bi play with bulls. The pseudo-"******"-bi contact I've described is honestly very popular in this crowd, and that's only one dynamic in a sea of different preferences. We have been in situations where no bulls were present, and there was no bi play. All hubbies involved relished in worshipping every single inch of the ladies' bodies. As a cuckold, I don't fuck other women, but I LOVE it when my wife shares me with other dominant women to show off my training or enlist help in driving me absolutely crazy. Having been in these situations many, many times, I know that this type of couple is not uncommon within the cuckold lifestyle. So what about it is so difficult for men like you to believe? Why is there some need to try to convince them all that they're actually wrong about what they think they like and are actually gay?
These men and couples will also be honest with any single male who takes time to get to know them, about exactly how much male contact they've had, and to what extent it's something they are looking for. You said it yourself! If you create a bi profile, it will get innundated! So obviously, people are willing to talk about it! Just be upfront and ask them point blank. Nobody is going to say, "nope, I'm definitely not interested in sucking your dick," and then get you behind closed doors and try to suck your dick. I'd be afraid of being outed, or knocked the fuck out, or having the cops called, etc. if I tried some ******* like that. People share and the word gets out. The couples I know will even ask each other for advice on men they've met, and tell each other when they think a particular bull will be a good fit for another couple. We have a cuckoldress friend who has told several men, "my husband and I are not into XYZ, but we know a couple you should meet," and sent them our way.
But ok. Let's say for a moment that you are correct. Despite the hundreds of people I've met and interacted with on this topic, I'm wrong about all of them. MOST are secretly gay, and lying about how attracted they are to women. In what way are they wasting your time? Why is it so hard to say, "look, I'm happy to meet up and see if there's chemistry between me and your wife, as long as you both realize that I will not, under any circumstances, be touching you?"
It's very possible that there are more fakes on this particular site than there are real couples. But it's not difficult at all to weed them out. Talk to them. Chat for a while and see if there's ACTUAL chemistry. Go beyond "I'm a single male, are you a couple who likes single males?" Ask them about their dynamic. Talk about the things that excite you and see if there's mutual interest. Ask if they're on any of the swingers sites and cross-reference their profiles. See if others in the lifestyle have vouched for them. Have them send pictures or video messages back and forth, or have live video chats to verify everyone is who they say they are. Respect their time as much as you want them to respect yours (not having a fake bi profile would be a very good start there). People are expecting this to be a dating site, and it's not. But it's definitely a place where like-minded people can find each other, and it's not difficult to determine if the people you're talking to are real or not. They might not be plastering their face pics or all of their kinks and desires on a public website, but it doesn't mean that most of the real couples here are here to deceive.
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