How to bring up conversation with wife

[clarkkent89]

Yesterday she brought up the conversation of Drakes leaked Dick pic. I used this to see what she thought. All she said is it had no girth. My wife’s ex was a black male, part of the reason I took interest but can’t seem to find away to get her interested I mentioned a friend of mine was in the lifestyle and she said gross you should stop being friends. Any help guys I don’t want to only be IR porn addicted and this only be a fantasy.

 

[glncs]

Yesterday she brought up the conversation of Drakes leaked Dick pic. I used this to see what she thought. All she said is it had no girth. My wife’s ex was a black male, part of the reason I took interest but can’t seem to find away to get her interested I mentioned a friend of mine was in the lifestyle and she said gross you should stop being friends. Any help guys I don’t want to only be IR porn addicted and this only be a fantasy.

when you talked to her about your friend with the lifestyle what exactly did you say to her?

 

[ht805cpl]

Yesterday she brought up the conversation of Drakes leaked Dick pic. I used this to see what she thought. All she said is it had no girth. My wife’s ex was a black male, part of the reason I took interest but can’t seem to find away to get her interested I mentioned a friend of mine was in the lifestyle and she said gross you should stop being friends. Any help guys I don’t want to only be IR porn addicted and this only be a fantasy.

We say stick to the porn and fantasy, if she said it’s gross sounds like she is not into it. Why jeopardize your marriage over a fantasy you may find is more than you can handle. On the other hand if you truly want to try to get her across the line we suggest you start with baby steps, like maybe some softer porn or talk about some other fantasies you two could do together, bondage or dildos or fruit play, in time perhaps suggest to her about swinging or adding another person male or female, if she starts to open up take her to a swing club, party or resort, there is never any pressure to play, and many do not, but the social atmosphere may excite her or she may see something or someone which interests her, and you can move forward slowly, f she enjoys sex in time she will come around to playing with others, if she is. To into it then you are back to square one. Our relationship developed over many years of trying different things, from a woman to several women to a man to a couple men to couples to group sex and so on. Although we are not a cuckold hotwife couple, we have involved to enjoying having well hung black men join us on a Simi regular bases. For me the woman there is nothing more intense than making love to more than one man in an evening, sometimes many, or sometimes just one and my husband. Good luck but go slow, and be aware of her feelings and desires.