This is one of the things in this life’s where everyone won’t be compatible, we always play together with her in the focus, I’m always active and taking part, most new people won’t be comfortable dominating her as she wants to.
If the bulk isn’t comfortable with this then we aren’t compatible, there’s nothing wrong with that, there are lots of reasons why people aren’t sexually compatible.
Our preference hasn’t really been a problem for us, some people have gotten sorted out early for not respecting our boundaries, or for not being compatible as explained above, but we’ve also met a lot of bulls that get off on it, it usually leads to more relaxed and natural sex with lots of pleasure and a few laughs.