Cool cool... I'm only relating to the OP based on their situation because I've had it happen enough times... but yes I've had plenty other scenarios where that was NOT the case.
If you're like me, you've seen it all ?
Husband is changing the rules
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If you're like me, you've seen it all ?
Easygliderpro
Male
The only rules that are beneficial to all is God’s rules, either you like it or not....all others are selfish n meaningless!
When I was a baby, we had a lot of land right behind our house that we turned into a baseball field. All the neighborhood ******* would play there every afternoon before dinner. But one day, the electric company came in and turned part of that piece of land into a power relay station.
Now there was still enough room on that land for us to play baseball. But all around the lot, they put up huge signs that said, “No Trespassing.” How could the electric company do that to us? We deserved to have that field, they stole it away, and now, they wouldn’t even share it with us!
Though it took time, I realize now the power company put up those signs not because they didn’t like us, but to keep us from being electrocuted. And that’s exactly why God gives us rules as well – to keep us from being harmed by sin.
Sin is more dangerous than any electric shock. Yet many become bitter at God for the rules He gives, not knowing they’re really there to keep them safe. So when God says “No,” remember it’s for your best, and trust He’s looking out for your ultimate joy!
PURSUE OBEDIENCE TO GOD, KNOWING IT WILL KEEP YOU FROM HARM AND ULTIMATELY GIVE YOU JOY!
When I was a baby, we had a lot of land right behind our house that we turned into a baseball field. All the neighborhood ******* would play there every afternoon before dinner. But one day, the electric company came in and turned part of that piece of land into a power relay station.
Now there was still enough room on that land for us to play baseball. But all around the lot, they put up huge signs that said, “No Trespassing.” How could the electric company do that to us? We deserved to have that field, they stole it away, and now, they wouldn’t even share it with us!
Though it took time, I realize now the power company put up those signs not because they didn’t like us, but to keep us from being electrocuted. And that’s exactly why God gives us rules as well – to keep us from being harmed by sin.
Sin is more dangerous than any electric shock. Yet many become bitter at God for the rules He gives, not knowing they’re really there to keep them safe. So when God says “No,” remember it’s for your best, and trust He’s looking out for your ultimate joy!
PURSUE OBEDIENCE TO GOD, KNOWING IT WILL KEEP YOU FROM HARM AND ULTIMATELY GIVE YOU JOY!
I have seen it all and this exact situation, I have experienced it more so from an insecure hubby or boyfriend... once I start to hear such ... I disengage like the plague. I don’t want drama in my personal life and no pussy is enough to make me take on such an issue. One of my sub is a married poly and she has issues in her marriage but she keeps it away from me because if I just feel like the drama will overflow towards me then I cut ties. It’s not our duty to fix marriages or relationships and I don’t want to have it on my mind that I was the cause of a break up
So why God created opportunity to harm themselved but not just removing any risk? Piece of cake for al Almighty
How can loving ******* expose innocent children for risk? And even let them die?
YES and Yes to all the above.
In the case of my blonde fitness girl, insecure BF starting giving her grief because, according to him, she was having 'too much fun' ? ? ?
She's out the lifestyle for now until he gets his mind right.
Wait, I'm a cuck now? Lol
EnglishCuckG
Male
Sound advice. I couldnt agree more ?
JenNWayne
Couple
You shouldn't have to deal w him trying to undo anything. Even when it's hard he has to embrace your bliss!
I wrote this super long post on fetlife. Its really goes into how much easier it is for women of all shapes and sizes to find men and that if only the women gets to play isnt that more cuckolding than poly.
So i normally posts ads seeking for a woman who is interested in a cuckold style relationship and not discussion base. I have read quite a lot of threads in this group and i mean a lot of thread, because I have somewhat a obsession complex. I keep having women message saying she is "poly" or was "poly" when response to my cuckold seeking post. So i was going to find the knowledge of what makes a poly relationship different than cuckold one. I knew that poly meant you by google" Practice of engaging in multiple in romantic relationships simultaneously the consent and knowledge of all parties" But from the follow up answers i got from these women it was very clear that a poly relationship is heavily driven by the female party( in my experience)
After about 2 dozen women who explained to my their experiences in poly, i noticed that it is wayyy more a one sided "open" relationship. I assume we all know what side I'm talking about. Even in this group i read some posts that the woman had rules not to go on over nights trips with other partner, not to bring them around the *******, not to see them more during the week than their primary partner, Hell, some said not to say
" i love you" to the other partners.
It seems most women don't really fear their bf's/husbands finding other parties. Even though some threads i read had women saying they were super broken up about when their partners bought up about being poly. But after reading their profiles and messaging them, it was clear than it was heavily focused on finding men for the women and talking about bad experiences bring other men into the bedroom (most of them).
