My wife and I have been together for 13 years, we love each other dearly, have probably argued 10 times in 13 years, and we trust each other to the death. But when we met, we were just friends and she made it clear she wasn't attracted to me sexually, and wasn't interested in anything sexual with me but still be friends and hang out. Over the early period she was still dating men, while I was her 'wingman'.
She knew my past as a cuck with my ex wife, plus my small size.. and over time she would tell me about what she'd get up to with guys on dates, like you'd tell a girlfriend. She also would tell me and knew I masturbated to her stories, text messages, pics. Anyway, we slowly fell for each other over time and in a way, she admits she 'settled' with me, wanting a happy house, *******, to be with an honest/ good provider... and that was me.
The reality is, she never did become sexually attracted to me. I'm very submissive and she'd never be with a submissive/ beta type in a million years if it wasn't me.
We have 'maintenance' sex ocassionally, we may fuck 6/8 times a year, but its always with a condom, its usually over very quickly and thats it for another couple of months or so.
I'd love to have more sex with her, but she doesn't 'deny' me because she said at the start she didn't want sex with me. It was my choice I guess, and because neither of us have moved the goal posts, no one has reneged on a previous agreement of plenty of sex then turn supply off.
I wouldn't say i'm sexless, my wife encourages me to masturbate as much as I want and as often, but she just doesn't enjoy intercourse with me or has even put my cum to her lips in 12 years... she didn't want it when we met and still doesn't.
To others, this would probably be a living hell for regular men, yet, we are extremely happy together.