My GF is Christian and not sure how to bring up this topic to her!

I have been so interested in bringing it up to her but I feel she wont be into it cause of her religious background! Is their anyway around this or the proper way to bring it up, since I dont want to lose her if I do bring it up and she doesnt agree with it!
 
I have been so interested in bringing it up to her but I feel she wont be into it cause of her religious background! Is their anyway around this or the proper way to bring it up, since I dont want to lose her if I do bring it up and she doesnt agree with it!
Easy, tell her you had a crazy dream about her and that you caught being fucked by a couple of hung black guys. And tell her it made you jealous but turned on at the same time and you woke up with a raging hard on! Say she just looked at you and smiled as she kept on fucking them.
It's easy to plant the seed without putting yourself out there because it was a dream and that way you can guage her reaction.
If she's not put off or disgusted by it next time you're fucking her whisper in her ear about your dream again and she'll either get off almost instantly or she she'll become offish and then you'll know if there's a chance of it happening or not.
 
Make her doubt about religion itself by presenting her other ways of viewing life and others gods etc, dont discuss with her, just tell her about other things, she will open her mind more. Then read stories about interracial cuckolding and tell her that not taking personal opinion. Women love stories and if they have passion and meaning she will put attention to it, try to read stories about cheating with black men, slowly her mind will be more flexible. There is no free choice, everything we think now has been programmed to our minds since the beginning so why not change it or make it more wide perspectives, not just the closed minded conservative view.
 
Christians are so of the biggest freaks 🧎‍♀️ :sex::blackgrimace:
We are Christians. Sexually I believe people want what they want. The OP is asking if he should ask his wife but is scared to because of her religious beliefs. Sounds like he does not know her well enough to bring the subject up. I was scared to ask my wife but I never sought out opinions. I knew the risks involved and went for it.
 
Make her doubt about religion itself by presenting her other ways of viewing life and others gods etc, dont discuss with her, just tell her about other things, she will open her mind more. Then read stories about interracial cuckolding and tell her that not taking personal opinion. Women love stories and if they have passion and meaning she will put attention to it, try to read stories about cheating with black men, slowly her mind will be more flexible. There is no free choice, everything we think now has been programmed to our minds since the beginning so why not change it or make it more wide perspectives, not just the closed minded conservative view.
That is messed up.
 
Make her doubt about religion itself by presenting her other ways of viewing life and others gods etc, dont discuss with her, just tell her about other things, she will open her mind more. Then read stories about interracial cuckolding and tell her that not taking personal opinion. Women love stories and if they have passion and meaning she will put attention to it, try to read stories about cheating with black men, slowly her mind will be more flexible. There is no free choice, everything we think now has been programmed to our minds since the beginning so why not change it or make it more wide perspectives, not just the closed minded conservative view.
This is more likely to get her to leave you than if you told her you think it would be hot to watch her with another guy. At worst telling her will cause a fight. If she truly believes her religion and you attempt to manipulate her, that’s a guarantee that she’s leaving you
 
There are really no "good girls" in the world.
Ahh, the old good vs bad girls. The whole madonna/whore complex. It is so exhausting and incorrect, it shuts women down and it is the tired voice of inadequate men from domineering religions. The virgin throwback and thoughts of purity for women while you think it is totally fine to wank off to interracial porn and lots of BBC. Why can’t she have desires? Why does she have to have control and be prudent when you do not? Can’t she be a good person and have fantasies? A history? What makes you capable of even evaluating whether she is good or bad? Would you not prefer a powerful confident woman who wants pleasure, fantasy, and is free the self-loathing and doubt? Men want virgins because they can’t stand criticism. Fun when you were also a virgin, but no longer. Find a confident woman who is sexually empowered and you will be so much happier, someone with experience who has loved sex before.