So is being" Poly" about loving more than one person or about feeling loved by more than one person? Seems (add least to me) about seeking validation from others when your current partner isn't giving you that ' First kiss" romance. Could it be a way that sexually unsatisfied women go about being able to fuck other men and not feel bad about it. I see alot of women say" I was unsure about my sexaully" or " I was coming to terms "with who i was". I know a lot of women how are poly are looking for another woman. But if your mean focus is just to invite another woman into the bedroom or to try being with a woman, isn't that more about being bisexual than having different emotional needs that one specific person can't fill? Also how is it different than cuckolding? I mean most couples i see or the male half of the couple really for the better part doesn't get to explore with others much or is focused more on her being with others. "Poly" and "Cuckolding" are spelled different but take away the female dominance that is sometimes involved in cuckolding and they are quite the same. [MOD NOTE: ADDED MATERIAL Could a cuckold relationship be falsely identified as a Poly one ?]
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So i normally posts ads seeking for a woman who is interested in a cuckold style relationship and not discussion base. I have read quite a lot of threads in this group and i mean a lot of thread, because I have somewhat a obsession complex. I keep having women message saying she is "poly" or was "poly" when response to my cuckold seeking post. So i was going to find the knowledge of what makes a poly relationship different than cuckold one. I knew that poly meant you by google" Practice of engaging in multiple in romantic relationships simultaneously the consent and knowledge of all parties" But from the follow up answers i got from these women it was very clear that a poly relationship is heavily driven by the female party( in my experience)
After about 2 dozen women who explained to my their experiences in poly, i noticed that it is wayyy more a one sided "open" relationship. I assume we all know what side I'm talking about. Even in this group i read some posts that the woman had rules not to go on over nights trips with other partner, not to bring them around the *******, not to see them more during the week than their primary partner, Hell, some said not to say
" i love you" to the other partners.
It seems most women don't really fear their bf's/husbands finding other parties. Even though some threads i read had women saying they were super broken up about when their partners bought up about being poly. But after reading their profiles and messaging them, it was clear than it was heavily focused on finding men for the women and talking about bad experiences bring other men into the bedroom (most of them).
So is being" Poly" about loving more than one person or about feeling loved by more than one person? Seems (add least to me) about seeking validation from others when your current partner isn't giving you that ' First kiss" romance. Could it be a way that sexually unsatisfied women go about being able to fuck other men and not feel bad about it. I see alot of women say" I was unsure about my sexaully" or " I was coming to terms "with who i was". I know a lot of women how are poly are looking for another woman. But if your mean focus is just to invite another woman into the bedroom or to try being with a woman, isn't that more about being bisexual than having different emotional needs that one specific person can't fill? Also how is it different than cuckolding? I mean most couples i see or the male half of the couple really for the better part doesn't get to explore with others much or is focused more on her being with others. "Poly" and "Cuckolding" are spelled different but take away the female dominance that is sometimes involved in cuckolding and they are quite the same. [MOD NOTE: ADDED MATERIAL Could a cuckold relationship be falsely identified as a Poly one ?]
[MOD NOTE:The OP added this paragraph. Requests to limit the kind of responses are not allowed on this group. Posters may not use wording like "Please offer more than..." The final comment about gender and responses is a form of meta-discussion of moderation, and also not allowed. Please disregard the material below.]
I nocticed that when you guys "opened up" the marriage that is wasnt under the idea of having a cuckold one. It was more about each of you exploring. Which really isnt cuckolding. So It's not hi fault that he doesnt want to anymore. He wasnt looking to be a beta in the bedroom so why should he be treated like one. If he was indeed looking to be that beta third or cuck then really you have to included him more. Sounds like you do your thing and he does his. Which cuckolding is about loyalty, that unconditional to service to her and to feeling useful and free for all. Because in the end the cuck's are the ones with the thickest skin and the strongest emotional control. To go against everything socity has ever tought you about being a man or having a equal partnership and sex life.
FatimaMiracles
Female
There is no superiority among humans, because we are children of the same God. I am a catholic and I am here to say that all the pornography, especially this weird form seen in this website, can truly lead some people to a new sort of racist movement like nazism. People should stop saying about a delusional superiority that never will exist. This kind of pornography only nurture the human narcissism, and with the time it can gain the size of a movement like nazism. I hope our Lady Marie can bring light to the mind of those people. I am not racist, I am against all kinds of superiority, and I am here only to say it. Narcissism is the sin of Lucifer.
Interesting, how do you come up with that determination? By definition alone, a wife (married woman) makes her husband a cuck, or cuckold, the instant she starts having sex with other men. The word, hotwife, simply identifies the female partner in these cuckold arrangements, just as cuckold identifies the married man who's wife has sex with other men.
Just curious of your reasoning to your post!
The Merriam dictionary definition there is pretty outdated, like most things in life the eb and flow of these lifestyles has separated them from eachother. Cuckold now denotes a submissive poly male who is into the degredation of the act cleaning cum, cages, ****** abstinence etc, where a stag is not a submissive but an equal in the poly relationship. There's also slutwife where the wife is submissive to both the bull and her husband, or theres plain old swingers. The initial comments on this post were definitely cuckolds feeling he should be submissive and bow to the will of the wife and bull as this may represent their personal fantasy's, however if the male is a stag or Dom depending on dynamic, what they suggested would have proven to be disastrous for this couple
@MacNfries Still holding to Shakespearean English? We been here before, the common usage of cuckold has changed especially here at B2W- that's why this site has a unique Cuckold form for well modern cuckold topics. Love to politely rib you man.
