How did you discover the interracial cuckold or interracial hotwife lifestyle?

Ive always seemed to have gfs cheat on me with black men. (I wrote about 2 of the experiences here..https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/what-was-your-path-to-the-cuckold-lifestyle.258384/post-5033205)

When watching internet porn i remember the first time I saw Dark Secret .com. First of all, I was young and naive and I thought i would get in trouble for going to such sites. The police never came to bust me...ha. Secondly I felt so guilty but so intrigued watching some of the videos from the interracial and cuckold site. That started a long journey of enjoying internet interracial porn. Over the years, I have to have gotten off thousands of times watching interracial porn that mimic the scenarios that I know my ex girlfriends were in with their black lovers. I've watched hundreds of white girls giving large black cocks blowjobs and gladly swallowing every single drop of what they got. I've seen thousands of big booty white girls getting their asses clapped by big dicked black men and loving every second of it.
I hope you are partnered with a hotwife, my friend. If not, you need to make it your life's mission to find one! You deserve it and would truly enjoy it, just as I do.

When I met my wife on our first date we talked about past relationships and she said her ex was boring and that she wanted a man who was more sexually adventurous. I then told her that I have done swinging in the past and enjoyed watching the most. That's all it took to make us click and we've been married and swinging in this lifestyle for over 15 years.

If you guys are on the edge, go out and do it. If you're in a relationship, start slow at first, just have her give the stud a hand job. See how you both like it. If you don't like it, no harm no foul. It was just a handjob and you won't do it again. But if it excited the both of you, do a bit more the next time and the next time and the next time.....you get the idea. That's how my wife and I did it. Even after our very frank discussions about swinging and agreement, we still went slowly at first. We both didn't want to wreck our relationship. I only recommend couples start into this lifestyle slowly. Take little baby steps, even if it takes you a couple years to get to full on sex. The journey itself is fun. More than you can imagine.
 
I hope you are partnered with a hotwife, my friend. If not, you need to make it your life's mission to find one! You deserve it and would truly enjoy it, just as I do.

When I met my wife on our first date we talked about past relationships and she said her ex was boring and that she wanted a man who was more sexually adventurous. I then told her that I have done swinging in the past and enjoyed watching the most. That's all it took to make us click and we've been married and swinging in this lifestyle for over 15 years.

If you guys are on the edge, go out and do it. If you're in a relationship, start slow at first, just have her give the stud a hand job. See how you both like it. If you don't like it, no harm no foul. It was just a handjob and you won't do it again. But if it excited the both of you, do a bit more the next time and the next time and the next time.....you get the idea. That's how my wife and I did it. Even after our very frank discussions about swinging and agreement, we still went slowly at first. We both didn't want to wreck our relationship. I only recommend couples start into this lifestyle slowly. Take little baby steps, even if it takes you a couple years to get to full on sex. The journey itself is fun. More than you can imagine.
Thanks! It took me a long time to realize what I was and to accept it. Not easy for every man to do that. and to take a back seat to male bulls. My girl and I broke up but the idea is to find a woman that's into a bull/wife/cuck relationship
 
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Thanks! It took me a long time to realize what I was and to accept it. Not easy for every man to do that. and to take a back seat to male bulls.

It's just a fantasy game, that's all. Don't take it so seriously and have fun with it. It's like cosplay or acting. It's not you.

Most times after everyone cums, we all break character and start passing around beers having a great time. And when it's time for another round of sex, we quickly get back into character. It's sex for all of us. We're all in on the game and it's fun. But deep down, we all know we're all friends sharing in a fantasy game together.

Again, don't take it so seriously or overthink it. You'll miss out.
 
It's just a fantasy game, that's all. Don't take it so seriously and have fun with it. It's like cosplay or acting. It's not you.

Most times after everyone cums, we all break character and start passing around beers having a great time. And when it's time for another round of sex, we quickly get back into character. It's sex for all of us. We're all in on the game and it's fun. But deep down, we all know we're all friends sharing in a fantasy game together.

Again, don't take it so seriously or overthink it. You'll miss out.
That's a great attitude to have about it.
 
After I found out that my young wife was cheating with a black guy, and a colleague at work told me that interracial relationships are growing, I started to look around. I not only began searching the internet but I began to notice many of the white girls at the college where I teach spending time with the black guys on campus. When I paid attention, I found the prevalence of white girls/black guys to be much greater than I realized.
 
After I found out that my young wife was cheating with a black guy, and a colleague at work told me that interracial relationships are growing, I started to look around. I not only began searching the internet but I began to notice many of the white girls at the college where I teach spending time with the black guys on campus. When I paid attention, I found the prevalence of white girls/black guys to be much greater than I realized.
You can find it everywhere online. It's like jazz music. if you want to get into it, there's an endless supply of it online.
 
In adolescence and early adulthood.
The first time I was very young, a friend rented a porn film that was only with black people, in one of those parts the actress Kaylynn had sex with 5 black guys. That caught my attention, I loved that contrast of skin, but it was something I kept to myself.

Until one time I went out with a white girl, she said that she had had sex with a huge black man and wouldn't stop talking about his dick. At the same time I got excited. It was then that I realized that I didn't like this not only in pornography, but that I wouldn't mind bringing it into my personal life.
 
