There's nothing that a woman loves more than the flattery of knowing she is desired.
1. Make sure your actions towards her show your commitment. She must feel safe & even a little arrogant that no matter what she does, you will always be there.
2. Once she feels safe with you, make her aware of how other men look at her. Point it out, show enough jelousy but also enough self confidence that it doesn't bother you.
3. Once she is aware that she has other options, encourage the sharing of your sexual fantasies. Make sure that she feels safe by sharing a few of yiur fantasies. She must know that there's no judgement & that her fantasies does not change how you feel. If anything, you love her so much that you want her to fulfill all of them & you will support & continue to love her while she does.
4. Start with role play. IR porn. BBC dildo. Dirty talk. If she's ready for the next step, set up a profile together. Upload some pics. Go through the responses together. She will tell you if she's ready for that final step.
5. Before taking the final step, establish a safe venue, a cover story in case anyone notices & most importantly your rules. Reserve the intimate things like holding hands & kissing for yourself. When you get there, pay attention to her as she's getting pleasure. Kiss & hold her, tell her how beautiful she is, how lucky your bull is, how glad you are, how much you love her. Encourage her to let go.
Once you get passed the first encounter, she will dictate the rest.
If at any of these points she feels uncomfortable, STOP IMMEDIATELY & start the whole process again. It must be a natural progression. If you ******* or rush it, she will close herself off completely.
1. Make sure your actions towards her show your commitment. She must feel safe & even a little arrogant that no matter what she does, you will always be there.
2. Once she feels safe with you, make her aware of how other men look at her. Point it out, show enough jelousy but also enough self confidence that it doesn't bother you.
3. Once she is aware that she has other options, encourage the sharing of your sexual fantasies. Make sure that she feels safe by sharing a few of yiur fantasies. She must know that there's no judgement & that her fantasies does not change how you feel. If anything, you love her so much that you want her to fulfill all of them & you will support & continue to love her while she does.
4. Start with role play. IR porn. BBC dildo. Dirty talk. If she's ready for the next step, set up a profile together. Upload some pics. Go through the responses together. She will tell you if she's ready for that final step.
5. Before taking the final step, establish a safe venue, a cover story in case anyone notices & most importantly your rules. Reserve the intimate things like holding hands & kissing for yourself. When you get there, pay attention to her as she's getting pleasure. Kiss & hold her, tell her how beautiful she is, how lucky your bull is, how glad you are, how much you love her. Encourage her to let go.
Once you get passed the first encounter, she will dictate the rest.
If at any of these points she feels uncomfortable, STOP IMMEDIATELY & start the whole process again. It must be a natural progression. If you ******* or rush it, she will close herself off completely.
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