@EarthC137 I mostly agree with you, however, I would say that Cuckolds have a submissive attitude that often include submissive acts cleaning cum, cages, ****** abstinence etc, and humiliation
@everyone and no one in particular - since the dictionary has not caught up the definitions and connotation of these words are still somewhat in flux and outside our lifestyle may be mistaken - heck even MacNfries is still wants to hang on to his Samuel Johnson's dictionary. We should avoid dogmatic assertions especially those that say "cuckolds or hot wifes or bulls should." Each couple needs to set their own rules. Evne most willing cuckolds don't fully surrender all rights - its normally the "cuckold wannabes" that think there are hard and fast rules.
@Bibabyemily ultimately a relationship boils down to two people having to live with each other and respecting one another's wants and need. Unfortunately those do change and that change is not always fair. Hotwifing, cuckolding, or what ever we want to call it, changes both partners and often opens strong feelings. Couples are wise to realize this before starting and talk openly throughout. That he has awaken your hunger and now wants to change the rules is problematic - both of you should discuss and try to compromise if you want to maintain the relationship. Sometime compromise is not possible and one member need can not be met.
@EarthC137 I mostly agree with you, however, I would say that Cuckolds have a submissive attitude that often include submissive acts cleaning cum, cages, ****** abstinence etc, and humiliation
@everyone and no one in particular - since the dictionary has not caught up the definitions and connotation of these words are still somewhat in flux and outside our lifestyle may be mistaken - heck even MacNfries is still wants to hang on to his Samuel Johnson's dictionary. We should avoid dogmatic assertions especially those that say "cuckolds or hot wifes or bulls should." Each couple needs to set their own rules. Evne most willing cuckolds don't fully surrender all rights - its normally the "cuckold wannabes" that think there are hard and fast rules.
@Bibabyemily ultimately a relationship boils down to two people having to live with each other and respecting one another's wants and need. Unfortunately those do change and that change is not always fair. Hotwifing, cuckolding, or what ever we want to call it, changes both partners and often opens strong feelings. Couples are wise to realize this before starting and talk openly throughout. That he has awaken your hunger and now wants to change the rules is problematic - both of you should discuss and try to compromise if you want to maintain the relationship. Sometime compromise is not possible and one member need can not be met.
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During the time of Shakespeare, cuckolding was one of the worst words to use in referring to any married man, and Shakespear wrote about it often. 'Hester', 'The Scarlet Letter', 'Much About Nothing', 'Othello' .... all about the infidelity of wives. If one wishes to read some awesome words in a well written play ... read any of the above, especially The Scarlet Letter or Othello.
Oh what men dare desire
the lady doth protest too much.
Let every eye negotiate for itself
for all the world is but a stage.
If music be the food of LOVE
play on, play on.
Some of you folks use/discuss words so liberally, when they aren't that interchangeable simply because there are other words specific to the topic (s) of discussion. What if everyone had their OWN opinion of the definition/conception of the words STOP, or Yield, or the colors Red, or Green? Be hell driving on the roads, wouldn't it? Words have specific meanings in order to allow all of us to communicate/understand each other. No doubt words take on broadened definitions over time, but, the root of the words don't "redefine themselves".
EarthC137 attempts to justify her specific use or invalidation of a 'cuck' when used along with 'hot wife' ... they aren't separable when referring to wife infidelity in a marriage ... as one is just the slang for a male of a cheating wife, the other slang for the cheating wife, herself. EarthC says a married man is not a cuckold if his wife is a practicing hot wife. That was why I just asked WHERE her definition was obtained, or was this new definition possibly her OWN perceived definition.
So which definitional sources does EarthC, or any others here, validate as reliable and up to date?
Merriam-Webster https://www.merriam-webster.com/
Oxford English https://www.oed.com/
Cambridge Dictionary https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/
Google Dictionaryhttps: //www.bing.com/search?q=google+dictionary+english&src=IE-SearchBox&FORM=IESR4A&pc=EUPP_UF03
Dictionary.com https://www.dictionary.com/
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Again focusing so hard on outdated definitions quoting antiquated texts, yes red does mean something different to everyone. Some people picture cherry, maroon, *******, Ruby, etc. Sorry your mind isn't open to new information or adjusting lifestyles. Enjoy your antiquity
EarthC, I wasn't being rude, was I? Was you offended that I 'asked you that question'? If my definitions are antiquated, just show me your source of your newer definition. Pretty simple.
And, if you have no source, just say its your opinion.
However, if you was offended or annoyed that I even questioned you, just say "Don't correspond with me" and it will be done. No need to block me.
And, if you have no source, just say its your opinion.
However, if you was offended or annoyed that I even questioned you, just say "Don't correspond with me" and it will be done. No need to block me.
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I don't understand the ignore button what is it good for
