Your wife has a 7 yr king commited relationship to another man right? And he allows his friends to fuck her too correct? And she’s “loyal” to him despite fu king his friends? Do I understand this correctly?
How many couples have just 1 long term bull?
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Yes,he has done on one occasion,yes with her lovers permission she was fucked by his two friends,she did this to please him.
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Well I was just giving an account of how I handle my lifestyle since your original post asked for others’ thoughts on the subject but it seems you’re interested in making judgement on my lifestyle choice so I’ll give my two cents on yours.
The main reason I personally wouldn’t want to have one “lover” is that I think that is unfair to the black man (or “bull” in your case). It’s one thing to be friends with the people you’re having sex with but it’s something else to expect a level of emotional attachment from them incommensurate to their relationship status. What if your “bull” wanted the kind of love and relationship from you that you have with your husband? Isn’t a guy bound to become that attached if you’re making such a deep connection and having such passionate and sensual lovemaking sessions with him? Especially when you refer to that man as “your BBC” as if you have rights over his physical and emotional state? I have too much respect for my playmates to lead any of them on like that or to expect them to be beholden to me while my heart belongs to someone else. Maybe it’s because I’m not modest and am too busy just throwing myself at any black man with a big dick…
I've had several long-term lovers though out my years in this lifestyle, but nothing compares to my current lover who I've been with for several years and it has been wonderful. 
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My longest term bull I lost my virginity to in 8th grade. I still see him every week and I'm 45. Him and my husband are great friends.
I was not passing judgement, sorry you took it that way. As I said, as long as you get what you want, who cares. Your lifestyle isn't affecting me or my life, so I have no judgement to pass.Well I was just giving an account of how I handle my lifestyle since your original post asked for others’ thoughts on the subject but it seems you’re interested in making judgement on my lifestyle choice so I’ll give my two cents on yours.
The main reason I personally wouldn’t want to have one “lover” is that I think that is unfair to the black man (or “bull” in your case). It’s one thing to be friends with the people you’re having sex with but it’s something else to expect a level of emotional attachment from them incommensurate to their relationship status. What if your “bull” wanted the kind of love and relationship from you that you have with your husband? Isn’t a guy bound to become that attached if you’re making such a deep connection and having such passionate and sensual lovemaking sessions with him? Especially when you refer to that man as “your BBC” as if you have rights over his physical and emotional state? I have too much respect for my playmates to lead any of them on like that or to expect them to be beholden to me while my heart belongs to someone else. Maybe it’s because I’m not modest and am too busy just throwing myself at any black man with a big dick…
There is no confusion when it come to our relationship. My lover knows we will never be a couple in that aspect, nor does he want one. He has his significant other he lives with. She knows he has a lover as well. We've met. No one is leading anyone one. We're all here to have fun, and enjoy a Big Black Cock. On here he's my BBC, my lover, my BF. We respect each other's boundaries that's why it works for us.
I personally wouldn't feel good having multiple partners, but that in no way is me shaming or judging anyone who does. I'm happy everyone is getting what they want. That's all that matters. Life's too short to worry about other people and they way they live/love. Everyone should be able to share their feeling without feeling they are being called out.
I have seen your posts for a while now. You live with your bf most of the time if I'm not mistaken. That's awesome. You have a strong marriage I'm sure.I've had several long-term lovers though out my years in this lifestyle, but nothing compares to my current lover who I've been with for several years and it has been wonderful.
Actually, sweetie hubby and I just separated, and I moved to Texas with my lover Anthony.
Thank you for clarifying.
I'm so sorry, or congratulations, not sure which one it is lol.
I really am sorry if it seemed like I was judging you. Live your life queen
Thank you. Very happy with my decision and hubby was fine with it also. We don't plan on getting a divorce. We still love each other I'm just in a different place at the moment.
2cruzinforvull
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My Wife would only have 1 long term bull. There was a deeper connection there. We all got very close. It got more intense and intimate the more we got to know each other.
Would be great to have one regular guy to play with several times a month, that is our goal just haven't found him yet. Chill at the house or go out then play time whenever the urge hits.
I get to see him every other weekend. Love the arrangement. Works perfect for our busy lives.
That would be wonderful to have I'm envious lol/ happy for ya. We'll get there just as you stated busy lives and we're fairly rural makes it a challenge. Have a wonderful evening.
Well said, it’s not for everyone, reality is far from fantasy, but if you have that love/trust with one another, no judgement or fear of recriminations in any form, the pleasure you can share together is something you cannot describe adequately to someone who as not experienced the moments
cucktastrophe
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Love this. My wife and I are in a similar dynamic. We've certainly evolved over the years. When we were a bit younger, playmates would come and go. Now it's pretty much just her long-term Lover.
We all know each others' boundaries, expectations, and quirks. He's good to her and they have great sexual and plutonic chemistry. I'm not afraid of feelings getting in the way (he doesn't make her laugh like I do). And as we like to joke: While he is amply equipped to handle her in bed, only I'm equipped to handle her feistiness day-to-day.
that's wonderful to hearI've had several long-term lovers though out my years in this lifestyle, but nothing compares to my current lover who I've been with for several years and it has been wonderful.
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