How to bring it up with Significant Other?

dandb

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#2
The best way is to have it seem.like her idea... make it her obsession... her fantasy... then she is doing it and you can be the one to support her decision instead of her living out one of your fantasies
 

Jo Roman

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#3
My wife is not just beautiful, she’s smart. Love her brain as much as her body.
It would difficult to make her think it’s her idea. But she’s open to being persuaded - and people on this site sure help - that it’s our idea.
Thanks for helping me “brainwash” her, as she puts it, with her sly and sensual smile.
 
#4
My wife wanted sex at least 3 times a day. Her sex drive was killing me. I couldn’t keep up or satisfy her needs so it seemed natural to ask if she’d like to fuck other men. White guys were first, but even though they had larger dicks & stayed harder longer than me, she was still not satiated. BBC was the next move & it all changed instantly. ( this is a very condensed version of the time, tact, & effort it took to get her there )
 

Jo Roman

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#5
My wife wanted sex at least 3 times a day. Her sex drive was killing me. I couldn’t keep up or satisfy her needs so it seemed natural to ask if she’d like to fuck other men. White guys were first, but even though they had larger dicks & stayed harder longer than me, she was still not satiated. BBC was the next move & it all changed instantly. ( this is a very condensed version of the time, tact, & effort it took to get her there )
Nice summary, covering cause, effect and solution in a condensed, logical sequence. Like good cliff notes for those tests on books we had to read.
You’d make a good copy editor or headline writer.
Thanks for sharing.
 

dandb

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#8
It is not brain washing and if she is smart even better. Watch straight up vanilla porn.. it will be in the Normal boring shit catagory.

Watch some of that and mix it up with interracial porn. See if she gets turned on. Before we started my wife did not know that I suspected her of digging bbc. We would watch porn a d she would get a little turned on. Every so often she would get extra excited. She would soak thru her panties.. I ddid figure it out by paying closer attention to her and what porn was on... one noght we were watching IR lorn and this guy had a very long and extremely thick cock. He was slowly fucking this little white pussy.... as it went on I noticed my girl in bed moving and thrusting hips... over the next few weeks After I asked a few questions, explained my views on swinging and got her a dildo. A big ole black one.... the next time i seen her moving those hips to black dick in white pussy i got out the new dildo.... she fucked herself really good with it and came very hard.... this replayed itself a few times and I started asking her if she wanted a real one.... finally after a month she would openly admit to me that she wanted a real bbc... I would tease her till she begged for the dildo.... So I started telling her she was a black cock slut everytime she got off on the dildo... it wasn't long before she was begging to get her black cock slut pussy fucked by a black cock... it was only a matter of time before we made an AFF account. A few eeks after that we set up a date... sith many more to follow..
 
#10
It's so simple!! Just tell her you had a dream that you came home and caught her getting fucked by a black guy with a huge cock and when she saw you she just laughed at you and told you to just watch and then you woke up with a raging hard on and tell her it was weird because you were so jealous but turned on at the same time! BOOM you just planted the seed!! Easy peezy!! Then every now and then say you had dream again but add stuff to it and mention dream to her WHILE your fucking her and I bet she gets off almost instantly, if not it's definitely in the back of her mind!!
 
#11
Be very careful how you go about it. Ive confessed my desire for my wife to have bbc. She knows bbc is bigger and better and was amazed at how much larger they are. I guess I went about it the wrong way as she has no desire to take one in her pussy. I tried to plant "seeds" in her head and we watched IR vids and I even enlisted the help of her friend to take her to a club. Non of that worked. The closest my wife has ever been to bbc was actually when I had no clue she was even around one. She had went to Myrtle Beach with a female coworker on a business trip. They went out one night and made it to a club and she danced with a few guys most of whom were black. She told me all about it the next day and I asked how big their cocks were. She said huge and I asked her to please fuck one and she got mad and said no. When she took a lover a few years back he was white and actually smaller than I am. My wife would have to be drunk as hell and even then it wouldn't be a given she'd go for it. Good luck though.
 
#12
It's so simple!! Just tell her you had a dream that you came home and caught her getting fucked by a black guy with a huge cock and when she saw you she just laughed at you and told you to just watch and then you woke up with a raging hard on and tell her it was weird because you were so jealous but turned on at the same time! BOOM you just planted the seed!! Easy peezy!! Then every now and then say you had dream again but add stuff to it and mention dream to her WHILE your fucking her and I bet she gets off almost instantly, if not it's definitely in the back of her mind!!
You shouldn't trick your wife with lies. JMO.