Husband is a cuckold, but I just found out he's cheating

[Limpcuck31]

Just be more dominant and demand he stop talking to ex's and demand he wear a chastity cage.

Absolutely.....A Cuck should be kept 24/7 Chastity locked.

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

Take it for what it's worth, she's been here a while, and shared a lot of pics and stories. I won't make any judgments or generalizations, but she's not new to the site.

I'm not asking you ,

 

[MsScarlett42]

What brought you to this sight to tell this story? If it was more of his kink why are you even here . Just curious .

This reminds me of what you said about this cuckold lifestyle that it has to be both parties wanting it not just a one sided relationship. Plus the communication seems lacking!

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

This reminds me of what you said about this cuckold lifestyle that it has to be both parties wanting it not just a one sided relationship. Plus the communication seems lacking!

I didn't ask YOU ! Just kidding , in all seriousness I don't believe anything I read based on my online experience . I am just curious to ask questions and learn . So far my experiences have revealed posts are 98% man no matter what - you my dear are in the very rare 2%

 

[MsScarlett42]

I didn't ask YOU ! Just kidding , in all seriousness I don't believe anything I read based on my online experience . I am just curious to ask questions and learn . So far my experiences have revealed posts are 98% man no matter what - you my dear are in the very rare 2%

Yes, I know. You did introduce this lifestyle to me. But I took the reins and this is OUR lifestyle!!

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

Yes, I know. You did introduce this lifestyle to me. But I took the reins and this is OUR lifestyle!!

I know this still hurts

 

[MsScarlett42]

I know this still hurts

Fun night!!

 

[OrcMan35]

Some of the replys here are infuriating, I know I am a bit late, but she literally started a cuckhold relationship BECAUSE her husband asked for it FIRST. That's it, it was agreed upon by both parties, NOT ONLY THAT, she did it just for fucking HIM. SHE IS NOT EVEN REALLY INTO PEOPLE SHE FUCKS SHE IS ONTO GETTING HER HUSBAND OFF.

Now you guys are completely out of wack, the husband IS CHEATING, SHE WAS NOT.

I think it is because she is a woman.

Imagine a woman was a cuckholdress and wanted the man to bang other women, the dude did it only to make her happy, and found joy in that. They both agreed and consented.

But NOW the girl said fuck it and started to fuck men behind the dudes back, is that now cheating because it's a woman?

You guys are fucking nuts, no one here except like one person really gave a good answer to her, I wish I was here earlier.

Relationships are about communication! There was no cheating when the guy asked her to cuck him, period.

Cheating happened when he is going behind her back, fucking other people, WITHOUT her consent.

See the difference? One wanted and asked for it, the other did NOT.

 

[ht805cpl]

You must get a bi guy let him fuck the ******* out of this guy

Or gay

 

[goodhubby]

Or gay

Yes!

 

[Nesexlover]

Let the relationship just be open and enjoy what you have. That’s what I chose to do when mine was cheating

 

[CD4BBCbredGF]

Cheating is wrong in any marriage. We were always upfront about what our feelings were about having others join us BEFORE we were married and fortunately we felt the same way.
Loved that she was free to enjoy any man she wished and as many as she wished (as it should be), and I stayed true to her for over twenty years proudly.
There are other "rules" we followed that went with our agreement. But all our other "rules" were to protect above all our respect of each other. The "us" as a couple, came first over EVERYTHING.

 

[fourinch]

My husband is very into cuckolding, *editing for context since so many people seem to be slut shaming: I'm not a BBC-loving whore. I started doing this because my husband begged me to, and I always did it WITH him. I do not have black bulls, boyfriends, or anyone who I fuck behind his back. I don't cheat. I don't text men unless he's there asking me to do it. It is 1000% HIS KINK and something I always did for his enjoyment and pleasure. Me, personally, I'd rather have a partner who wants to keep exploring each other rather than having sex with strangers, but to each their own. **

But, for the past year he has lost interest in me sexually. It's crazy because my body is better than it has ever been. I'm the same loyal wife. Everything I do sexually has always been WITH him. But now, my husband has become engrossed in porn (both gay porn and straight porn) and now I have realized he's texted with several exes -- one of whom he even suggested they could still "fuck around" if she wants to. He's not randomly talking to strangers -- he's actually trying to rekindle old sexual relationships. Obv when I found that out, I have no idea how long this has gone on or if he's actually been cheating the entire time.

