Mac, some days I wonder why you are here at all. You seem totally unsympathetic to the idea of sharing your woman with another man. I appreciate your attempts to give reasoned responses, but lets face it, we all are here because the idea of group sex turns us on, particularly interracial group sex.
....Well, that means on other days you don't wonder why I'm here, and that's good, right?
....I've been here quite a while, dako ... since 2010 actually. I think the website had been up about a year when I joined. I'm not in the least unsympathethetic to sharing my wife ... my wife and I did some awesome swinging in college and after we initially got married, and I've mentioned that many times here. When our 2 ******* became teens and started resisting our dropping them off at the grandparents, it was more effort than it was worth to avoid their discovering our little 'adult escapades' and the wife decided we should focus on getting them ready for college ... they're 16 & 14 now.
....What I often object to is the constant 'belittling' and assumptions made that white men who share their mates are submissive, or suppressive gays ... I know I'm certainly not
either.
The African stereotype reinforces fantasies of being dominated during sex. I wish people would stop making the false generalizations, but it is more about the fantasy played out in individuals sexual encounters than any statistical reality.
.....'false generalizations' ... similar to your first paragraph where you say WE ARE
ALL HERE BECAUSE ... ???? We aren't all here because of any
specific reason, actually. Some are definitely here for the black2white experience, but some are here because they are white males desire a sexual experience with a black males ... this is the reason we have a special section specific to bisexual experiences. Some are here because they are into the fantasy, some because they are jealous or envious of the other color, and some here to actually meet people with similar ideas. And believe it or not, some are here for the ... god forbid ... the
political boards. So we're all here because there are parts of this website we enjoy participating in. That said, the administration understands that some personalities do clash in forums, thus the courtesy of the IGNORE button. I've only ignored 2 people in the 7 years I've been here, and I'm not ignoring anyone now.
.....I do think couples should be able to share themselves with other partners when appropriate, if for nothing other than keeping the sex 'exciting' at home. I've been married 20 years ... it takes a bit of effort, sometimes, to keep the sex exciting after that length of time.
.....Anyways, I do appreciate your comment ... at least you took the time to explain yourself, which is better than some I manage to irritate in these forums sometimes .... Take Care
Mac