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Your last sentence is probably the best approach to take. The only thing I've learned for sure is I am going to decide what's too "out there", nobody else.I had a conversation with a girl who was allowing herself to be used, really in some sick ways by a black guy. I’m all for people getting off and we all have our kinks, but the thing was that she had been completely stripped of her self esteem right through her life. It was like she wasn’t getting enjoyment out of it, but literally considered herself worthless. It was sad, and if I had been him I couldn’t have compounded the damage to her.
I post some pretty pervy stuff on here, but I stop short of abusing someone. If we’re not both getting off, what’s the point?