A long time ago I caught him sending texts like that to another woman and I thought he had stopped. (His excuse was that he was never going to act on it and was just flirting to get attention.) Now I feel very stupid and overlooked, because it appears he is interested in trying to rekindle things with all these woman of the past, meanwhile ignoring me entirely. (It's worth saying that I'm hotter than any of these other women... it's not like any of them are knockouts. Many of his exes I have met in person and they were underwhelming... I could understand if it was some knockout he couldn't get over, but that's not it. Instead, it just seems like he's an unavailable coward who wants sexual attention from everyone who has left and wants to give none to the person he's with. Maybe narcissism? Or maybe he just has so much insecurity that he's hopeless.
We aren't legally married. I am considering leaving. Part of me has the urge to have an affair. Not just a hookup or cuck sex but actually a full fledged affair. Not sure why I'm leaning in that direction.

I was only into cuckolding when I felt my husband was really into me. It's not exciting if you're doing it with someone who is bored of you and always looking in the other direction for attention.

His role is to encourage as many white women to go black as he can, maybe he just wants to get them in this lifestyle.
You should embrace this and just have sex with black men now.

 

[Simon Khan]

My husband is very into cuckolding, *editing for context since so many people seem to be slut shaming: I'm not a BBC-loving whore. I started doing this because my husband begged me to, and I always did it WITH him. I do not have black bulls, boyfriends, or anyone who I fuck behind his back. I don't cheat. I don't text men unless he's there asking me to do it. It is 1000% HIS KINK and something I always did for his enjoyment and pleasure. Me, personally, I'd rather have a partner who wants to keep exploring each other rather than having sex with strangers, but to each their own. **

But, for the past year he has lost interest in me sexually. It's crazy because my body is better than it has ever been. I'm the same loyal wife. Everything I do sexually has always been WITH him. But now, my husband has become engrossed in porn (both gay porn and straight porn) and now I have realized he's texted with several exes -- one of whom he even suggested they could still "fuck around" if she wants to. He's not randomly talking to strangers -- he's actually trying to rekindle old sexual relationships. Obv when I found that out, I have no idea how long this has gone on or if he's actually been cheating the entire time.

A long time ago I caught him sending texts like that to another woman and I thought he had stopped. (His excuse was that he was never going to act on it and was just flirting to get attention.) Now I feel very stupid and overlooked, because it appears he is interested in trying to rekindle things with all these woman of the past, meanwhile ignoring me entirely. (It's worth saying that I'm hotter than any of these other women... it's not like any of them are knockouts. Many of his exes I have met in person and they were underwhelming... I could understand if it was some knockout he couldn't get over, but that's not it. Instead, it just seems like he's an unavailable coward who wants sexual attention from everyone who has left and wants to give none to the person he's with. Maybe narcissism? Or maybe he just has so much insecurity that he's hopeless.
We aren't legally married. I am considering leaving. Part of me has the urge to have an affair. Not just a hookup or cuck sex but actually a full fledged affair. Not sure why I'm leaning in that direction.

I was only into cuckolding when I felt my husband was really into me. It's not exciting if you're doing it with someone who is bored of you and always looking in the other direction for attention.

you are married.I like older and mature women.

 

[Simon Khan]

 

[jaxmax]

So, you only want to cuck him if he interested in only you. Hmm, why is it OK for you to have other men but he can't have other women? So what's the real issue here, that he has interest in other women or that he lost interest in you?

I think you missed her point. HE got her into cucking, because it is HIS fetish. She had no interest in being in tbis lifestyle. HE introduced it to her, and does it for HIM!! Because she loves her husband, she allows gerself to be slutted out, for his pleasure.

So for him to go behind her back and fuck other chics, especially with romantic history, is deceitful to her. Judging by her dedication to him, Im sure she would have allowed or at least considered adding females to the punch. Its not about her fucking other men, its about her allowing him to live out HIS fantasy.

Im a Bull of 20 yrs, and I find what he did, to be dishonest. In our lifestyle, you are to be open with your SO about whom youre playing with, or else its considered cheating. She's not cheating, neither is she living her fantasy. Again, from what she wrote, she does all this for HIM!!

 

[geoffrya]

cucks don’t cheat

 

[lisaandfrank]

My husband is very into cuckolding, *editing for context since so many people seem to be slut shaming: I'm not a BBC-loving whore. I started doing this because my husband begged me to, and I always did it WITH him. I do not have black bulls, boyfriends, or anyone who I fuck behind his back. I don't cheat. I don't text men unless he's there asking me to do it. It is 1000% HIS KINK and something I always did for his enjoyment and pleasure. Me, personally, I'd rather have a partner who wants to keep exploring each other rather than having sex with strangers, but to each their own. **

But, for the past year he has lost interest in me sexually. It's crazy because my body is better than it has ever been. I'm the same loyal wife. Everything I do sexually has always been WITH him. But now, my husband has become engrossed in porn (both gay porn and straight porn) and now I have realized he's texted with several exes -- one of whom he even suggested they could still "fuck around" if she wants to. He's not randomly talking to strangers -- he's actually trying to rekindle old sexual relationships. Obv when I found that out, I have no idea how long this has gone on or if he's actually been cheating the entire time.