Don’t be jealous because she has let other cocks inside her, you know it turns you on. Especially a very thick one stretching her out with big veins and big balls. Making her come all over his big cock, she is so turned on that it all slides in. She is full of cock and kissing him, he can taste his slippery cock on her lips, and she can taste her pussy on his. She is looking down and loving that cock and thrusting to meet it, she is so wet, she is giving up her pussy to him. Her inner lips are stretched around him, her wetness is making a spot on the bed. Her puckered little other hole is wet too, and it is being slapped by big hanging balls. He will finger her ass if she likes it, his finger wet from her pussy. She is shy about her little ass but also so full of dick and riding that cock right to the base. He will fill her with his come, only after he feels her pussy contract around him, her orgasms tell him that she loved it. Her pussy will be open a bit after he slides out, his cock is shrinking but still much larger than yours, it is dripping come. His come slides out onto the bed. She looks at the cock that was just inside her, all wet from her pussy. She might want to recover and have water before taking him doggy style. She can take that whole dick now and his come, now she can totally just fuck him and get as much of that big bare dick as possible. She wants to hold him all of the way in her pussy, stretched around his base, balls deep. Hold him there, grabbing his ass, feel him get thicker, erupting and shooting his come inside, each spurt coating her pussy walls.

Love her because she wants you. Not because of some weak and insecure good vs bad girl. If she doesn’t have a past and doesn’t like dick, then why are you attracted to her and want to be with her? Encourage her to want pleasure, and a larger cock or a different cock. Maybe a thick black one that will satisfy her tight pink insides and send her home dripping with his come.

Then reclaim her and show her that you love her. You don’t have to eat her creampie, but you know you want to slide in and feel her envelope you, she will be tight again in 10 min. Maybe you knew and waited at home, maybe she has a hall pass and is out late. You know you want to kiss her, taste that forbidden cock in her mouth. Hoping that it was her ex /a black guy/ a bull/ a guy that she will want inside her again, just for his big cock and heavy balls, a very hot fuck buddy and nothing more. Hopefully he is married or in a relationship, she is with you and is hopefully happy. Treat her like a queen, satisfy her in every part of life and encourage her to try other big cocks. You know you want her to try a black one

Make sure she is taking reliable birth control and enjoy. But learn to enjoy actual women, they are far more fun than any simple ideas of good vs bad. Look at all of the comments from all of the cucks who wish their wife had experience and desires instead of being all bottled up and unhappy
 
Ahh, the old good vs bad girls. The whole madonna/whore complex. It is so exhausting and incorrect, it shuts women down and it is the tired voice of inadequate men from domineering religions. The virgin throwback and thoughts of purity for women while you think it is totally fine to wank off to interracial porn and lots of BBC. Why can’t she have desires? Why does she have to have control and be prudent when you do not? Can’t she be a good person and have fantasies? A history? What makes you capable of even evaluating whether she is good or bad? Would you not prefer a powerful confident woman who wants pleasure, fantasy, and is free the self-loathing and doubt? Men want virgins because they can’t stand criticism. Fun when you were also a virgin, but no longer. Find a confident woman who is sexually empowered and you will be so much happier, someone with experience who has loved sex before.

Don’t be jealous because she has let other cocks inside her, you know it turns you on.

Love her because she wants you. Not because of some weak and insecure good vs bad girl. If she doesn’t have a past and doesn’t like dick, then why are you attracted to her and want to be with her? Encourage her to want pleasure, and a larger cock or a different cock. Maybe a thick black one that will satisfy her tight pink insides

But learn to enjoy actual women, they are far more fun than any simple ideas of good vs bad. Look at all of the comments from all of the cucks who wish their wife had experience and desires instead of being all bottled up and unhappy
I deleted parts of this and kept the parts the I found very interesting. I think you are right in a lot of ways. My wife was very sexually active prior to us meeting in our very early twenties and getting married. I know she was active because I stupidly asked her how many guys she slept with prior to meeting me and she told me about 10. I also had asked her about who they were and five of the guys were either military guys still at the base I was stationed at or part time civilian employees who worked on the base and I had unknowingly been around them at events with my wife at the time we were dating and it sucked knowing that they all knew and I had no clue at the time.
My point is I never thought of my wife as a "bad" girl even though she was promiscuous, in fact she is a very "good" girl who is kind, tender and sweet. At the time it gnawed at me a lot to think about those guys with her but that was my own insecurity getting to me. I even asked her if any of them were bigger than me and had she slept with a black guy which she answered no to both questions.
It is crazy to think we are now looking to involve a black man in our relationship given what we felt I felt in those early years.
 
