VET YOUR BULL !!!!
Vetthing your Bull:
Every couple, every husband/wife, every solo BBC man arrive here
via different paths. Your job (hubby) is to make this as easy
on your wife as you can, to anticipate and cover every concern
(many of which she hasn't or won't share with you, such as "I'm
no longer in the shape I was in my 20's, what young stud is
gonna find me hot?".
And when the time comes to introduce your hotwife to potential
"Bull," your job is to make sure she's ready, happy, upbeat
so that your bull isn't in an uncomfortable place. RESPECT
BBC ALWAYS.
Likewise, don't try to trick or non-notice surprise your girl
by bringing BBC home without her knowing. Embarrasment is
NOT sexy.
So, MAKE SURE YOU AND YOUR WIFE UNDERSTAND THAT INVITING/WELCOMING
a BULL into your bedroom also includes inviting him into your
sex life completely (if you're going to be real honest about it),
and also making him feel at home even if you're just chilling
for the night.
It's a threeway friendship. Each looking out for each other.
Each sharing and respecting each other's limits or requests or
fantasies.
And your Bull should offer to help move the furniture when
needed, too, without him getting any pussy. IT'S NOT JUST
ABOUT FUCKING. You and wife and bull should be interested in
a new friendship. a kinky sexy friendship, yes, but a trustorthy
reliable friendship.
OK, if your potential bull says "woah, dude, i just want to
fuck your wife while you watch," then direct him to the
adult video store, that's just a fantasy porn thing, that's
NOT what a proper bull would ever say.
In fact, a proper bull would be very inqusitive from the start,
he'd make it clear he wants your friendship and that he wants
to listen and learn what gets your wife off (and then, what
gets you off too, but make this all about your wife and black
lover's needs first, we'll work your needs in once ball is rolling).
Has he ever been a bull before? what did he like, what didn't he
like? Are you looking for a weekly visit from your bull, or monthly>
Make sure it fits his "can do" plan so that no one is calling or
knocking on door at the wrong time.
Is bull comfortable with sleep-overs, if you need that? Does bull
have any sexy secret clubs he can take your wife to, or would
you rather it always be at your place or his place or hotel?
Would you like your Bull to invite his friends to watch or to
share her?
Will you tell Bull that you want him to own your wife's pussy
when he visits but that not exactly sure what that looks like
yet, so he agrees everyone will have fun going slowly, will be
easy for everyone to laugh and have fun during trial and error?
Make sure any bull you contact meets ALL your wife's check list
boxes. NO EXCEPTIONS, make sure these guys meet the fantasy man
she gets off on when she's alone. And likewise, be aware that
she might not turn every guy on, so respect BBC by having private
talk with him so he's free to make decision, too.
TELL your potential bull that you'll answer any questions he has,
and that you want to know his needs and just for starters, what
is one "white slut wife" fantasy he has that you can tutor your
wife on to make come true for him. Show respect.
Then, share with him one thing or fantasy he can do to fullfilf
for your wife. Going out of the way and finding a way to go
deep like this is what it's all about.
When it comes to actual fucking, well, different advices from
everyone: I let my girl(s) always do what she and he want
to do, it's not for me to get in the way or to tell her what
to do or to tell him what to do. THey'll become lovers soon
enough, hopefully, and they'll have their own sex connection,
she'll learn how he likes to bounce his balls off her chin when
he's face fucking her. He'll learn where she loves the head of
his cock inside her cunt, that spot that makes her explode. YOU
AREN'T OF HELP HERE>
Agree that you want him and her to love fucking each other.
Tell him IN PRIVATE that YOU probably want this MUCH MORE than
your wife does, so tell Bull you'll help him in any and every
way if there's any snags, and tell Bull for now to just focus
on HER needs and make HER cum so that she's happy. That's what
all of us want, men, we want our girls to love sucking and fucking
and worshipping big black cock and we want them to tell us
that they can only get off now when either getting fucked by
black cock or thinking about black cock.
When my wife gets herself off in the morning after I leave for office,
she promises me that she ONLY thinks of big black cock fucking
her or using her as a fuckdoll or whoring her to black friends, etc.
I made her PROMISE me to keep that always true, and I made her
PROMISE not to think about me and not to ever think about white cock
when she's cumming.
And when I'm lucky enough to get between her legs and suck her BBC
OWNED CUNT, I promised to ONLY dirty talk to her about black cock
she's fucked or about new scene I thought of with her and a black
lover fucking to orgasm.
AND, when I find a NEW Bull (yes, looking for new guys, we met
a couple of them on SDC but one said he had too many family concerns
and coudln't always keep the date and another guy has a girlfriend
issue. See, these are real life things to ask and be aware of),
I'm going to communicate to him more clearly than I ever have that
HE has a beautiful big black cock and I'm going to THANK HIM so
much for giving my wife consideration, thank him for even thinking
of sharing his delicious cock and cum with her. And I'm going
to tell her that this new guy, this new opportunity is for us, too,
to be even more honest with each other and with him. Behind closed
doors, he'll invite his friends so they can tell her that they love
fucking white whores, and cheating white married whores even more
so, and they are going to take turns bouncing their big black balls
off her face while stroking themselves, building up huge cum loads.
And she is going to be able to tell them that she loves being their
whore and that her hubby keeps her pussy pure and "all black", and
I'll tell them that I'll hold her head steady now so each of them
can fuck her face until ready to empty their balls on her face.
And she'll say "not on my face, cuck, I want them to explode
in my mouth, i want to swallow all their cum."
and i'll tell them to go ahead and use her mouth like a cunt because
big black cock deserves at least this.
OK, if your potential bull doesn't have more than a sentence to say after this, he doesn't deserve pussy this good.
THAT, he ad