A long time ago I caught him sending texts like that to another woman and I thought he had stopped. (His excuse was that he was never going to act on it and was just flirting to get attention.) Now I feel very stupid and overlooked, because it appears he is interested in trying to rekindle things with all these woman of the past, meanwhile ignoring me entirely. (It's worth saying that I'm hotter than any of these other women... it's not like any of them are knockouts. Many of his exes I have met in person and they were underwhelming... I could understand if it was some knockout he couldn't get over, but that's not it. Instead, it just seems like he's an unavailable coward who wants sexual attention from everyone who has left and wants to give none to the person he's with. Maybe narcissism? Or maybe he just has so much insecurity that he's hopeless.
We aren't legally married. I am considering leaving. Part of me has the urge to have an affair. Not just a hookup or cuck sex but actually a full fledged affair. Not sure why I'm leaning in that direction.

I was only into cuckolding when I felt my husband was really into me. It's not exciting if you're doing it with someone who is bored of you and always looking in the other direction for attention.

I got into the cuck thing because i was a sex addicted hypersexualized guy. So there is a strain of cuck that is prone to cheat, just hypersexual and love variations

 

[QOShotwifeDFW]

In a story like this one it is obvious that the husband wanted the wife to have sex with another man so that he would be able to have sex with other women “guilt free” whether it was with the wife’s knowledge or not. The wife in this scenario needs to either have the discussion with her husband to shut that behavior down or she needs to leave him. The other option would be to become a complete slut and at least be able to have a good sex life of your own, which will also have the added effect of making the husband want to have sex with you more if he is just hyper sexual. (Hyper sexual guys always want a promiscuous woman more than a monogamous one - this is why “spicing things up” tends to not fix marriages.) Either way the man in this scenario sounds like a selfish and entitled asshole.

I am also a little perplexed as to why a scorned woman would come on to an interracial sex forum to even ask for guidance about something like this. There are much better places to receive relationship help of this kind. This would explain the “nasty responses” being received.

 

[NJamazoncuck]

My husband is very into cuckolding, *editing for context since so many people seem to be slut shaming: I'm not a BBC-loving whore. I started doing this because my husband begged me to, and I always did it WITH him. I do not have black bulls, boyfriends, or anyone who I fuck behind his back. I don't cheat. I don't text men unless he's there asking me to do it. It is 1000% HIS KINK and something I always did for his enjoyment and pleasure. Me, personally, I'd rather have a partner who wants to keep exploring each other rather than having sex with strangers, but to each their own. **

But, for the past year he has lost interest in me sexually. It's crazy because my body is better than it has ever been. I'm the same loyal wife. Everything I do sexually has always been WITH him. But now, my husband has become engrossed in porn (both gay porn and straight porn) and now I have realized he's texted with several exes -- one of whom he even suggested they could still "fuck around" if she wants to. He's not randomly talking to strangers -- he's actually trying to rekindle old sexual relationships. Obv when I found that out, I have no idea how long this has gone on or if he's actually been cheating the entire time.

A long time ago I caught him sending texts like that to another woman and I thought he had stopped. (His excuse was that he was never going to act on it and was just flirting to get attention.) Now I feel very stupid and overlooked, because it appears he is interested in trying to rekindle things with all these woman of the past, meanwhile ignoring me entirely. (It's worth saying that I'm hotter than any of these other women... it's not like any of them are knockouts. Many of his exes I have met in person and they were underwhelming... I could understand if it was some knockout he couldn't get over, but that's not it. Instead, it just seems like he's an unavailable coward who wants sexual attention from everyone who has left and wants to give none to the person he's with. Maybe narcissism? Or maybe he just has so much insecurity that he's hopeless.
We aren't legally married. I am considering leaving. Part of me has the urge to have an affair. Not just a hookup or cuck sex but actually a full fledged affair. Not sure why I'm leaning in that direction.

I was only into cuckolding when I felt my husband was really into me. It's not exciting if you're doing it with someone who is bored of you and always looking in the other direction for attention.

I believe that your husband wants to have his cake and also eat it. A classic example of narcissus personality disorder.

You say that the two of you are not legally married. In that case, I question if he can classify himself as a cuckold. Most cuckolds, like me, are submissive to a dominant wife. I can't satisfy my wife sexually; therefore, I doubt any other woman would be satisfied with me. It also seems that his exes don't want to resume sexual relations. So, unless he is the world champion of pussy eating, he is just another guy looking for his happiness in a dark world without a flashlight. You can't have a martial relationship where there never was such a relationship.