How long have you made your husband/boyfriend go without sex?

[Kyra]

Goddess may i ask how you permit your hubby to orgasm?

Anal only

 

[bbconly hotwife]

Just made him wait 10 months

 

[Normalwhiteguy]

on and off 27 years, full time chastity no sex no relief since the 26th November 2010 so coming up 9 years total cut off...

That's a long time. It sounds like it has been a good thing for both if you. Has it gotten easier for you to deal with or does it remain a challenge?

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

Twice a year I get ....But that is hardly intercourse anymore ....
Sex for me is now anal orgasms ...Butt plug or strapon ...sometimes a ruined chastity orgasm.

 

[Normalwhiteguy]

Twice a year I get ....But that is hardly intercourse anymore ....
Sex for me is now anal orgasms ...Butt plug or strapon ...sometimes a ruined chastity orgasm.

I love caging, denial and torment of the cuckold husband. Ruined orgasms are a sexy way to frustrate him even further.
I think the more a cuck is kept frustrated the better it is for the marriage.

 

[LadyMae]

42 days and counting.

 

[Brian1965]

I’m almost 30 years older than my Filipina wife. My libido has waned over the years, and I’m happy with sex about once a month, on average. I’m never “denied,” and am fully satisfied.

However, my wife has a half-black boyfriend around her age, who has lived with us almost 3 years. They make love almost daily, and he’s my wife’s primary lover by default. Still, being a catholic Filipina, she’s very committed to our marriage.

My wife’s boyfriend views me as like an uncle and mentor, and we often do things together like fishing or watching sports.

My wife is a jealous sort, and her boyfriend is 100 percent faithful to her, as I am. Our arrangementworks well for all involved.

 

[Mslubrandy]

That is exactly correct in my own opinion and its an opinion both Michael & I share. We were very careful to properley communicate on this question becasue it was never our intention to take his denial as far as we did. But when in this lifestyle, your sex life changes. We went through a long trial at the start because we were both very turned on in relation to denial & teasing. Initially we did not use a cage and for early 6 months we played with the denial. He would be allowed or orgasm but it had to be manual and he had to do it himself, he could watch me for instance playing with some toys. Each time I refused him sex his frustration was coming off him like heat and he was so turned on by it. We decided on chastity which was another level especially now. He gets treats and i allow him to orgasm once or twice a month, but it is most often ruined. I let watch me having sex with others, including my friend Jess who is in the lifestyle too. He is still so turned on by his denial that he leaks. I have said this before, the moment that he tells me he doesnt want this anymore i would stop, but it would be hard to get there. Its difficult to explain to a guy the difference to sleeping with a very fit and hung bull or bulls, but it is addictive. Over the lockdown period we had sex pretty much every day but it had to use the harness and a selection of toys to bolt onto it, be it a big dildo over his cage. But this has to be a joint agreement and we love eachother very much. I have been asked many times about the apparently cruelty of my teasing, as it can be kind of *******, but its what he loves and what i crave.
J
Xoxoxoxo

It sounds like you've both found your groove and you are both very lucky, how do you think it will evolve?

 

[honest37]

I’m almost 30 years older than my Filipina wife. My libido has waned over the years, and I’m happy with sex about once a month, on average. I’m never “denied,” and am fully satisfied.

However, my wife has a half-black boyfriend around her age, who has lived with us almost 3 years. They make love almost daily, and he’s my wife’s primary lover by default. Still, being a catholic Filipina, she’s very committed to our marriage.

My wife’s boyfriend views me as like an uncle and mentor, and we often do things together like fishing or watching sports.

My wife is a jealous sort, and her boyfriend is 100 percent faithful to her, as I am. Our arrangementworks well for all involved.

Great! Could you show a glimpse of how she looks like? Thanks

 

[Kinkyjtowncpl]

He probably has no desire to have sex with you.

