Stamina has been an issue for us for a lot of our 40 year relationship, but it’s absolutely more acute since developing an interest in cuckolding.
I have about 4.75” erect but very narrow. We’ve adapted in a natural way to doing more and more that doesn’t involve my penis now and that’s been a great development, and a big turn-on as well. We cage play too.
But those occasions when we DO have conventional penetrative sex, it’s all for me now and we save it til the very end, after I’ve done a lot of oral and/or toy play on her and she’s gotten off. It’s funny, while the pressure to satisfy is obviously reduced, there’s still a real element of performance anxiety. I’m convinced it’s just a guy thing; I just don’t think that ever goes away completely for someone who’s had issues!
Unless I slow down or take pauses, it usually wraps up quickly. And true to form, even if I’m not fully erect, when I’m all excited and put in that position of sexual responsibility, of “control” and “dominance”,
of having to fuck, I become overwhelmed with sensation and my composure tends to falter and quickly evaporate. I’ll usually pop within a minute, two at most. Which is fine now.
This is from last weekend and it definitely didn’t last too much longer than what you see here.
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