How to bring it up with Significant Other?

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My wife is not just beautiful, she’s smart. Love her brain as much as her body.
It would difficult to make her think it’s her idea. But she’s open to being persuaded - and people on this site sure help - that it’s our idea.
Thanks for helping me “brainwash” her, as she puts it, with her sly and sensual smile.
 
My wife wanted sex at least 3 times a day. Her sex drive was killing me. I couldn’t keep up or satisfy her needs so it seemed natural to ask if she’d like to fuck other men. White guys were first, but even though they had larger dicks & stayed harder longer than me, she was still not satiated. BBC was the next move & it all changed instantly. ( this is a very condensed version of the time, tact, & effort it took to get her there )
 
My wife wanted sex at least 3 times a day. Her sex drive was killing me. I couldn’t keep up or satisfy her needs so it seemed natural to ask if she’d like to fuck other men. White guys were first, but even though they had larger dicks & stayed harder longer than me, she was still not satiated. BBC was the next move & it all changed instantly. ( this is a very condensed version of the time, tact, & effort it took to get her there )

Nice summary, covering cause, effect and solution in a condensed, logical sequence. Like good cliff notes for those tests on books we had to read.
You’d make a good copy editor or headline writer.
Thanks for sharing.
 
It is not brain washing and if she is smart even better. Watch straight up vanilla porn.. it will be in the Normal boring ******* catagory.

Watch some of that and mix it up with interracial porn. See if she gets turned on. Before we started my wife did not know that I suspected her of digging bbc. We would watch porn a d she would get a little turned on. Every so often she would get extra excited. She would soak thru her panties.. I ddid figure it out by paying closer attention to her and what porn was on... one noght we were watching IR lorn and this guy had a very long and extremely thick cock. He was slowly fucking this little white pussy.... as it went on I noticed my girl in bed moving and thrusting hips... over the next few weeks After I asked a few questions, explained my views on swinging and got her a dildo. A big ole black one.... the next time i seen her moving those hips to black dick in white pussy i got out the new dildo.... she fucked herself really good with it and came very hard.... this replayed itself a few times and I started asking her if she wanted a real one.... finally after a month she would openly admit to me that she wanted a real bbc... I would tease her till she begged for the dildo.... So I started telling her she was a black cock slut everytime she got off on the dildo... it wasn't long before she was begging to get her black cock slut pussy fucked by a black cock... it was only a matter of time before we made an AFF account. A few eeks after that we set up a date... sith many more to follow..
 
It's so simple!! Just tell her you had a dream that you came home and caught her getting fucked by a black guy with a huge cock and when she saw you she just laughed at you and told you to just watch and then you woke up with a raging hard on and tell her it was weird because you were so jealous but turned on at the same time! BOOM you just planted the seed!! Easy peezy!! Then every now and then say you had dream again but add stuff to it and mention dream to her WHILE your fucking her and I bet she gets off almost instantly, if not it's definitely in the back of her mind!!
 
Be very careful how you go about it. Ive confessed my desire for my wife to have bbc. She knows bbc is bigger and better and was amazed at how much larger they are. I guess I went about it the wrong way as she has no desire to take one in her pussy. I tried to plant "seeds" in her head and we watched IR vids and I even enlisted the help of her friend to take her to a club. Non of that worked. The closest my wife has ever been to bbc was actually when I had no clue she was even around one. She had went to Myrtle Beach with a female coworker on a business trip. They went out one night and made it to a club and she danced with a few guys most of whom were black. She told me all about it the next day and I asked how big their cocks were. She said huge and I asked her to please fuck one and she got mad and said no. When she took a lover a few years back he was white and actually smaller than I am. My wife would have to be ******* as hell and even then it wouldn't be a given she'd go for it. Good luck though.
 
It's so simple!! Just tell her you had a dream that you came home and caught her getting fucked by a black guy with a huge cock and when she saw you she just laughed at you and told you to just watch and then you woke up with a raging hard on and tell her it was weird because you were so jealous but turned on at the same time! BOOM you just planted the seed!! Easy peezy!! Then every now and then say you had dream again but add stuff to it and mention dream to her WHILE your fucking her and I bet she gets off almost instantly, if not it's definitely in the back of her mind!!
You shouldn't trick your wife with lies. JMO.
 
Here's my opinion:
Check out on youtube The 4 Stages a Woman Goes Through When you Bring up Cuckolding. Also check out Susan Bratton on youtube. She has some good videos to help. Also check out, Interracial Cuckolding for Dummies in the Cuckolding forum. BigBlackbull76 gave a lot of thoughtful insights on this subject. Study these.

I broached the subject at the end of 2017 when we woke up in the morning and I told her I had a very vivid dream about her making love with a Black man. She was a little amused and asked how she did so I made something up and then told her how much I liked seeing them together. I wasn't pushy about this either. She's very passionate about things and accepting about this dream because of our big decline in the bedroom scene.

We started watching a couple of IR porn but only with one Black man in it. More than one is wasn't very appealing with her. We discussed some areas about gf's being with Black men once in awhile to spice up the sex life. I think deep down she's into this because she's wanting more and deeper sex. I then got her a black dildo which we use during watching porn. Very stimulating for her and I know she's liking it more and more. As of this date I'm slowly trying to take it to the next step. We discuss and her feelings ebb and flow. The video's helped me out a lot along with what I'm learning here.
Oh, I'm also learning about myself and what I'm looking for. It's a big step for me.
 
How did you guys bring up the idea of introducing a BBC in to your relationship? Male or female I'm just trying to find a good way to bring it up. Thanks!
I bought a book someone suggested on a similar site called Sharing Destiny. It’s written well to open the mind to interracial sex, hotwifing, cuckolding etc. I got it on Amazon, and I can honestly say I attribute it all to the book for helping ignite the lifestyle. Wife just said she agrees! DC3ACFC2-ABB5-467A-B20C-B965E2A1074B.jpeg
 
I bought a book someone suggested on a similar site called Sharing Destiny. It’s written well to open the mind to interracial sex, hotwifing, cuckolding etc. I got it on Amazon, and I can honestly say I attribute it all to the book for helping ignite the lifestyle. Wife just said she agrees! View attachment 1756148
Thanks for sharing I will have to give this a read!
 
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