I'd tend to agree especially after saying that her bf asks her to talk dirty to him as she jacks him off or he gets himself off. In my experiences in the past with exes that I no longer wanted to fuck, I'd ask the same thing so I could just close my eyes and think about someone I DO want to fuck. Lol

 

[erika9009]

I used to meet a lot of girls and fuck with her in the past without any problems.

But since I watch Interracial porn, I can only get hard and jerk off with the porn, and when I am with a girl I cant have an erection
I have not fucked since summer.

Is that a problem? Or what do you think?

I don't know if this has been answered for you or not. You have fallen into the desensitizing that porn does. It something that continues to escalate as you watch more. What used to turn you on, doesn't anymore. Then, you move on to something else a bit more extreme each time.

Stop watching porn. A site called NoFrap.com can give you insight. The next time you meet a girl, just concentrate on listening to her. Then, expand on what she brings up. Like if she says she's from NYC. Ask her if she went to Broadway. Then ask what was the best play. If you've seen the play or the movie, talk about it.

 

[erika9009]

Depends on your definition of sex, his penis hasn't penetrated me in over 5 years and he has mostly been in chastity for 8 years. We still kiss and he goes down on me almost daily. Every few weeks I peg him or fist him. If I haven't seen a lover in a few days and I am really horny, sometimes I allow him to fuck me with a strap-on, while wearing chastity.

I know this might be TMI to post here. How did you start fisting him? Do you tell him it was going to happen? How long did it take to actually get your hand all the way in.

I'm asking because most of the sex i have with my husband is me pegging him. I like it slow and sensual and just hearing him quietly moan is so intoxicating. More than once I thought I could try fisting him to see if we liked it. I usually giggled thinking there is no way I could fit my full hand up inside him.

 

[Kyra]

I know this might be TMI to post here. How did you start fisting him? Do you tell him it was going to happen? How long did it take to actually get your hand all the way in.

I'm asking because most of the sex i have with my husband is me pegging him. I like it slow and sensual and just hearing him quietly moan is so intoxicating. More than once I thought I could try fisting him to see if we liked it. I usually giggled thinking there is no way I could fit my full hand up inside him.

Hubby is a fan of larger dildos, he is more of a size queen than I am! Didn't have to work up to it, my hand was smaller than some of the toys he played with so I slid right in the first time I tried.

 

[erika9009]

Hubby is a fan of larger dildos, he is more of a size queen than I am! Didn't have to work up to it, my hand was smaller than some of the toys he played with so I slid right in the first time I tried.

Nice. He was already stretched sufficiently. I keep thinking about this and even had a set of anal dilators "in the cart." I'm not sure if I'm going there or not. I think the biggest is 2 inch dia. My hand is sure bigger than that. I'll have to find some other sizes once he gets there.

 

[curious28]

Nice. He was already stretched sufficiently. I keep thinking about this and even had a set of anal dilators "in the cart." I'm not sure if I'm going there or not. I think the biggest is 2 inch dia. My hand is sure bigger than that. I'll have to find some other sizes once he gets there.

 

[curious28]

This is a question to all the women on here. When was the last time you had sex with your white husband or boyfriend?

I have not had sex or done anything sexual with my white boyfriend for just over a year now. It will be 13 months on Sunday. The closest thing he gets to doing anything at all sexual to me is hugging.

 

[curious28]

very hot

Yes

 

[Shelbygrl❤️]

Last night, it was fantastic

Oh, and again this morning!

Same! Last night! It was great!

 

[Conny]

it depends how you define sex, if you count pussy licking as sex for hubby then he has sex almost every day, if you count only his full orgasmic ejaculations as sex then he is sexless, only ruined orgasms approx. every two month

 

[Judi J]

This is a question to all the women on here. When was the last time you had sex with your white husband or boyfriend?

I have not had sex or done anything sexual with my white boyfriend for just over a year now. It will be 13 months on Sunday. The closest thing he gets to doing anything at all sexual to me is hugging.

It was Sunday and it was good. True we don't have sex as often as we used to (which was daily) but I would never deny him.