We started out as swingers but even then I preferred watching, however my wife had never been black.
Porn was what caught my attention of the IR cuckold lifestyle.
I started off with searching bbc porn and quickly discovered IR cuckold porn and with the likes of dogfart and others I quickly became addicted and soon started looking at black men as the alpha male in the bedroom.
I eventually discovered this site and realised that I wasn't alone with my feelings of wanting to watch a alpha black man fuck my wife.
This site and a small group of members here helped give me the confidence to approach my wife about my feelings.
It took me almost a year and half to gently convince my wife to try bbc, but with just over 4 years of being a cuckold couple we haven't looked back.
 
Posted this lots of times before but don’t mind going over it again just for you xxx

January 1987 ( I think) RAF Brize Norton husband was away on exercise Hardfall in Norway I’d only been married a few months and living in a second floor married quarter flat Stanmore Cresent I think. He’d been away about two weeks it was really cold snow everywhere and I was really fed up so one Saturday morning I booked a hair appointment at the hairdressers in the same block where I lived to cheer myself up Once my hair was done I popped over the road to the local NAFFI supermarket to get some shopping and wine lol I did noticed this black guy in there but didn’t give him a second thought. He was at the till the same time as me and as I left he could see I was struggling with all the shopping and gentlemanly offered to help with a deep “can I help you ma’am”

At least 6ft 6in his massive arms just seemed to swallow my shopping up, of course I came over all unnecessary and said some ridiculous idiotic things as I tottered on my high heels on the short walk to my flat flicking my hair and sticking my bottom out, I established he was an American Airforce policeman based a little Rissington a few miles from Brize Norton and his wife had returned to California as she couldn’t stand the English weather, “Awwwe that’s a shame” I said, you must really miss her” really thinking other things Once at my flat he stopped at my door so I asked if he’d mind placing the shopping on the kitchen table, plan being offer him a coffee and get to know him a little. Somehow during the exchange of shopping of the last bag his forearm and my right breast came into contact and got a bit stuck our eyes met and for a brief second we froze,,,,, then kissed then passion just took over. Before I knew where I was I was bent over the kitchen table my white Aron sweater dress was up around my waist, my pink french knickers (fashionable in the eighties lol) and my opaque tights were down by knees and he entered me OMG!!! I though he was going to split me in two!!
His thrusts pleasured my senses in waves and I was unable to speak, mouth open but nothing came out! I just banged the kitchen table with my hand, he came quite quickly to be honest but his instinctive final push as he splattered warm semen on my cervix was deliciously painful. He collapsed on top of me and we just froze there. I was pinned to the table and couldn’t move, “oh man” he said “I so needed that.” He withdrew slowly even that was enjoyable but the noises where so embarrassing!!! There was a puddle of spunk on the floor!!! I turned and gave him gentle girlie kisses and tried to establish a time when we could meet again, he was guilt ridden and said he really didn’t know. Not me!!
I wanted more and soon! lol

There then followed a full blown affair at his flat and mine, as I indulged his lingerie fetish with my credit card from the house of Dorian ( the local ladies wear shop) several days I went to work quiet sore, I’d do anything to please him xxx
 
Posted this lots of times before but don’t mind going over it again just for you xxx

January 1987 ( I think) RAF Brize Norton husband was away on exercise Hardfall in Norway I’d only been married a few months and living in a second floor married quarter flat Stanmore Cresent I think. He’d been away about two weeks it was really cold snow everywhere and I was really fed up so one Saturday morning I booked a hair appointment at the hairdressers in the same block where I lived to cheer myself up Once my hair was done I popped over the road to the local NAFFI supermarket to get some shopping and wine lol I did noticed this black guy in there but didn’t give him a second thought. He was at the till the same time as me and as I left he could see I was struggling with all the shopping and gentlemanly offered to help with a deep “can I help you ma’am”

At least 6ft 6in his massive arms just seemed to swallow my shopping up, of course I came over all unnecessary and said some ridiculous idiotic things as I tottered on my high heels on the short walk to my flat flicking my hair and sticking my bottom out, I established he was an American Airforce policeman based a little Rissington a few miles from Brize Norton and his wife had returned to California as she couldn’t stand the English weather, “Awwwe that’s a shame” I said, you must really miss her” really thinking other things Once at my flat he stopped at my door so I asked if he’d mind placing the shopping on the kitchen table, plan being offer him a coffee and get to know him a little. Somehow during the exchange of shopping of the last bag his forearm and my right breast came into contact and got a bit stuck our eyes met and for a brief second we froze,,,,, then kissed then passion just took over. Before I knew where I was I was bent over the kitchen table my white Aron sweater dress was up around my waist, my pink french knickers (fashionable in the eighties lol) and my opaque tights were down by knees and he entered me OMG!!! I though he was going to split me in two!!
His thrusts pleasured my senses in waves and I was unable to speak, mouth open but nothing came out! I just banged the kitchen table with my hand, he came quite quickly to be honest but his instinctive final push as he splattered warm semen on my cervix was deliciously painful. He collapsed on top of me and we just froze there. I was pinned to the table and couldn’t move, “oh man” he said “I so needed that.” He withdrew slowly even that was enjoyable but the noises where so embarrassing!!! There was a puddle of spunk on the floor!!! I turned and gave him gentle girlie kisses and tried to establish a time when we could meet again, he was guilt ridden and said he really didn’t know. Not me!!
I wanted more and soon! lol

There then followed a full blown affair at his flat and mine, as I indulged his lingerie fetish with my credit card from the house of Dorian ( the local ladies wear shop) several days I went to work quiet sore, I’d do anything to please him xxx
Fucking beautiful and hot.
 
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