whiteboi john
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Parties are good ways to expose more white folks to the lifestyle. Depending on the time of year, the activity could be indoors or outside. Start with black men and white couples who are in the lifestyle and then invite others who are curious or thinking about it. Over several hours those in the latter two groups can mingle with the ones already in, chatting, asking questions, etc. My black boss hosted such a party on Memorial Day. Several whites "went black" for the first time before they left, and others had increased levels of interest.