So is she the Christian type whose real straight laced and wants to do everything by the book or more open minded but likes to include God into everything? Those tend to be the two types. Years ago I had to get some court ordered counseling (a guy gropes my wife but I'm the one who needs counseling lol) anyways she was a devout Christian. I was like "damnit here we go" and the amount of times she talked to me about how my wife and I should be as freaky as hell was astounding. I called her out on it one day and she basically said "Christians aren't meant to have boring sex, life is short"

My point is, just have an honest talk with her and be like "what's a kink you're somewhat shy about but wouldn't mind exploring ". I'm going to guess she wants you to be more aggressive or something somewhat vanilla.
Tell her something like " you know how alot of guys think two chicks at the same time would be hot? Not me I'd prefer you getting pleasure from two men, I love making you feel good and being able to watch you get pleasured would be so hot"

But if she's not into it then move on.
 
if you are careful and respectful of her desires then Christian is not necessarily a barrier. Like all people she has a past and has had sex with other people. Awesome. Each relationship ended for various reasons and she has chosen you.Yes, even the most loving caring bible toting women like this have had the chance to play pornstar with other guys, some bigger than you. The vagina is very flexible, and she wants you. Doesn’t mean that you can’t play off some ideas and role playing.Projecting innocence or purity is all about knowing temptation and choosing not to do. Have to go slower, ensure that she trusts you and has a very solid relationship.

Much of the time this can mean that she can be wild, but in a married or committed relationship. If you can find porn that represents her type of body and attractiveness then it should turn her on physically, might take more time mentally. Work on assurances that she can think of other cocks, that you can be there with her. Working to soft swinging at least on her part might be more realistic than being a full on hotwife with a BBC. Or maybe not. All depends on the journey for the two of you.

Start talking about the guys that she had before. Lots of religious girls will give blowjobs to tons of guys, even swallow, many do not consider it to even be sex. Just something to get their new boyfriend off, often while they get nothing in return. If they were super turned on then their tight little bum is ready to take a thick cock and his heavy load. Anything to save or minimize that cock in pussy. Many did not use birth control because that means they were wanting sex and then the guilt starts. lots of fun with those thoughts as you find her hidden desires. Chances are that a BWC or BBC is part of it. Might not be a random stranger on here, perhaps someone she meets so she is more comfortable with him. Big step to open your relationship and her pussy, so much easier for males.

Her desire to be good and have relationships, or just that whole confession to wipe the sins clean, all essential elements of religion, that could mean that she would be perfect for a long-term FWB. Someone with a thick cock and big set of balls to unload in her little pussy. Once she learns to tease you about other guys she has had and new guys, and you are always there to reassure her and eat her wet pussy, then she will allow this fantasy to grow. Talk to her during sex about her past, ask her questions, encourage her to tell you about her past with other guys. Help make her come when she tells you about her past and her fantasies. Tell her stories, but just a bit more wild than she has done. Go slow. Enjoy the ride.

It cannot just be ok when you are turned on though, if she mentions someone is hot, then encourage it. same with flirting with other people, considering them. Steps. You have to be fully committed to developing this with her. Religious women are freaky too, if she loves cock and creampies then you will have an amazing journey with her.
 
We are Christians. Sexually I believe people want what they want. The OP is asking if he should ask his wife but is scared to because of her religious beliefs. Sounds like he does not know her well enough to bring the subject up. I was scared to ask my wife but I never sought out opinions. I knew the risks involved and went for it.

Same.

A girlfriend isn't the same as a wife. I believe the lifestyle is for people in secure, established loving relationships. You're skating on thin ice with loosely committed relationships like "girlfriends."
 
I see things posted about gfs/fiancés/newlyweds and personally I know I could not have been that guy with my wife early in our relationship. I never had thoughts about her sleeping with a black man until about 6 years into our marriage and even then stayed quite about it for years.
I know every couple is different and the same rules do not apply to everyone but I had trouble telling my wife because frankly I did not know how she would react. We are reserved when it comes to sex so we do not discuss sex a lot but I finally got to the point where I just had to tell her and thankfully she did not get upset.
For me, I think us being married and committed to each other is what makes it all so intense. We are pushing boundaries and doing things married couples do not "normally" do.
I am rambling on here. I agree with everything you posted.:)
 
I have been so interested in bringing it up to her but I feel she wont be into it cause of her religious background! Is their anyway around this or the proper way to bring it up, since I dont want to lose her if I do bring it up and she doesnt agree with it!
Just tell her, she's Christian so she won't leave you, she probably already wants Bbc
 
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