How long have you made your husband/boyfriend go without sex?

I used to meet a lot of girls and fuck with her in the past without any problems.

But since I watch Interracial porn, I can only get hard and jerk off with the porn, and when I am with a girl I cant have an erection
I have not fucked since summer.

Is that a problem? Or what do you think?
Its psychological and will be difficult to change or break if that's what you're seeking an answer to. As with most addictions you may need to seek professional help if you can't break the draw yourself. Otherwise, you'll seek or lust or fantasize more and more until well...
 
24 days and counting...I told him I want to be the one who initiates it. Tbh, I found out that it really helps. He is more attentive now as he desperateůy wants to get into my panties. Since I have more power, it also somehow makes it easier for me to be more dominant with him.
Times have changed. More men desire dominant women. And I'm not talking about a cockhold relationship. I'm talking in general. Its sexy. It...
 
The longest we've gone is about 4 months of no sexual contact at all, we don't have a lot of penetrative sex at the best of times, perhaps 4-6 times a year. A lot of it comes about from me being so sexually submissive and never being able to initiate sex, its always her that says when its on, even if its only me licking her pussy, its still comes from her asking for it.. the bit we've never been able to get on top of is, she's only really turned on by alpha type men who know how to 'take charge' and without that, she doesn't really need sex beyond masturbating and occassionally have me lick her pussy and ass while she gets herself off.
 
I don’t know when the last time I was inside of my wife. Sex for us is me eating her to orgasm and me jerking off while watching ir porn. I have a bbc dildo that I am going to use on her the next time we fool around.
I highly recommend it. Although nothing beats sex with a real, skilled man with a BBC, on days that I am not with another man, a BBC dildo still gives me infinitely more pleasure than my husband’s dick ever could. My favorite is the vibrating Mr. Marcus. Although there are other bigger BBC dildos, I enjoy the vibrating function. However, it is not made of silicone, which is considered the best material. Also, if your wife has not been with well endowed men recently, it may be necessary to acclimate her pussy by starting with smaller dildos and working up.

By the way, I was wondering why you and your wife have stopped having penetrative sex if she has not yet started enjoying other men or even dildos that are superior to your penis.
 
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Hun I'm in the same boat. Michael asked for this and told me I could take charge and decide whatever cuckold relationship I wanted. It took Two yrs to discuss and for me to agree so I read up on it. It started light at first just denying him. Then in came chastity, my bulls followed and now I am exclusive to them (2 regulars and 2 now and again). He also didn't expect the level of take it and now he hasn't had sex for over a year. He's been caged for nearly 10 months or so (can't recall the exact date) but we made an agreement that he would remain caged and denied till the end of 2019. But I confess that I myself can't see the point of going back to him for sex. I'm in orgasmic heaven and Michael can't compete. So I'm starting to think along the same path as you. But again it was his choice.
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I had had a thread today asking bout this.

Females why be with a man you don't want to be intimate with.

Males doesn't it bother you not having intercourse with your significant other
My wife and I have been together for 13 years, we love each other dearly, have probably argued 10 times in 13 years, and we trust each other to the death. But when we met, we were just friends and she made it clear she wasn't attracted to me sexually, and wasn't interested in anything sexual with me but still be friends and hang out. Over the early period she was still dating men, while I was her 'wingman'.

She knew my past as a cuck with my ex wife, plus my small size.. and over time she would tell me about what she'd get up to with guys on dates, like you'd tell a girlfriend. She also would tell me and knew I masturbated to her stories, text messages, pics. Anyway, we slowly fell for each other over time and in a way, she admits she 'settled' with me, wanting a happy house, *******, to be with an honest/ good provider... and that was me.

The reality is, she never did become sexually attracted to me. I'm very submissive and she'd never be with a submissive/ beta type in a million years if it wasn't me.

We have 'maintenance' sex ocassionally, we may fuck 6/8 times a year, but its always with a condom, its usually over very quickly and thats it for another couple of months or so.

I'd love to have more sex with her, but she doesn't 'deny' me because she said at the start she didn't want sex with me. It was my choice I guess, and because neither of us have moved the goal posts, no one has reneged on a previous agreement of plenty of sex then turn supply off.

I wouldn't say i'm sexless, my wife encourages me to masturbate as much as I want and as often, but she just doesn't enjoy intercourse with me or has even put my cum to her lips in 12 years... she didn't want it when we met and still doesn't.

To others, this would probably be a living hell for regular men, yet, we are extremely happy together.
 
My wife and I have been together for 13 years, we love each other dearly, have probably argued 10 times in 13 years, and we trust each other to the death. But when we met, we were just friends and she made it clear she wasn't attracted to me sexually, and wasn't interested in anything sexual with me but still be friends and hang out. Over the early period she was still dating men, while I was her 'wingman'.

She knew my past as a cuck with my ex wife, plus my small size.. and over time she would tell me about what she'd get up to with guys on dates, like you'd tell a girlfriend. She also would tell me and knew I masturbated to her stories, text messages, pics. Anyway, we slowly fell for each other over time and in a way, she admits she 'settled' with me, wanting a happy house, *******, to be with an honest/ good provider... and that was me.

The reality is, she never did become sexually attracted to me. I'm very submissive and she'd never be with a submissive/ beta type in a million years if it wasn't me.

We have 'maintenance' sex ocassionally, we may fuck 6/8 times a year, but its always with a condom, its usually over very quickly and thats it for another couple of months or so.

I'd love to have more sex with her, but she doesn't 'deny' me because she said at the start she didn't want sex with me. It was my choice I guess, and because neither of us have moved the goal posts, no one has reneged on a previous agreement of plenty of sex then turn supply off.

I wouldn't say i'm sexless, my wife encourages me to masturbate as much as I want and as often, but she just doesn't enjoy intercourse with me or has even put my cum to her lips in 12 years... she didn't want it when we met and still doesn't.

To others, this would probably be a living hell for regular men, yet, we are extremely happy together.
As long as it works for you. For us it would be a big change. But after she gets truly filled who knows what she'll want
 
My boyfriend asked for this, so I am just giving him what he wants. He probably just didn't anticipate it going on for so long. But the longer this goes on the less I actually want to go back to having sex with him, I think we are both getting to the stage where we have a mutual understanding that we will never have sex ever again.
If he fucking any other girl and only not you, may be he is not interested to have sex with you. How many other cocks you enjoyed during this period?
 
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