I am curious. I have tried before but they usually tell me I'm cute but that's it. What can I do?
How would a white woman react to being approached and hit on by a young black male?
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Surburbnwife4u
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A soft wisper works well. One that got me once was during a slow dance. " Want to smell your little married cunt" It wasn't cute or polite but got him my number.
really....sure as hell wouldn't happen here.
Does the same go for black and Latino women as well?
Don't know about that. My wife is white and would be offended to say the least. Can't imagine what a fiery latina or a black woman would say? Any insight?
Let's be real though. If that was a white guy you never would have given him your number and in fact you may have pulled away and just said no thanks. Black men already have the edge simply because they've been stereotyped as sexual beings, they have more confidence as they know they're desired, and having bigger cocks in average helps too.I was walking through the mall when a black man working a kiosk reached out and pulled me towards him. Not forcefully just in a charming sort of way. Honestly couldn’t tell you how he did it. Lol!
He was advertising a photography studio and trying to get me to sign up for a photo package. He was nice enough, but i thought it was just the usual sales tactic.. he complimented my eyes and smile..I seriously didn’t want to be pressured into buying a package so I used the ol’ “I’ll have to talk to my husband and see if he’s interested.” line..
This is when the conversation took an obvious turning point for me... he said, “Yea I noticed that ring on your finger, he sure did want everyone to know you were taken.” Asked how long I’d been married (10 years) and said, “Damn he must have got you real young... how old are you anyway?” A few seconds of small talk later he sort of hit me out of nowhere with, “You know you don’t have to ask him. You and I both know you don’t have to ask his permission for anything. You just go and tell him what YOU want..” I remember spending a few seconds trying to figure him out after that. Lol!
He wrote his cell # down, handed it to me and told me to call him when I had made up my mind.
I did contact him and turns out he was in fact very interested. We just weren’t ready at the time. But me being a shy woman, think he did it perfectly. He was aggressive enough but not pushy. He left me wondering “was that... what I thought it was?” and definitely wanted to find out.
The trick is to speak to them like you are the same age. You seem to place them on a pedestal, which sets you up with a negative thought process.
Of course, some are simply not into young men. Also what must be taken into consideration is their children being the same age or older than you. For some, that's a big turn on, others...biggest turn off.
Each woman is a different adventure. There's no "The Secret" for courting em. Just gotta feel them out and see where it goes.
Do not over-fret about this. Just let the young BBC do you.
I'm always flattered.
Show her your humorous side and make her smile
It depends on your approach. If a grown man approaches me and is polite, friendly and on their game, I’m receptive. I don’t care about age as much as I care about the chemistry. But if you’re really young and you come off like you’re there just because you want an older white woman, any older white woman, I’m out...
Bristolangela
Female
The older the woman the more likely she is to take control f the situation if she's interested.
Just smile or even wave if your bit shy.
Just smile or even wave if your bit shy.
Stay confident, funny, playful and cocky. Escalate intimacy.
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